• Jelqing

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    silveroldie [sign in to see picture]
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    Just read all this - and as a female it is possble for the man's cock to be too big .

    Now a nice firm one that fills you nicely and is just big enough for you to feel it moving is absolutely marvellous and oooooh the wonderful feeling as he comes inside you - FANTASTIC

    However if it's so big that he's constantly banging on your cervix - now that's NOT nice - yes it hurts, and when it happens we tense up and that makes it hurt more .

    Having said that yes I miss it but I did use to enjoy him gently feeling my cervix - describing how it would open very slightly as he played there and also moved it . Moving the cervix HAS to be done very gently and carefully but it used to help me get nearer to orgasm - once he then moved to my clit and the lovely pulsating cock filled me - then we would often climax together.

    Cock size does matter , but I don't think it does to us females as it seems to do to you men - oh and I never really enjoyed oral sex - though I know he enjoyed having his cock in my mouth - I found it was a bit big for that and my gag reflex had to be watched .

    Oh guys be proud of yourselves and your 'bits'. All I know now is that when we no longer have sex , speaking for myself , I really really miss it and I would give anything not to be able to be aching [ yes I do mean that - physically] for it now .

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    John1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    BashfulBabe wrote:

    Sometimes even if it's only a 'placebo effect', it can be worth the dosh. I know with some of the aphrodisiac beauty products, regardless of whether they worked or not, feeling like you were more sexually attractive was enough to make your confidence make you more attractive. So even if there's zero change, if you feel like you've improved, the facts don't matter, because the confidence makes such a massive difference.

    Incidentally, have you tried using a cock ring if it's for during sex? I still remember the first time my fella put one on, there was a definite increase in size - mostly girth, but a little length - and it was immediate, if temporary (and a little scary, since he's not exactly tiny to begin with!).

    Yes, I do own a cock ring and yest it doesn give me a very hard erection that brings me to my maximum size but this still looks small to me. And I want to also improve my size when I'm floppy.

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    silveroldie wrote:

    Just read all this - and as a female it is possble for the man's cock to be too big .

    Now a nice firm one that fills you nicely and is just big enough for you to feel it moving is absolutely marvellous and oooooh the wonderful feeling as he comes inside you - FANTASTIC

    However if it's so big that he's constantly banging on your cervix - now that's NOT nice - yes it hurts, and when it happens we tense up and that makes it hurt more .

    Having said that yes I miss it but I did use to enjoy him gently feeling my cervix - describing how it would open very slightly as he played there and also moved it . Moving the cervix HAS to be done very gently and carefully but it used to help me get nearer to orgasm - once he then moved to my clit and the lovely pulsating cock filled me - then we would often climax together.

    Cock size does matter , but I don't think it does to us females as it seems to do to you men - oh and I never really enjoyed oral sex - though I know he enjoyed having his cock in my mouth - I found it was a bit big for that and my gag reflex had to be watched .

    Oh guys be proud of yourselves and your 'bits'. All I know now is that when we no longer have sex , speaking for myself , I really really miss it and I would give anything not to be able to be aching [ yes I do mean that - physically] for it now .

    I've never hit the cervix of any woman. I would love to have a penis large enough to be able to do this. I don't want to obviously hurt my gf but I would like to be able to fill her vagina completely. Would feel awesome.

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    Hi I tried it some time ago and I am not sure it does what it says on the tin .

    I feel you need to give a lot of commitment . and if you stop for any period of time then you you lose what advantage ???you may have got ?? One was supposed to use tablets in conjunction but I still think it was a bit of a con ?

    I too am not huge but I do wonder if there is any benifit . But there is no harm in trying .

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    Hi I really think you have done all guys with less than average sized penis a good service because I have heard the average size of a ladies cervix is 5ins and if a guy has as a lot of guys like to say I have a 9 inch one then this would put a lot of women off . So I would think many ladies would be happy with a 5 and a half to six inch es to play with . I know I love playing with my 5 and a half inches

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    I dont believe this is effective in enhancing penis size and if it does it is only for a short period of time

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    I am just skipping though a few pages of posts here so I apologise if this has been said already and it probably has but the more woman that say it the better I guess. Women really don't care about penis size, its usually a male ego thing. OP at 5.5 inches you are exactly average length and ~average~ doesnt mean boring or uninteresting it means normal really. And I guess the male average is the male average for a reason, because its the most suitable for us ladies! Yeh ofc there are guys with bigger guys with smaller, and yes there are women out there as you said who go around giggling excitedly about how hugely massive their new boyfriend is and maybe in general male strippers do have bigger than average willies but....BUT heres my opinion:

    1) I cant stand women who go around reducing men to the penis size giggling and getting excited with their mates about his 12 inch monster just as much as I cant stand men who go around reducing women to a pair of tits or ass. but there are these kind of people in the world who are insecure or just vain and shallow who almost get a buzz out of having the most desirable bit of totty hanging off their arm to boost their social status, so maybe these women screaming about their new blokes giant penis are doing just that because I cannot think why a group of women would get off on this? I know it happens but I just think its a bit pathetic to go round and socially start talking about your partner like a slab of meat. The stripper thing, first of all I imagine men being men would be less likely to take off their clothes in front of a group of strange drunk scary women unless they downright knew they had a boa constricter down there. Which in part may explain why generally strippers and I guess porn stars, are bigger than average. Also why do the women go nuts for this strippers boa? Well many reasons but none of them are because they are wetting their seats hoping to get a peice of it. Its because of group/mob mentality, out with the girls, bit tipsy, something naughty is happening, omg a mans wiggling his willy, other girls are cheering, woooooo moreeee......you get my drift hehe. because like you said, women are really not visual. Yes we fancy men and have types we go for etc but we never ever ever (well most of us never ever) get handed a picture of a penis and think "I have "GOT" to date that guy! :D but hey ho moving on to my next point:

    2) I am female, I am 29 and have experienced a penis or two in my time lol id say most of them were about your size, but there was 1 or 2 that were larger by a fair amount. Did they make the most exciting lovers? Did they fill me up so much I had massive spontanious orgasms uncontrollably all over him? Nope. Not only were they no better lovers than my other partners but also and in some cases they were worse. One reason being it was painful! Some positions were awkward, even if I was ready and lubed up too I still felt sore and chafed afterwards (I know blokes think this is something to aim for, you know the old story ~yehhh I banged her so hard she coudnt walk...okay....how bout we bang you so hard we snap your dick? not so cute now eh lol) but also blowjobs I assume were less good for him, considering the longer and fatter it is, the less stimulation hes going to get unless she has no gag relex and a throat the size of a toilet roll tube I dunno :D but in my case I also found the blokes were more arrogant. A few exes tell them they have a large penis and now they think all they have to do it drop trouser and the womans going to be writhing around eyes rolling back. They rely on the sex too much thinking thats their forté. I mean come on its so big its going to make her cum who needs foreplay, teasing, licking, kissing, loving, lets just get this big boy in there! pfft no no no!

    Ok so I am a woman, do I prefer bigger ones, no. Do I sometimes see a porn video of a guy with a 12 inch willy and click on it....yes. why? Because I am curious! Not to try it or desire for it but almost like going to see a freak show lol, (on a much lesser level ofc) there is a video in front of me of a man with an abnormally large appendage and I want to see what it looks like, can it get hard? omg is he going to fit that in her BUM! ouch does he cum more? no yes? you get my drift here? Its actually more of a human nature curiosity that drives me anyway to see something like "12 inch penis" and go oooh ok i wanna see. But I would be just as likely if I saw a headline saying "woman with breasts the size of beanbags", to click on that too for the same reasons. In other words it isnt a sexual curiosity for me just a human nature curiosity. If my new date dropped his pants and it was 12 inches my face would not light up. I would actually be pretty scared. I would be thinking things like "what if I cant fit it all in, hes going to think I am rubbish" During blowjobs I would be thinking I was rubbish because I couldnt get more than a third in, you know? things like that! I think some blokes with big penises actually see it as a bad thing from some stories I have heard because of these reasons I mention. They struggle to have full penetration with their partners, certain positions are a no no, the mention of anal sex makes his partner faint etc etc that kind of stuff. Yeh average is average for a reason!

    I dont know about other women but if we took everything else away from the sexual experience and were just left with penetration alone, I think half of us would first of all not really notice that much difference from a guy with 5 inch and a guy with 7, yeh maybe slightly but would we be having multiple orgasms? no I doubt we would even be having that much fun because (Sorry guys) for me, and many other women its not all about the penetration. Its the kissing, naughty talking, holding each other, hands running everywhere, the warmth the light touches the gentle licks the squeezes etc etc etc....the penis entering the vagina is not more or less pleasurable based on the size of it at all, but almost always based on how good you are at all that other sexy stuff.A lot of us cannot even orgasm through penetration alone because all our nerve endings are in the clitoris, outside the vagina, away from the penetration action, so it has always mystified me that guys think the way to becoming a stud lover is to grow a bigger willy rather than grow a vibrating tongue or something lol.

    But I do realise now this isnt a woman thing, women do not want bigger ones, men do, its an ego thing A man kinda bases his manliness and maleness around his balls and penis and I guess its like women who dont develop any breasts, they feel less womanly and they can feel insecure enough become very paranoid about it and I think this is the same thing. but honestly we are all different, there is someone for everyone, There are women out there who are size queens and demand a large penis or dump you yes, but these are the female equivelant of the men who will only date the blonde bunny girls with the big boobs size 8 legs up to her arse. Because the two are the same, they are only interested in you for your looks and how much you can boost their social standing among their friends. Most of us average (Normal) women prefer the average (normal sized) man lol

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    However sorry to your original point if you are intent on lenthening your penis then that is fine. We all try to enchance ourselves in different ways, from makeup to high heels to tans and teeth whitening to cosmetic surgery. If it makes you happy then ofc go for it. However I have always thought it wasnt possible to lengthen your penis? Not permanently anyway without surgery (and even then they just snip the tendon bit under your pubic bone so your penis only appears longer when soft but is the same hard) Other options like injecting fat into it can leave you with a wonky lumpy willy I watch way too much documentories on TV lol

    Temprary options like creams cock rings and pumps are an option and I guess these work by bringing/keeping more blood into the area and causing swelling. This will of course go away within hours/days. Think about it. your penis is a tubular thing with skin on. Now I guess its possible to stretch the skin as you describe, causing micro tears that will scar up and if done often enough I guess this scar tissue forming will make your penis longer, but its going to be marginal, and wouldnt it take yearsssss of doing this to even get to an extra inch (If the theory works anyway of course) and cause you potential pain/damage to the tubes inside? Can they scar wrong and potentially cause you to narrow the tubes inside, maybe causing loss of erections, scar tissue is less sensitive so could it cause loss of feeling? etc. These are things I guess you need to look into but it sounds like so much work and so much pain and potential damage for something that is already pefectly normal. But honestly I do understand it, if something bothers you that much then you have this desire to fix it but just make sure you find out all info you can (which you obv are doing posting on here is a great start) Good luck matey xx

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