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    raylikes [sign in to see picture]
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    why do women fantasize about sleeping with a huge peni

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    I think that is like asking why do all men fantasise about sleeping with women with huge boobs.

    The answer is they don't

    Some women probably do, but I doubt very much that they all do, I know I don't, its what you do with it that counts

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    Agreed Boobaloo!

    A huge penis is not all that good for me; it hurts when he goes too deep. A "normal/average" (whatever that is) size is far better. For me, great sex is all about passion and technique.

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    having a big penis does have downfalls mind you!!! but ive learned how to control myself and put the lady at ease with lots of 4play, and no wam bam thank you mam

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    I like the average penis too. I wouldn't let it a big one near me it would hurt !!!

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    It's all about girth for me - not length.

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    And of course it varies - while I rarely (never!) fantasise about big boobs, for instance, I find different things attractive at different times. I'd guess most women would at some point in time think that a really big schlong might make a nice adventure, but they probably don't make that the key feature of all their fantasies.

    It's just that men tend to hear it once, and blank out everything else!

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    Kooky wrote:

    It's all about girth for me - not length.

    Seconded!

    To be honest I don't often fantasise about a large penis. I fantasise about what he's going to do with his penis....

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    LittleKitty wrote:

    Kooky wrote:

    It's all about girth for me - not length.

    Seconded!

    To be honest I don't often fantasise about a large penis. I fantasise about what he's going to do with his penis....

    Ditto on that.

    A large penis has never been a turn on for me.

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    To take another route, fantasy, by definition, does not have to be logical or reflect a persons rational thoughts. I am sure that plenty of folks have had sexual fantasies, that for one reason or other they wouldn't want to act out, and are happy not to. The imagined stimulous served it's purpose and it didn't Need to be something that was every desired to actually happen.

    I have watched and enjoyed, and actively sought out porn with men of above average size, because that was what I was in the mood for at the time, just like I sometimes have moods where I want to see oral, or bondage, or very light softcore. This doesn't mean that I activly would seek a partner with a big cock, bcause frankly I know fine well it wouldn't be the ideal or practical for me.

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    raylikes wrote:

    why do women fantasize about sleeping with a huge peni

    The real isssue behind this question is "Why are men scared they have a small penis?"

    I've watched a lot of porn in my time and I was left with the feeling that unless you're packing a baby's arm holding an apple between your legs then you're not big enough to impress a woman.

    When I eventually managed to get out and have sex with partners and talked to them directly about it, I found out that most of them are just happy to have something that works well and makes them feel good. If it's too big or too wide it will actually put them off or cause discomfort.

    I managed to find out how my penis is similar to other mens, and how it is better. I use this information to maintain my self esteem (we have a lot of it invested in our junk) and to help use my penis to it's best ability and make it enjoyable.

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    I don't fantasise about it

    ive had one bloke who was larger than average ( needed large condoms) and it was a bit painful tbh. and it cramped our relationship as things like anal and oral sex were severley restricted or impossible. (anal was a no go where i'd be happy with a partner with a regular penis, and i couldnt give good head without choking)

    As others have said its the owner of the penis rather than the Phallus that drives my fantasies!

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    vinnyishung wrote:

    having a big penis does have downfalls mind you!!! but ive learned how to control myself and put the lady at ease with lots of 4play, and no wam bam thank you mam

    I agree. Best to leave your mother out your sex life.

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    All very good points made!

    J thinks the same way.

    I think as a 'fantasy' - Anything goes really imo, that's what fantasies are for anyway!

    J calls me 'big boy' a lot of the time and it does my self esteem the world of good. Even though i know full well I'm not a 'big boy' I let her carry on as it adds a positive vibe to our sexiness.

    As a man with a 'normal/adverage' penis, I'm more than happy with my size and shape as I know from experience, for the last 16 years, It's always done what it's needed too and more!

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    " It's not the size of the boat you float in, But the way you float in the ocean! "

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    Bah, I'm completely straight, yet I've tried fantasizing about girls.

    I'm not fond of anal, but I've tried fantasizing about that.

    The same goes with public sex, or sex with friends I seriously don't find attractive.

    Whatever takes you at the time, you think about, I guess. Just because I have thought about a massive penis while I orgasm doesn't mean it's the thought of the massive penis that made me orgasm.

    Like others have said, I prefer average. Anything above 6" is by far good enough, especially with a fair girth.

    This said, we can't really blame men for worrying. As women we are constantly buying bras to give us better cleavage, comparing ourselves to our girlfriends and worrying what men will think of our body shape. I guess it's natural for both sexes to want to be masculine/feminine respectively... And satisfy their partners.

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    Booties wrote:

    This said, we can't really blame men for worrying. As women we are constantly buying bras to give us better cleavage, comparing ourselves to our girlfriends and worrying what men will think of our body shape. I guess it's natural for both sexes to want to be masculine/feminine respectively... And satisfy their partners.

    Yes, the penis size and boob size thing does seem like a very similar psychological thing.

    Personally, I don't fantasise about big boobs in particular. There are lots of female parts I find attractive, and I've just as likely to fantasise over a lady with gorgeous eyes, or an amazing bum. I'm not even that worried about the size boobs are really. Big, small, flat, or enormous, its all good.

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    Or that one sweetie lol ;) x

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    toycar69 wrote:

    Personally, I don't fantasise about big boobs in particular. There are lots of female parts I find attractive, and I've just as likely to fantasise over a lady with gorgeous eyes, or an amazing bum. I'm not even that worried about the size boobs are really. Big, small, flat, or enormous, its all good.

    Well said. In fact one of my favourite things to fantasise about is a guy with a gorgeous smile! Even so, so people pay so much attention to detail in their fantasies? I don't tend to think "The sexy sailor comes up to me and rips off my shirt, throwing me down, he moves- Oh, he has a massive willy by the way-"

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    Ive never dreamt of having a session with a massive penis. I prefer the "average" size to be honest. I dont want to be torn into 2 by some guy with a massive cock.

    I like a guy to be average sized and for him to know how to use it. Its all about what you do with it. And there is nothing better than a guy who knows what to do.

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