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    Flower2016 [sign in to see picture]
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    My boyfriend has told me to write a checklist for all the things I want him to do to me the next time he sees me. But I'm finding it hard to turn the things in my imagination into a list!
    The dirtier the list, the better!

    If you had to create a checklist, what would be on it?

    Thanks!

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    hmm i don't know what would be on my checklist as it'd be different depending on what my partner was like ( i'm single)

    but on there would probably be

    1. squirting/g spot play
    2. sex in missionary and doggy ( fave positions)
    3. oral sex on him, love giving head
    4. roleplay, submission and dominance or medical play
    5. bondage play, maybe using handcuffs
    6. using sextoys on either of us
    7. having my nipples sucked
    8. giving a tit wank.
    9. spanking
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    Well, I would put things that I like - for example: Kissing every spot on my back.

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    I don't think i've ever had someone kiss my back! Maybe i'll tell my OH to try it!

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    If there was a back-al orgasm - I could have reached one like that! lol

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    menyanthe wrote:

    If there was a back-al orgasm - I could have reached one like that! lol

    Is it better for you to be kissed softly on the back?

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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    hmm i don't know what would be on my checklist as it'd be different depending on what my partner was like ( i'm single)

    but on there would probably be

    1. squirting/g spot play
    2. sex in missionary and doggy ( fave positions)
    3. oral sex on him, love giving head
    4. roleplay, submission and dominance or medical play
    5. bondage play, maybe using handcuffs
    6. using sextoys on either of us
    7. having my nipples sucked
    8. giving a tit wank.
    9. spanking

    Thanks for the great ideas! That sounds like quite a fun list!

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    ive just thought of another one.

    sex in a different room ( if you don't have family/flatmates to worry about)

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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    ive just thought of another one.

    sex in a different room ( if you don't have family/flatmates to worry about)

    Unfortunately I live with flatmates!

    I could always have sex in my en-suite bathroom, although it is a bit of a small room!

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    better than? I like being kissed, caressed, massaged on the back (no oils, lotions and other stuff though). But I like other stuff, too. I like making oral sex to him and I like when he is making oral sex to me and kisses the inner side of my thighs - it is a tickling feeling, but I like it. I also like it when he kisses the front of my body (not my tits though - I wouldn't mind if he wants to, but they are not as sensitive as the rest of my body - I know, it is strange). And of course, I like sex. :)

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    menyanthe wrote:

    better than? I like being kissed, caressed, massaged on the back (no oils, lotions and other stuff though). But I like other stuff, too. I like making oral sex to him and I like when he is making oral sex to me and kisses the inner side of my thighs - it is a tickling feeling, but I like it. I also like it when he kisses the front of my body (not my tits though - I wouldn't mind if he wants to, but they are not as sensitive as the rest of my body - I know, it is strange). And of course, I like sex. :)

    Sorry, I meant better than being kissed hard/with a sense of urgency!

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    sweetlove666 wrote:

    hmm i don't know what would be on my checklist as it'd be different depending on what my partner was like ( i'm single)

    but on there would probably be

    1. squirting/g spot play
    2. sex in missionary and doggy ( fave positions)
    3. oral sex on him, love giving head
    4. roleplay, submission and dominance or medical play
    5. bondage play, maybe using handcuffs
    6. using sextoys on either of us
    7. having my nipples sucked
    8. giving a tit wank.
    9. spanking

    This sounds like a good start, well done SL!

    Can I add:

    1. oral on her
    2. remote controlled egg in public
    3. lingerie (stockings etc)
    4. reverse cowgirl
    5. sex in the shower / bath

    That should do for one session

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    LED wrote:

    menyanthe wrote:

    If there was a back-al orgasm - I could have reached one like that! lol

    Is it better for you to be kissed softly on the back?

    personally nothing beats that along with kissing on the neck!!! *melt*

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    toycar69 wrote:

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    hmm i don't know what would be on my checklist as it'd be different depending on what my partner was like ( i'm single)

    but on there would probably be

    1. squirting/g spot play
    2. sex in missionary and doggy ( fave positions)
    3. oral sex on him, love giving head
    4. roleplay, submission and dominance or medical play
    5. bondage play, maybe using handcuffs
    6. using sextoys on either of us
    7. having my nipples sucked
    8. giving a tit wank.
    9. spanking

    This sounds like a good start, well done SL!

    Can I add:

    1. oral on her
    2. remote controlled egg in public
    3. lingerie (stockings etc)
    4. reverse cowgirl
    5. sex in the shower / bath

    That should do for one session

    Great ideas!

    He's staying with me for 3 days...so we have A LOT of time to play with ;)

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    occhiverdi wrote:

    LED wrote:

    menyanthe wrote:

    If there was a back-al orgasm - I could have reached one like that! lol

    Is it better for you to be kissed softly on the back?

    personally nothing beats that along with kissing on the neck!!! *melt*

    I know what you mean about kisses on the neck!

    That is already on my checklist ;)

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    I would say. Anything you like and I would say it may be good time to possibly suggest some things you may want to try, but did not have the courage to actually tell him.

    Apart from whats already suggested I like playing with ice or I was used as a "table" recently.I was very sticky afterwards, but having my partner licking the whipped cream of me and eating the fruits from it was a fun nevertheless.

    role plays are real fun! So maybe think of some scenario you would like.

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    Laveila wrote:

    I would say. Anything you like and I would say it may be good time to possibly suggest some things you may want to try, but did not have the courage to actually tell him.

    Apart from whats already suggested I like playing with ice or I was used as a "table" recently.I was very sticky afterwards, but having my partner licking the whipped cream of me and eating the fruits from it was a fun nevertheless.

    role plays are real fun! So maybe think of some scenario you would like.

    Thanks for the reply!

    I've always thought that having my hands tied up would be fun, but how do I write that down on my checklist in a sexy way and without being weird/intimidating?

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    Hmmm... Never through about tbeing weird or intimidating. Me and my lover are rather very open and don´t have troubles with suggestions, we both accepted each other as we are and can talk very openly. Maybe for the first time use possibly a scarf (yes, you can escape, but it may make it less stressing the first time).

    As for the actual suggestion, let me think... I want you to tie my hand and caress me while I am helpless?

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    God, if i was writing a list of all the things i wanted i'd get bad cramp in my wrist and not be able to do much from the list!

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    toycar69 wrote:

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    hmm i don't know what would be on my checklist as it'd be different depending on what my partner was like ( i'm single)

    but on there would probably be

    1. squirting/g spot play
    2. sex in missionary and doggy ( fave positions)
    3. oral sex on him, love giving head
    4. roleplay, submission and dominance or medical play
    5. bondage play, maybe using handcuffs
    6. using sextoys on either of us
    7. having my nipples sucked
    8. giving a tit wank.
    9. spanking

    This sounds like a good start, well done SL!

    Can I add:

    1. oral on her
    2. remote controlled egg in public
    3. lingerie (stockings etc)
    4. reverse cowgirl
    5. sex in the shower / bath

    That should do for one session

    Now that does all sound like fun! Im feeling a little envious now!

    LED wrote:

    I don't think i've ever had someone kiss my back! Maybe i'll tell my OH to try it!

    Its such a nice feeling. I love it when my OH kisses my back after doggy just once in the middle. Made me tngle all over.

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