• Pegging. *Male pride confidence boosting thread.*

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    InMe wrote:

    During our Valentines meal my missus whispered in my ear that it'd been a few weeks and I was due a good pegging (must admit see didn't put it so polite) but what with being a day of romance and stuff the night ended with some sensual massage and more foreplay and exploring than anything else.

    So when she caught me taking pictures of my bum for the bum thread last night she decide to tackle me with our toy joy strap on.. considering I'v only recently posted a review about not being able to fully accomodate it I feel a little guilty now.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16277&reviewid=30638#customer_reviews

    Once bent over the bed and lubed up it was just a case of helping her with the initial location and entry, and then relaxing everything untill she forced it in about half way at first and then on the third thrust or so I found myself screaming in extasy like a little slut as she impaled me on "her cock"!

    Once she was inside me and thrusting at a medium but firm pace she took to talking dirty to me and I can't really put into words the soert of plateau I found myself on.. There was no hand stimutation for me like she usually does just a good pounding and when I thought she had stopped to finish me off I got an even bigger fright/suprise.

    As she withdrew it fully I got that plesant feeling as the muscles kinda repell the dildo and was just about to turn over when she rammed it back in as hard and deep as she could and asked me to beg for it again.. so for five or six more times I shouted "fuck me harder" as she withdrew fully and and pile drived the dildo all the way into my gaping hole..

    I didn't achieve an anal orgasm but lets just say it didn't take much to finish me off after I rolled over..

    This sounds pretty awesome actually

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    Cheers Seduced.. it was one of those experiences to remember! I'm probably getting strange looks from people for walking around like John Wayne all day but don't care. I'v a smile on my face all day and have my head in the clouds..

    I hope I am not experiencing everything too fast as TBH I can never see another night unfolding like that again.. but hey hopefully I'v lots more to experience.. I don't have any intention on letting pegging come before "reguler" love making either as thats where she gets her main pleasure.. and after last night I think I owe her a few intimate sessions!

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    InMe wrote:

    There is some truth in what Draig mentioned about using a finger to find the prostate and thats how we started into this whole world of pegging. It was something that I always wanted to do but would never admit to, even to my partner. So maybe Genie ur other half no matter how keen will never actually admit to wanting to try it. If you get the hint that he's up for it then as Daig said give the finger a go.. just be careful with ur nails.. if you have long nails I don't think its a great way to start! I found it very uncomfortable so I'm sure people must have wondered why my missus always had one short nail on her index finger.. lol..

    Seen as he's living away from you why not send him the dong from a harness kit and if he gets to like using it solo chances are he will pack it in his bag next time he come's over!!!

    No matter how much he would secretly want to try it, he wouldn't do it on his own, i'll be sending a vibrating prostate massager there shortly before I go, so if he enjoys the feeling i'll progress to other anal toys. He has the sportsheet's underbed restraints atm so could always tie him up to stop flinching (i'll start with a body massage and work my way down). Thanks for the advice, i'll definitely be cutting my nails and we'll see what happens! :)

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    Bumped for a new member ;) xx

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    And again! *bump*

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    After 15 years of knowing I am a straight man that loves anal play I finaly worked up the courage to admit it to my wife on our 6th wedding anniversary back on Valentine's day. I then showed her my secret toy.. a single butt plug.. it's only a small one as I wasn't brave enough to keep it where she might find it.

    Since then things have changed massively, I can now proudly use my plug whenever I wish without worrying she might see it, but sadly when I broached the subject of pegging she gave me this look of "You are joking right?" No matter how much I explain it the idea of pegging just has no appeal to her what so ever. Maybe one day I'll get lucky enough that she will give it a try, but for the time being I'll have to stick with plugs and dildos. :(

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    Tromain wrote:

    After 15 years of knowing I am a straight man that loves anal play I finaly worked up the courage to admit it to my wife on our 6th wedding anniversary back on Valentine's day. I then showed her my secret toy.. a single butt plug.. it's only a small one as I wasn't brave enough to keep it where she might find it.

    Since then things have changed massively, I can now proudly use my plug whenever I wish without worrying she might see it, but sadly when I broached the subject of pegging she gave me this look of "You are joking right?" No matter how much I explain it the idea of pegging just has no appeal to her what so ever. Maybe one day I'll get lucky enough that she will give it a try, but for the time being I'll have to stick with plugs and dildos. :(

    Good one Tromain well dun, it will happen one day just let your wife get use to idea , my wife as been using toys on me for a long time now but she said she wants to try it now so we are going to get a strap-on and give it go, so dont give up and good luck p

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    Random thought - I wonder if there's a porn star out there tempted to call himself "Simon Pegged"?...

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    This is something I am keen on and i have played with myself there but my wife does not like anything anal!! Any ideas how i could introduce some anal play on me without freaking her out???

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    my wife was messing about with her finger one time and pretended to stick it up my bum so i let her and it felt good. she didnt do it again for a while so i asked her to do it as i enjoyed it and she went mad saying i must be gay if im into stuff like that and that she will never do it again. ive not mentioned it since as she will go off on one but i know im missing out.

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    meandthewife wrote:

    my wife was messing about with her finger one time and pretended to stick it up my bum so i let her and it felt good. she didnt do it again for a while so i asked her to do it as i enjoyed it and she went mad saying i must be gay if im into stuff like that and that she will never do it again. ive not mentioned it since as she will go off on one but i know im missing out.

    It's a shame that your wife associates any male anal play with being gay. Personally I think its a huge turn on if a man is willing to explore his sexuality. Try and convince her (subtly just incase she goes off again) that anal stimulation can result in amazing orgasms for you and that there are quite a few men who are not gay that enjoy it.

    It will probably take a lot of convincing and time but if she's done it once, i'm sure she will eventually do it again :)

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    i did show her posts on this forum saying straight males enjoy anal play but shestill insisted that it was gay. just have to see if she changes her mind in the future.

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    meandthewife wrote:

    i did show her posts on this forum saying straight males enjoy anal play but shestill insisted that it was gay. just have to see if she changes her mind in the future.

    Does she like receiving oral? If so perhaps you should suggest that you don't think you should do it to her any more as, applying her anti-pegging logic, it's a lesbian thing.

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    but i love giving her oral and id be missing out on that 2

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    You don't have to actually stop, just point out the illogic of claiming that because X activity is used a lot by gay folk, then straight folk aren't allowed to also enjoy it. If she can enjoy oral without magically becoming a lesbian, then you can enjoy anal play without suddenly turning gay.

    Plus, you can point out that you're not "into stuff like that", you just enjoy experiencing things with her, and enjoying what ye as a couple can do to each other. Loving your wife, and enjoying sexual activities with her, cannot be gay by any stretch of the imagination.

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    Yes, I should have said that I wasn't suggesting you start a war by actually stopping doing things she likes, just use it as a way of pointing out the illogicality of the whole 'it's gay' argument (which I'm glad to say seems to be dying out here in the UK)

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    As a girl I am fascinated at being able to control the OH when I play with his bum!!! We've worked up to anal beads but I am pretty sure (although I could be surprised) he wont take a dildo up there.... looking into wands....

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    Hey guys and gals,

    Haven't had time to read through this thread so forgive me if what I'm posting has been covered already. My GF and I love a bit of strap on play, and from the way she's been talking it looks like I'll getting a fair pounding tonight. One thing we're going to try is her fucking me with me lying on my back. We both agree that it will be so much more arousing if she's looking me in the eye when she penetrates me, a real dominance thing!

    We figured we'd need to raise my hips with some pillows - has anyone else tried doing is this way? Does anyone else do pegging face-to-face? Any tips or tricks?

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    occhiverdi [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and OH anal quite a bit in this position and i tend to hook my legs onto his shoulders.... its a matter of keep on trying... good luck!

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    Yes, face-to-face is our favourite position and it works just fine. You will probably need quite a stack of pillows and a sense of humour while you adjust them to get the height just right.

    Have fun!

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