Turned on by sharing!

BigPoppa---Yeah I'm thinking of getting her a suction cup dildo, as trying to keep a normal vibe in when yr playing is a bit difficult!! Also know what you mean about the emotion asspect if the chance ever came.

Bulldog---- How did you manage to get photos of the wife to put on the sites!? What type were they then? Take it she doesnt read this forum!!

 No she doesn't read this forum telme (mores the pity) but all I did was show the photos on my phone to the web cam and they are rude pics through to really rude pics! lol

Bulldog66 wrote:

 No she doesn't read this forum telme (mores the pity) but all I did was show the photos on my phone to the web cam and they are rude pics through to really rude pics! lol

Lucky bugger and by the sounds (or looks!) of things, they were too! Bet you had lots of naughty thoughts the next time you took her!

 I always have naughty thoughts while i'm fucking her! lol. But yes the next time we had sex all the comments were running through my head and it was such a turn on.

Ive had MMF fantasies for many years now, have discussed them on numerous occassions with OH and we did go down the route of looking for another guy who she liked the look of, unfortunately after several phone conversations and arrangements to meet he bottled it and since then I havent been able to get her to even look again as she thinks it will go the same way. It gave her a massive confidence crash, despite her great figure and looks. So it still is and will remain a fantasy :-(

Hey John, My partner totally loves the idea of this too! He's said he's ideal fantasy would be if I was to have a one night stand and phone him while I was doing it! He said he loves the idea but only if I enjoyed it. If I was to feel bad afterwards he said it wouldn't be worth it. Personally I love the idea and was glad he told me about it and I don't find it that unusual at all. We're getting married and have a great strong relationship but as a previous poster said you don't know how you'd feel afterwards until it was too late. So we're considering getting another guy to join in, I would love 2 guys at once and he'd get to see me with someone else, maybe thats something your gf would like? But it'll take a lot of talking and thinking about before or if it ever does happen. But your not alone, my friends hubby has the same fantasy aswell. :)

miss_sh89, you are a lucky girl!  Telling him whats happening on the phone when your having it with a stranger sounds a right turn on! Have fun and welcome to the site.

miss_sh89 wrote:

Hey John, My partner totally loves the idea of this too! He's said he's ideal fantasy would be if I was to have a one night stand and phone him while I was doing it! He said he loves the idea but only if I enjoyed it. If I was to feel bad afterwards he said it wouldn't be worth it. Personally I love the idea and was glad he told me about it and I don't find it that unusual at all. We're getting married and have a great strong relationship but as a previous poster said you don't know how you'd feel afterwards until it was too late. So we're considering getting another guy to join in, I would love 2 guys at once and he'd get to see me with someone else, maybe thats something your gf would like? But it'll take a lot of talking and thinking about before or if it ever does happen. But your not alone, my friends hubby has the same fantasy aswell. :)

I hate to point out the obvious 

Have you already thought that one through? Could get a bit messed up ( unless your friend joins in as well )!

Yeah thanks telmemore.

Big Poppa, even though my friends hubby has that fantasy and I would quite like a foursome he does not turn me on at all. Nice looking guy but not my type at all. It was unusual for us even to get into that conversation let alone anything more!

We were talking about it last night and think maybe just seeing me dancing or flirting with other guys when we're out might turn him on and see how we handle that.

Anyone tried this fantasy??

Oh well. Would have been far too easy wouldn't it!

I'd just be a bit careful with the flirting bit. Just thinking that if the other guy gets wind of what's going on things might get violent if he feels he's being messed with.

Never ever remotely been on the cards but did tell one of my closest friends that the idea of having sex in a room with my wife with another couple going at it really excites me. Probably the closest I'll get!

I have to say I always thought my own jealousy would make any kind of sharing of my partner impossible but recently discovered him making out with another woman (also my lover in this case) was unbelievably hot... and as for when 'more' happened... even hotter.

I definitely want to do more of the same, but it would always have to be with someone I liked - if I couldn't stand her it probably would hack me off!

 I am not comfy with sharing Toireasa with another male, however I would be intrigued to see how she gets on with another women :)

The couples I have met that have allowed me to join them have always been incredibly close, and comfortable with one another not just sexually but they seem to enjoy each others company out of the bedroom too. 

Reaperr wrote:

 i wouldnt mind watching my girlfriend with another girl, but seeing her with another man would make me angry and feeling betrayed!

relationship would end ..

ive had this discussion and feel the same fantasies are better in the mind

id love to get other girl to join us tho have her come round suripse him or just make him watch and not touch id love that and i know he would now xx

 Hey everyone thx for all the replies! Some really interesting views and opinions! After spending loads of time discussing we have decided to give sharing a try, we are either going to have two 3somes (FFM & MMF) or try with another couple, both of us are very secure in our relationship and are very keen to try new experiences at least once. Not sure where this will lead us! Whether we will become hooked and want to try more and more! or we will be able to say that it isn't for us!

Thanks again for all the opinions really helped us to discuss everything!

 Hi.,

I am the "third party" in a relationship with a girl and her fiancee. Whilst I'm having sex with the girl he's right in there,filming us, telling me to "fuck her hard", asking me if I'm going to cum inside her etc. etc. but when we're not engaged in sexual activity he becomes ultra-paranoid about me having feeelings for her(which of course I do, I think that's natural) and her for me(which she does). But they are only natural feelings of fondness and lust. They sometimes argue about me when I'm not there. He seems full of contradictions. He'll sometimes take far longer than necassary to go to the shop for example. Hoping to catch us "at it". His problem seems to be,in my eyes anyway, that he gets really turned on by watching his fanacee get fucked by someone else but he feels guilty for feeling that way. I'm glad I don't have that predicament. I couldn't stand the thought of another man laying a finger on my wife when we were together. The thought of anyone,male or female, having sex with her is enough to make me feel physically sick.

I agree with the comment above - it could definitely cause jealousy. But it is a fantasy of mine that I have thought about alot. Have discussed with my hubby and he opposes the idea and i am satisfied with that. Maybe in future .. who knows.