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    squishy [sign in to see picture]
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    my new fella is REALLY into bsdm porn and I want to be able to surprise him one night by being tied up and totally defenseless to his ever pleasure and desire.. but I don't know where to start.. he only has a single bed and doesn't have anywhere for me to handcuff (or tie) myself up to.. i tried getting some rope and tying myself round his mattress but it still ends up too lose and i can wriggle free..
    has anybody got any advice?

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    Pixieking [sign in to see picture]
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    Something like this is designed to be used when there isn't anything else to tie yourself to. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809

    Alternately, you could tie lengths of rope or chain (from B&Q) and, after forming loops, fix them over he legs of the bed. If the bed has legs that is. Then you can just clip whatever cuffs you have to them.

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    jammy_dodger [sign in to see picture]
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    Why not dress up? if he likes roleplay aswell, e.g. secretary etc

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    squishy [sign in to see picture]
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    cause im currently tryin to loose weight and if i ended up dressin up half my customers probably wouldn't fit me now.

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello squishy and welcome to the OA! :)

    I just made a thread myself that could help a bit...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/317572-bdsm-night-first-time/

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    Nymeria [sign in to see picture]
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    Costumes* lol sorry. =]

    How about this one as well as PixieKing's suggestion- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444

    You can also try this if you have a good sturdy door. It'll definitely be a surprise! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2445

    Here is a whole list of bondage gear to look through. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/bondage/bedroom-bondage-kits/

    It may help to start small. There are also some fantastic blogs on Bondage in the LH blog. Good luck!

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    ZombieCpl [sign in to see picture]
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    try hog tying him- this should be relatively easy with the rope

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    Booties [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with under-the bed restraint cuffs, or door "swings".

    Also maybe this? If you don't mind shower play, it could be fun!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16717

    If there's really nothing to tie you TO, though, why not just tie your ankles and wrists, rendering you completely helpless. For example:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17689 or

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1175 these. =)

    I also recommend this if you're new to bondage (not going for anything too hardcore!)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16307

    As you can use it to make some sexy outfits and tie yourself in all kinds of positions. ^_^

    Of course you can look through the bondage section yourself, but I personally recommend taping yourself up in a sexy way, maybe adding a blindfold or ballgag, cuffing your ankles and wrists, then lying in wait for him... Mwahaha!

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    HappyCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    If you are on a budget buy some nice cuffs and then instead of rope buy some "5 MTRS 20mm BLACK WEBBING POLYPROPYLENE" (couple of quid)

    Not taken from ebay... honest! lol.

    Seriously tho, the stuff is amazing for home-made items (as I recently found out). Take 'a length', thread it through the cuff's D links, tie a knot in one end and you have instant over-the-door restraints.

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    JonnyBeBad [sign in to see picture]
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    Self restraint is going to be difficult, as once you tie one hand, the other is very hard to do solo!! I would suggest getting the under the bed restraints discussed above and also a pair of cuffs, restrain your legs first, then with one of the arm restraints bring it over the top and attach it to the hand cuffs, you can then just cuff yourself in, should be fairly easy!

    One thing to note though, make sure your timing is right, you don't want to be waiting for hours for him to come home like that!!

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