Apologies again for bumping another ancient thread - I get the feeling that's bad manners on forums!
I think what Chels is getting at is toys which are specifically designed for lesbian sex, which particularly enhance love-making.
I'm a lesbian; my partner and I go through phases of not really using sex aids at all, and preferring more 'natural' approaches in bed. Then we get fond of our toys again, and get into them for a few weeks.
We've had strap-ons in the past, which we still have somewhere, but we prefer to use strapless double dildos, like the Feeldoe, which is our favourite (we have three models), or the Nexus, and the Toy Joy, which I got from this site, and reviewed here:
Toy Joy Strapless Strap On Double Ended Dildo&reviewpage=2
We probably use dildos more for anal sex than anything else, but the Toy Joy and Feeldoe are lovely things to have when you're in the mood. It's really nice to penetrate each other, to be inside each other, to share that experience, and to feel each other's orgasm.
Apart from toys like this, everyone else is right - I like the same kind of stuff as any woman. Never really been into vibrators, but I do own a butt plug, of which I'm fond!