Having a Threesome

I like the idea, as it is one of my fantasties but to be honest I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable with someone else other than my partner & pleasuring 2 women at the same time is a challege for sure, also my other half is not up for anything like this either so a mmf is out of the question as well, so I guess I'll keep it in the fantasy realm.

FFM - not sure about mmf - but then ?????

i've had lots of threesomes and group sex. go for it, its amazing

This is a massive fantasy for me - MMF - despite being straight although highly open minded...so im not sure where it came from! It's just the thought of joining a couple and being at their direction which is a massive turn on for me!! I've dabble with it a couple of times but fairly soft play...and its made the curiosity even worse...not that im complaining ha!

we like toi do 3 somes ,butr problem is that of finding some one to doit with

we advetise on 2  web sites for males to join us but the problem is that either they dont turn up or they just come to visit us once and we never hear from them again,we are feed up being used as a one nite stand,we would like to meet on a regular basis

in the 5 years we have been advetising we have only met 3 males who come on a regular basis

do others out there who enjoy 3 somes have the same problem ,we would like to know

It's a fantasy of mine too.  Would love to give it a try but it's a definate no no as far as my OH is concerned.  Maybe in another life.

Out of interest LOVE what are the sites you advertise on? ;-)

 We've had 2 in the past (since we've been together).

1st was with Tam's ex-gf.  amazing as it was, found it a little awkward afterwards - but soon got over it all.  On our second time with the same girl - it just didn't work so well as I think there was a lot of expectation from the first time.

our other time was with a mutual friend - bi-male.  these have always been good times, though I think it's because they havent been planned.  we been hanging out and it's turned into a session.

both times have been with people we already know socially.

We're about to embark on a planned night with a guy who Tam has met recently through her work.  I was a bit unsure to start with, since I think the '3rd parties' should be mutual friends and also not someone involved with any other aspect of your life.  that way if it's not as expected, it can be closed off at that point.

Going forward we will most likely meet people at clubs or off swingers sites.  That way this part of our life stays completely seperate from our family lives etc.

It's a massive fantasy for me both mff and mmf. Hubby into idea of mff but we both fear what would happen after. Heard bad stories of things going wrong eg irrational jealousy leading to breakups. We have kids not sure its worth it??