• How do you give a good B/J?

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    Tracey3x [sign in to see picture]
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    See i have a really small mouth and a weird jaw, it literally only opens so far and my jaw pops out on oneside when its reached its limit which is hardly anything (maybe an inch and half top to bottom) so unless he's small i dont even think it would fit in especially if he swells!

    I've only attempted 3 BJ's and on each ive struggled with my jaw and it is a major turn off, for me anyway, and i never tried it again

    I would love to be able to actually give BJ's cause personally i feel its the only real way you can show your feelings or 'appreciation' to men during sex, theres more options on women

    I also gagged alot when i did it becuase im filled so quick and i get kinda worried about my teeth since because my mouth is small i have to try so hard to open it that i cant pull my lips over them enough so that the dont scrape him

    :(

    xxx

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    ksw1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    Tracey3x wrote:

    I would love to be able to actually give BJ's cause personally i feel its the only real way you can show your feelings or 'appreciation' to men during sex, theres more options on women

    My OH rarely ventures south and I appreciate the pleasure she gives me without them. I wouldn't worry about it too much, a good handjob/boobjob can be just as pleasurable! :)

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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    I also try to make eye contact if it's possible

    This. And look like you're really enjoying yourself. Anything else is a bonus :p

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    My partner loves it if I hum while giving him oral, probably because of the vibrations but it always gets a good reaction, and gently flicking the tip of your tongue over the various most sensitive parts is good. Don't neglect his balls or the whole shaft, gently sucking the very head whilst running fingers over his balls and shaft to tease then suddenly taking his entire length in drives the OH wild every time I do it.

    Try and make it last a little longer so the climax is more powerful, but don't hold it off too long or he might become oversensitive to the point he literally can't take anymore haha.

    If you don't enjoy it, work on changing that or try teasing with your hands instead, because it does usually show and can really lessen the pleasure for him. Guys love enthusiasm and generally if you are not enjoying it (or at least ok with it), they pick up on that.

    If you don't like swallowing getting him very near then finishing him off in cowgirl with well timed clenches is guaranteed to leave him with a happy smile (obviously as long as contraception is sorted or not an issue).

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    Tracey3x [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks KSW, I suppose what i really need is a man to practice on!

    Sounds terrible ;)

    Lol

    :)

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    Thingamee [sign in to see picture]
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    I volunteer!! :D

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    Tracey3x [sign in to see picture]
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    Thingamee wrote:

    I volunteer!! :D

    Lol :P

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    make a connection between your ears and your tongue

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    PinkPolkaDot [sign in to see picture]
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    This might sound weird but has anyone heard of the 'make a fist with your left hand with your thumb inside' tip? It's supposed to stop you from gagging and it does work, but I was wondering if anyone has tried it when giving a blow job?

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    There is no answer to that !

    Its simply a case of what a man likes... and he should be the one saying what he likes

    I would expect a woman to tell me what she likes !

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    swingcouple [sign in to see picture]
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    We suggest getting the little book "Masterclass: Blowjobs" by Alice Metcalfe, from the Erotic Print Society. Plenty of good tips.

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    I have already mentioned this elsewhere, but try outting a grainy piece of shortbread in your mouth, then runiing your tongue up and down his shaft - has to be grainy shortbread tho, smooth stuff doesn't work

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    just remember not to do it like a pornstar,fast and furious is not only a turn off,its jaw achingly boring.I like to do it slow and sensual...you can arouse so many sensations with a mouth that a vagina just can't match. Use your tongue to its best advantage and swirl it around on his frenulum,then suck.....at first gently then harder.put the tip of your tongue into the opening of his cock. OK I have to stop now as I am turning myself on and my OH is out at work till late.

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    I work as an escort and do more blow jobs than you would believe,SO I feel qualified to make pronouncements like my previous post.Having said that ,everyone likes it differently dont they

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    When i give my boyfriend a blow job ive recently started the techinique of once the cock is becoming semi hard to spit on it to make it really wet before using my hands and mouth.

    Just wondering what the guys opinion is on this?

    Oh and lots of moaning while im doing it and occational eye contact. Sort of help them believe you're not there just because you feel you have to be, but because you like doing it.

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    Urghhh, been reading all these comments and it's massively making me wish I could give blow jobs!

    When I was younger I used to hate the idea of giving a guy a blow job but in the last couple of years I've done a complete 180 and now I really, really want to. And knowing that I can't just makes it worse.

    Like Tracey3x I can't open my mouth much, only my problem is a result of surgery that I had when I was 14. It's messed up all the muscles in my jaw and now they can't stretch as much as they used to be able to. I can only open my mouth to about an inch and a half and just about manage when having a trip to the dentist.

    Life sure sucks balls. (Pun intended.)

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    Love seeing an old thread bumped again! Lots of very good advice in here :)

    Sophie, Sorry if its old ground Im covering or if Im being tha noob, Are there any exercises, Relaxation techniques you can learn to relax the muscles to allow you to open your mouth wider?

    Jeez that sounds rude, Sorry!

    But thought Ild ask you know, Just incase it was something that has been overlooked?!

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    mylastserenade wrote:

    When i give my boyfriend a blow job ive recently started the techinique of once the cock is becoming semi hard to spit on it to make it really wet before using my hands and mouth.

    Just wondering what the guys opinion is on this?

    Oh and lots of moaning while im doing it and occational eye contact. Sort of help them believe you're not there just because you feel you have to be, but because you like doing it.

    If my OH did this I wouldnt last long, Put it that way lol!

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    kissing and tongue, flicking, works quite well

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    SophieM [sign in to see picture]
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    Seduced wrote:

    Love seeing an old thread bumped again! Lots of very good advice in here :)

    Sophie, Sorry if its old ground Im covering or if Im being tha noob, Are there any exercises, Relaxation techniques you can learn to relax the muscles to allow you to open your mouth wider?

    Jeez that sounds rude, Sorry!

    But thought Ild ask you know, Just incase it was something that has been overlooked?!

    Haha, it's okay!

    Unfortunately there's absolutely nothing anyone can do to help. I actually had brain surgery to remove a tumour that was growing near / on my facial nerve on the right side, so whilst removing the tumour the facial nerve was damaged. I've had rehab therapy in the past to try an aid with getting the use of my muscles back by doing daily facial exercises but it only helped a little bit and I'm never going to fully regain the use of my right facial muscles. :( On the plus side I have the coolest scar behind my ear! :P

    It's wierd though because when I open my mouth the muscles on the left work fully, but obviously the muscles on the right will only allow me to open my mouth so far, and my bottom jaw goes to the right slightly as well.

    7 years on and it still annoys the hell out of me.

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