• wall flower to vixen?

    1294406485
    gemheart [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 7 Dec 2009

    Hey all,

    New to this forum, so Hi, but figured I'd jump right in with a request for some advice / experience from you all.

    My OH is soo not confident in the bedroom which results in me always taking the initiative. When I make new suggestions they are usually received with a response of 'ok, if you want to' (which can be pretty underwhelming) yet if I ask what she wants me to do the response is always 'i don't mind' followed by 'I like what you do'.

    Of course this is great to hear and 95% of the time I don't mind. I have pretty good imagination and regularly come up with different ideas etc that my OH never (well rarely) objects to. That said, I would like her to be more expressive which, by her own admission, she isn't and finds it hard to be.

    So, have any of you converted yourself from a shy wallflower into a vixen-ish, and if so how did you do it? Is there anything I can do to coax the more adventurous side from my OH.

    thanks

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.