• Top Seductive Phrases to Talk Your Lover into Bed

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    Lovehoney - Alice [sign in to see picture]
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    We'd like to do an updated version of the Top 20 Sexy Phrases to Talk Dirty in Bed, but with a slightly different slant. Not so much what to say when you're already hot and horny, but what to say to get your lover in the mood and start the process of seduction.

    And here is where I plunder the brains of the Orgasm Army . What words, phrases and suggestions help you get you going?

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    As an example, one that hits the mark was from Hella's 'How Do I Dominate?' post on the Lovehoney blog

    “I want you to go into the bedroom, take off your clothes and lie face down on the bed.”

    This request not only affirms your desires, it invokes mystery. What are you going to do next?

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    I'm nto really subtle to be honest. If i want to get my partner going i usually just kiss and fondle them and then ask for sex! so will be watching this thread with interest.

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    I find one of the best ways to get a man interested is to make it all about me.

    "I had a really naughty dream last night."

    "I've been playing with my favourite toy."

    "When we were at the restaurant today, the server had such great hands. I couldn't help but imagine what they might be capable of."

    "I could really do with a nice hard f*** about now."

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    Can we play Titanic? You be the iceberg,
    I'll be the ship and go down on you

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    silverdrop wrote:

    I find one of the best ways to get a man interested is to make it all about me.

    "I had a really naughty dream last night."

    "I've been playing with my favourite toy."

    "When we were at the restaurant today, the server had such great hands. I couldn't help but imagine what they might be capable of."

    "I could really do with a nice hard f*** about now."

    Yep, that work on my hubby too!

    In fact anything works... he's getting worse/better (depends on my mood) the older he gets. I thought that libido was supposed to slow down as you get older

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    I even tried "I love you looong time" for a laugh, he laughed and said gon on then... or words to that effect!

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    The Lady Gaga line usually works: "I wanna take a ride on your disco stick."

    Men are so easy! I hope some of them get in her soon and reveal what lines they've had success with.

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    My OH loves it when I tell her what I want to do to her in no uncertain terms and how I love every pore of her body when she's restrained by her wrists, stretched out from head to toe all hot, wet and oiled up! I wouldn't say there's any set line though, it just comes out differently every time and seems to do the trick! SG

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    I can't say I usually have to do much persuading.. But if I want to make my intentions clear, I like to keep it pretty simple. "I want you" is a favourite, or "I want to fuck you"

    offering a back massage is a good way to start as well.

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    "I want you so bad right now" tends to do wonders

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    We're quite blunt... Generally don't initiate sex verbally, it's more physical... Grabbing somewhere, kissing somewhere...

    Occasionally I'll say "Drop 'em" - makes it clear I want to give him a BJ...

    There's a character in Little Britain that say's to another "I'd like to buy you a drink" in the creepiest, perviest way possible, and Hubs knows it creeps me out, so he'll do an impression, by which point we're giggling and in the mood to 'play' (maybe that's an 'in' joke?!)

    "Fancy a rumage in my toy box" has a double meaning! - Neither of us tries to be sexy and seductive, there's generally a silly comment followed by *the look* and we're off!

    MrsPx

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    get up them stairs cos i want your body now

    or lets go and get comfortable upstairs

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    "I want you so bad" is generally the only verbal encouragement he gets! Oh or "You make me so wet", that gets him flustered.

    Like most have said though, I generally opt for physical hints!

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    putting some porn on loud works for us

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    Saying "I'm so horny" is also a great hint xD

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    "You. Me. Upstairs*. NOW."

    This request not only affirms your desires, it invokes mystery. And shows him that you da boss.

    *replace with...pretty much any location of your choice.

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    Another very blunt couple here, my favourites include:

    - Can haz cock plz? *accompanied by big pleading eyes like this ----> http://www.reelmovienews.com/gallery/puss-in-boots/

    - GET NAKED!

    - HOP ON!

    - Me so horny!

    All of the above generally involve me pawing at my OH!

    xxKPxx

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    I usually just stare at him if its to build him up over the day

    I think I usually text

    • I'm horny
    • I want fucked tonight
    • You're so getting it when I see you!
    • I have new undies!!!
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    waves hello ha ha

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    We're not so much verbal but more of a physical thing. If it is verbal then i will say "you coming to bed" followed by "the look". But for him, its all physcial.

    Im trying to open him up to this abit more though, i think it will just take time.

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