• Pegging. *Male pride confidence boosting thread.*

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    Speir [sign in to see picture]
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    I have introduced 3 guys so far to the joy of anal play. All were quite wary of the whole "ah but would that not mean I'm a bit gay" thing but after explaining about the fact it's purely about the pleasure they soon came around. It turns me on so much hearing a man moan when I peg him. I'm working on my new partner at the minute, previously he has only had a finger up there but is excited to experience rimming and toys. I have a few small vibrating plugs to start him out on before hopefully whipping out the strap ons ;)

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    goblingirl1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm slowly convincing my partner to the joys of anal. He enjoys a finger but have worked up to two and tried my luck last night with a bit of rimming. Both he enjoyed so I'm sure it's only a matter of time.

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    Drums from Weston [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife introduced this to me , love it but hate the name , we brought a selection of toys from love honey and just experimented , I'm very lucky we talk openly about stuff like this and she's always wanting to please me ( again very very Lucky ) I also enjoy solo anal play as well just adds a bit of kink to it sometimes and also a lovely way to cum differently. Funny thing is most of my male friends vocalize that any play with that area is for gay people only but poss do experiment privately that and most of their partners would love to do them from behind with a large strap on !!! This is fact from our conversations.

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    Anal Husband [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife and I have a good range of strop-ons. size length girth, for each mood.

    We are happily married straight couple that love the role reversal of pegging.

    My motto is try anything once. If you like it great, if not, try something else.

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    magicnumber69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I already enjoy anal play, solo, mainly using a probe to warm up, then my favourite glass dildo, which I'm just getting the hang of how and where to position it. My gf is currently long-distance, having met online, but we're very much into each other (if you'll pardon the expression) and can't wait to be together.

    We're quite open about our sexuality, our preferences and our desire to try things, including anal. I've mentioned to her that I'd love to try pegging, as much as she wants to be taken that way and she seems all for it. We simply want to please each other, when we're finally together and as our sex life develops, we'd love to try most anything that opens another dimension for us both. So yes, Pegging is definitely on our 'to do' list, although we're just going to enjoy exploring each other and doing things 'vanilla', until we're more confident together.

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    SK1966 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love it but unfortunately whilst the O/H enjoys domineering during bondage the whole acting like the man with the strap on didn't really feel comfortable for her. She still enjoys arousing me anally and making me cum like a train but unfortunately the strap on was a step too far :-/

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    delightme [sign in to see picture]
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    I have asked my husband if I can get a strap on, he says yes but it has always been in the throw of passion. I love playing with his hole, he says he enjoys it but not sure he just says it for me. I think I only ever managed to hit the spot once as I have really small fingers. I was thinking of getting him a butt plug.

    Can I ask what to guys think of a women really dominating them. I made my oh get on all fours and I stood behind him stroking him off. I imagined me pegging him, whipping him all sorts I was really turned on but I don't think he was. He is really quiet and shy although we have been married for ever, he can never tell me his fantasies maybe he doesn't have them. I

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    Marriedscot [sign in to see picture]
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    This thread is so great coz none of my friends know I'm into this and talking about it on here and seeing how many other guys enjoy it really does raise my confidence.
    Thanks you guys.

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    BrumGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    delightme, I think he has loads going through his mind if he's on all fours, next time hold him by the hips and just give him a little humping and see what his responce is. He may push back to match your thrusts, then ask him again.

    It's a big step to take but we havn't looked back. The sight of a woman looking sexy and feminine wearing a dildo in a harness makes me go weak at the knees, before and after. ;)

    Take that next step.

    Enjoy. x

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    Bertie1965 [sign in to see picture]
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    Deeeeep joy

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    Bertie1965 [sign in to see picture]
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    How did you get on with it ???

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    DrippingWife [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and hubby both love pegging , i feel he is more of a man for trying it also a big thumbs up to the men out there all that thrusting is had work my legs felt like jelly after lol

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    David1988 [sign in to see picture]
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    My first experience of anal play was my girlfriends finger (unanounced but I went with it), while getting a blowjob a while ago. It was 1 of the most intense orgasms I ever had.
    Ever since I have been very interested in anal play, having bought an aneros massager, I love it.
    Last week she slipped 2 fingers up there, and I thought wow this is amazing.


    I suggested her foing me with a strap on a few weeks ago, and while we are both fairly open minded (moreso me) she seemed a bit uneasy of going down the pegging route. She didnt say straight no so hopefully with a bit of gentle persuasion she'l "give it to me" :D

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    David you could try get just using a dildo in her hand on you to start with, she may be more comfortable with that

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    Elninobonito [sign in to see picture]
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    Been interested in this for a long time, the wife plays down there when she sucks me off. Inserts a finger and has used small bullets etc in my bum have bought plugs but she doesn't really use them on me when we are together and I can't seem to get the same feeling on my ownso I approached her last year about pegging when I'd have a few and she said maybe, she'd have to think about it! I asked her again last week and said she isn't keen so not really

    im gutted I've been watching pegging porn and prostate massage and get so turned on watching it and want it to happen but I know it never will with my wife! I'm not sure what to do

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    macspants [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife was kind enough to slip me the finger during missionary sex which was instigated by me. As I was clearly aroused my wife mentioned that she felt sorry she couldnt achieve maximum penetration.

    It seemed like a good time to mention pegging again.

    That idea was pretty quickly torpedoed.

    Do you folks think its worth pursuing or just settle within her comfort limits?

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    Will B [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi All

    i must say that i was luck that may wife tried many years ago oral on me and then she sliped a finger in .

    but she said nothing about wishing to try anything like pegging .

    i am 40 year and not gay do not wish to try anything with a male or what .

    now after having the kids our sex life was put on a very low flame ( pity but it happens )

    now that we have been using lovehoney and i have been getting sexy thing from here our sex life is starting to pick up again .

    she like anal play sometimes one in a few months but sometimes she do not widh to play or try it .

    so i asked her what felling she gets from playing ? ( tip this could help you start the ball rolling )

    she then said she could use a toy on me next time.

    a few times later she did us a toy and wow it was a eye openen !!!!

    but we have not got to pegging .

    she loved to dry peg me so no toy or strap on but she gets off on doing me like this .

    i asked if she would like to peg me and she looked at me like are you mad !! crazy i know

    we talked sometimes about this but she was not sure about it .

    that lucky i got picked to try out a strap on set from lovehoney

    so i said that it would be great to test and review this strap on set and she could get to see if see like it .

    well the night came and she did not like the harness and putting it on she was not getting that hot and she did not feel sexy .

    but when we got to the pegging she liked it alot but was not sure about the harness .

    and she was saying that she would never come just by pegging .

    ok but it was a start .

    then i got picked to test and review this

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32783

    with the toy from the first set .

    again lucky i could say that we had to test this item and make a review

    she loved the item and found it to be easy and more comfort iwearing this .

    well the toy was the same and just to say that she came very very hard as she was fucking me we were both on are sides and i did not cum from this play but she loved pegging me .

    now it is not everytime that we get to peg but you have to start small and work your way up

    i last time we pegged it was a very hot and as we found kinky time had by both of us

    i ended up licking and sucking her toy which she found very kinky and hot sexy

    working up from her hot pussy over her clit and then over her toy and then back down ,

    she camee big time and then again when she was pegging me .

    then time for me to do her and she came again

    best night in a long time

    everyone should try it

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    Snowgoddess [sign in to see picture]
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    I cannot describe the first time I put a harness on, well I can try... it was amazing!

    The harness fit perfectly, my new cock was long, big and hard. I ran my fingers over it just imagining what my partner would think when he saw it. Also this is one thing I recommend for women who want to get into pegging, when you get your first harness; try it on, wear it and get used to it without your partner around. As much as it is for him, it's also an extension of your body and you need to get used to it.

    Learn to feel good about it and keep in-mind that the hip movements required to thrust into your partner may not have been something you have built up before so it may take some getting used to to get into a good rhythm. There may be some awkwardness at first but it's all a learning experience.

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    jon19 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love wearing a strapon. It nice being the one wiht the power :P

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    binky59 [sign in to see picture]
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    I bought the starter strap on kit and my wife has used the small dildo on me. I loved it and want her to peg me with the larger one provided in the kit but I don't think she's very keen really. During a session last weekend she watched me use it on myself so my hopes are high that she'll bite the bullet and get stuck in.

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