What would you regard as perverted?

lickmadick wrote:

child abuse

scat play

and some harming practices too

same here lickmadick, although to be honest this is the first I've ever heard of scat play, not for me at all sounds pretty awful, each to their own though.

 Kinky = a feather

Perverted = the whole chicken

doubly perveted= the stuffing too

 just read this thread :) in my line of work i get to try some funny stuff. the funniest is probably a hoover fetish (i think i have one of these myself) you are probably all gonna think on the penis but this can be all over the body.

another is the daddy daughter fetish where men pretend a woman they spend time with is their daughter which sounds very perverted, but it is a very common thing and not as harmful as acting it out in real. i would make an aproximation that 75% of men i work with have fantasised about this in some form or another

another is scat play (poo play) which is also a very common fetish. i have experienced this once and i find it particularly unpleasant, not perverted but not for me. also i have found puke fetishes, animal fetishes, nappy fetishes, cake farts, sploshing, the list goes on

the word perverted to me generally refers to something perhaps disgusting and illegal such as groping strangers in public, flashing or exposing parts to anyone of any age or spying on unknowing people through windows. 

shellyboo wrote:

 I'm a proud pervert.

I look at it this way -- whatever it is you're doing in bed, someone, somewhere thinks it's perverted. It's a moral thing, and it's also an opinion -- so either EVERYTHING is perverted or NOTHING is. I enjoy labelling myself as a "pervert" because I like to embrace the sticks & stones people throw. 

Either way, as long as it's safe, sane and consensual, it's all good. No point slapping negative labels on stuff just because you're not into it... because you can guarantee there's someone out there doing the same thing to you!

So glad I'm not alone in this! I view perversion in a positive light. I'll refer to myself as a pervert and say I only date perverts because who else would put up with my kink?

However, for the sake of the thread, the only things I think that are sick and wrong, is anything non-consensual (including children and animals and deliberate spread of STIs). But maybe I'm just too accepting for my own good -- I don't have an issue with adult sibling incest as long as there's no chance of children being conceived, and I'm perfectly okay with paedophiles/hebephiles as long they do not actively pursue their desires (including, but not limited to, viewing child pornography). As long as nobody is being hurt without full consent, all's well in my eyes. There are things that don't do it for me (a lot of human excretions are far from sexy to me -- scat, emetophilia, eproctophilia, watersports), and I will probably never understand foot fetishists, but I like that the world is so varied...makes life a little more interesting.