Have you ever experienced female ejaculation?

Hi everyone,

We've got a new poll about female ejaculation on the Lovehoney Blog.

Whether you've got lots of experience with female ejaculation or absolutely none we would love to hear your opinions on the subject - feel free to post, discuss and vote. 

Thanks guys!

Gem at Lovehoney HQ 

Voted - No =(

Also i replied to a thread on the blog, do they get checked before they are shown because the comment hasn't appeared just wondered =)

Btw nice picture <3

Voted yes,

Took me some time to get there though.

MM xx

Voted yes too, taken me a while to be able to let myself go enough to do it though.

it always takes me a bit by surprise when it happens- and for ages i didn't know what WAS happening LOL 

voted no, did not happen to me,  but then I had first orgasm about 6 or 7 months ago only

Voted - yes

first time it happened shared the hell out of me, but now I just don't care, I squirt like a porn star now!

lol

fuzzy22a wrote:

Voted - yes

first time it happened shared the hell out of me, but now I just don't care, I squirt like a porn star now!

 ..... i trickle like a not-porn-star. think that's why it took me a while to work out what was going on 

 Voted - Yes. I have to qualify that by saying only the once. Been very close many times but I think I just can't quite let go enough or I'm not quite hitting the right spot.

It was also more of a gush than a squirt!

MrSarcastic wrote:

Voted - No =(

Also i replied to a thread on the blog, do they get checked before they are shown because the comment hasn't appeared just wondered =)

Btw nice picture <3

MrSarcastic - Comments to our blogs don't get approved, but you need to enter your email address otherwise they won't show up. You should have seen an error message, but for some reason it's not coming up at the moment -  our ever-wonderful tech team know about it though.

Thank you everyone for voting, loving your comments. 

Thanks for the info Gem i didnt enter my email because i was signed into the lovehoney site i wought you would of had them joined for members guess not though i'll re-write it when i can be bothered i guess lol Yeh was no message why i asked thanks again =)

Just came across the poll in the Blog. I can't say that I have although I find it interesting how frequent it is amongst the members here.

Voted No. On behalf of my beloved. Whilst on this subject could any of you nice ladies please tell me how you manage to get over this sort of mental block that holds you back from that final release? My wife and i both know the mechanics of F/E but when we get down to the business she gets so fired up and it just builds and builds to the point of no return and she just clamps her legs shut and refuses to finish off. She does know what will happen but cannot explain to me as to why she will not go for that final release. I personally feel that it is the embarrasment factor but she insists its not. We have been married 20 years and are open and frank with each other. How do we overcome this obstacle? We have tried having a couple of drinks to help but to no avail and she is more than happy to build to that point again and again after a couple of minutes to calm down but just will not go to that final release. She is more than happy to bring me to orgasm and enjoys watching me ejaculate anywhere and everywhere but she cannot explain why she cannot let me return the compliment, is it the mess thing or some other such reason? It's not that she's squeamish about bodily fluids we do occasionally have 'messy' sex when she is menstruating and even oral. Any advise from you lovely ladies as to how you eventually got round/over this problem would be more than welcome,

Jansman wrote:

Voted No. On behalf of my beloved. Whilst on this subject could any of you nice ladies please tell me how you manage to get over this sort of mental block that holds you back from that final release? My wife and i both know the mechanics of F/E but when we get down to the business she gets so fired up and it just builds and builds to the point of no return and she just clamps her legs shut and refuses to finish off. She does know what will happen but cannot explain to me as to why she will not go for that final release. I personally feel that it is the embarrasment factor but she insists its not. We have been married 20 years and are open and frank with each other. How do we overcome this obstacle? We have tried having a couple of drinks to help but to no avail and she is more than happy to build to that point again and again after a couple of minutes to calm down but just will not go to that final release. She is more than happy to bring me to orgasm and enjoys watching me ejaculate anywhere and everywhere but she cannot explain why she cannot let me return the compliment, is it the mess thing or some other such reason? It's not that she's squeamish about bodily fluids we do occasionally have 'messy' sex when she is menstruating and even oral. Any advise from you lovely ladies as to how you eventually got round/over this problem would be more than welcome,

I wish it was that easy... I have the same problem. I've managed it just the once and have gotten very close several times but as your wife says it's difficult to let go. The only time I managed it, it came (no pun intended) as a total surprise, I have to admit I thought I'd had an accident at first.  I find it's not the embarassment factor (I've been married for as long as you) it's more knowing when to release. I can't get my timing right, or my muscles contract involuntarily as I orgasm, which stops the 'gush'. 

I think it's just going to be down to practice, that's probably all you can do. Make sure there's plenty of towels, or such like, down so you don't have to worry about the mess and instead of pushing at the point of getting the 'have to pee' feeling just do the oppposite and relax. Maybe try it in the bath or shower so you're in a more 'appropriate' place. Try gently massaging just above your wife's pubic bone, low on her tummy, make sure the muscles are relaxed there and not all tensed up. 

There are loads of other threads on this subject if you haven't already seen them. If you do a search for it you'll see plenty to read that might help. 

Let us know if you manage it. 

Have just voted yes - OOOOO YESSSSSS!!!!

Seems to come naturally to me - can't remember first time (yrs ago) but I know it didn't freak me out - I just knew I LOVED it and wanted it to happen ALWAYS, which it pretty much does..............it's quite possible I am abnormal but i don't care!! I think I am SUPA lucky!!!! :-p

One of the BEST times fairly recently - ejactulated with OH (no toys) just using his  (magic) fingers, sprayed all the way up his arm!!!! he he hee!!! 

D69x

Voted yes (:

        I ejaculate/squirt/gush EVERY TIME I have a g-spot orgasm rigth from the first time I had an orgasm but not when I have a clitoral one and I used to be extremely embarrassed about it, but my boyfriend doesnt mind so I'm happy although my bed gets layred with towels everytime I want to play with my internal toys >.<

Thing is for me, everyone says that when a female ejaculates its like a super orgasm etc etc...I've never known any different so I wouldnt know :P

Its a no for my OH, again she just cant seem to relax into it.

First Post! Voted yes on behalf of my partner. She squirted on the first orgasm she ever had during sex a couple of months ago.

Voted yes!

Voted yes!