• Do you love your genitals?

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    Thin One wrote:

    My penis lacks girth (it's only 4" circumference) and could be longer. My balls are also on the small side and it looks like I'v just got one compared to some blokes I've seen! It's an issue I've been struggling with for a long time and is one of the reasons I'm single - I'm afraid I just won't be any good with such a pencil dick.... See I told you was an issue (cue violin music).

    You're a muppet you know

    Personally, I struggle with anything *over* 4" - WandA is too big and I really have to work to be comfortable. Any toys over 4" are a no go too - and even 4" toys can be a problem!

    I think it's all about compatability!

    Adx

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    Alicia D'amore wrote:

    Thin One wrote:

    My penis lacks girth (it's only 4" circumference) and could be longer. My balls are also on the small side and it looks like I'v just got one compared to some blokes I've seen! It's an issue I've been struggling with for a long time and is one of the reasons I'm single - I'm afraid I just won't be any good with such a pencil dick.... See I told you was an issue (cue violin music).

    You're a muppet you know

    Personally, I struggle with anything *over* 4" - WandA is too big and I really have to work to be comfortable. Any toys over 4" are a no go too - and even 4" toys can be a problem!

    I think it's all about compatability!

    Adx

    Me too, I'd actually prefer if a man was slightly under average than slightly over. And if you browse through some of the dildos etc on LH you'll see quite a few with a 4'' circumference (or less)- do you really think they'd market these toys if women didn't want them ThinOne :S

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    Kooky [sign in to see picture]
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    Another thing about extra long penises is that if you're a woman with a coil (like me) there are certain positions that can really hurt the bloke, especially if uncircumsised.

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    Thin One [sign in to see picture]
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    I know, I know! It is stupid and it's purely in my head (a diet of porn growing up no doubt didn't help). I've been discussing this with a therapist and she says the same things that others here have said. I appreciate your comments folks as it does counter balance my negative thoughts. Think my health problems haven't helped but I am trying to tackle it (talking about here is one way as I know I'll get sensible feedback/ advice). Cheers :)

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    Thin One wrote:

    I know, I know! It is stupid and it's purely in my head (a diet of porn growing up no doubt didn't help). I've been discussing this with a therapist and she says the same things that others here have said. I appreciate your comments folks as it does counter balance my negative thoughts. Think my health problems haven't helped but I am trying to tackle it (talking about here is one way as I know I'll get sensible feedback/ advice). Cheers :)

    That's the wonderful thing about this place - we've no reason to lie - we're going to be honest so you know that if we say something reassuring it's the truth. Every little helps hey :)

    Adx

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    Thin One wrote:

    I know, I know! It is stupid and it's purely in my head (a diet of porn growing up no doubt didn't help). I've been discussing this with a therapist and she says the same things that others here have said. I appreciate your comments folks as it does counter balance my negative thoughts. Think my health problems haven't helped but I am trying to tackle it (talking about here is one way as I know I'll get sensible feedback/ advice). Cheers :)

    I demand you watch more amateur porn!

    I hope you make progress, keep looking at the positives, you're a kind sensitive bloke and there are some things men with huge willies can't do as easily!

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    i really don't like my bits. in fact that's not really true- sometimes i love them, sometimes i hate them and wish i had nothing there!

    i love that my pussy gives me sooo much pleasure and loves alot of attention! but when i look at my pussy i do sometimes detest the appearance. i think i have quite big labia compared to alot of women and they do actually get uncomfortable in tight jeans or sat down on hard surfaces

    waxing my pubes tends to make me feel happier about the appearance- feel soo much sexier with my neat landing strip!

    my bf gets frustrated that i have such issues with my bits and is trying quite hard to make me feel otherwise because he loves them so we are working on it.

    however, i absolutely love love love his beautiful circumcised cock and his balls!!!

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    I don't like mine. They are nigh-on impossible to shave (my best efforts result in 'last chicken in sainsburys' look), My skin is sensitive to those removal creams - though they are effective, So I can get a nice smooth look on the condition I put up with the burns for about 3/4 days. I cant wax - only one waxing place in town and I cant go back after screaming like a wuss and asking them to leave it half done.

    Which leaves me stuck with the bobbly look. As for the genitals themselves (rather than the surrounding frame), when I had my middle child, they tore me front to back, and the ineptitude of the stiching up afterwards has caused me to heal with something of a 'flap' along the back-wall-edge as it were.

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    I don't "love" my genitals... I never thought much of them really. I was quite conservative when growing up and wasn't really curious about it. A little later on (in my late teens) I didn't like the look of it cause I found it quite weird lol. That was probably due to my conservative nature again..

    I remember feeling extremely embarassed when my OH went down on me the first time.. but as he loves to remind me I forgot about that feeling not long after. It's reassuring that men, generally love the look of females' genitals. My OH loves to talk about it.. I'm still not completely convinced. I think it's due to self criticism.

    I don't particularly like the look of myself down there but I don't hate it.. My OH loves it and that is all there is worth noting. That makes me happy. =] I guess it'd help though if there were more positive feelings about it.

    I love the feeling of myself shaved. My OH too. As long as I'm nice and trimmed- it's all good. He looks amazing down there and I love touching him.

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    I think pussies are so pretty, they remind me of orchids (or possibly orchids remind me of pussies..)

    I love how cute they are and how interesting with all the dinky little flaps and folds and edges just made for exploring. I love how sexy they look as they get excited and become all plump, pink and wet! Omnomnom!

    xxKPxx

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    I love mine even more after Ad giving me some confidence boosts before by being genuinely interested in exploring me. My opinions on most of myself are pretty functional without Ad. It's nice to feel good about things because of someone else.

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    Alicia D'amore [sign in to see picture]
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    WandA wrote:

    I love mine even more after Ad giving me some confidence boosts before by being genuinely interested in exploring me. My opinions on most of myself are pretty functional without Ad. It's nice to feel good about things because of someone else.

    It's gorgeous. I like looking at all the sexiest bits :D

    Adx

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    KittyPurry wrote:

    I think pussies are so pretty, they remind me of orchids (or possibly orchids remind me of pussies..)

    I love how cute they are and how interesting with all the dinky little flaps and folds and edges just made for exploring. I love how sexy they look as they get excited and become all plump, pink and wet! Omnomnom!

    xxKPxx

    Hehe. I very much agree on every point especially the Omnomnom!

    I love seeing 'hidden pussy beauty' in objects or art, hence my display pic. There is something extra sexy about 'unravelling' and opening a pussy and seeing all the textures, colours etc...

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    I don't love mine even when i've had a wax I just don't feel like they're pretty

    I do love by OH's bits though!! I don't know why I just always found cocks pretty - especially his!!

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    must say i do and the oh is pretty awesome too mmmm

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    Erm, not sure I love them. I'm at ease with them. There are porn stars with really ugly mangled-looking bits & others that are really neat and beautiful. I'm in the middle somewhere, not much I can do about it either way.

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    we have what we got so i say enjoy them whatever they look like

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    MsEllie wrote:

    I don't like mine. They are nigh-on impossible to shave (my best efforts result in 'last chicken in sainsburys' look), My skin is sensitive to those removal creams - though they are effective, So I can get a nice smooth look on the condition I put up with the burns for about 3/4 days. I cant wax - only one waxing place in town and I cant go back after screaming like a wuss and asking them to leave it half done.

    Which leaves me stuck with the bobbly look. As for the genitals themselves (rather than the surrounding frame), when I had my middle child, they tore me front to back, and the ineptitude of the stiching up afterwards has caused me to heal with something of a 'flap' along the back-wall-edge as it were.

    Oh God... I've told my mates I'm gonna get a sponsored back sack 'n' crack done for comic relief or something next year. Comments like this worry me, especially as you girls have a higher pain threshold and I'm a wuss anyway!

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    Paddy89 wrote:

    MsEllie wrote:

    I don't like mine. They are nigh-on impossible to shave (my best efforts result in 'last chicken in sainsburys' look), My skin is sensitive to those removal creams - though they are effective, So I can get a nice smooth look on the condition I put up with the burns for about 3/4 days. I cant wax - only one waxing place in town and I cant go back after screaming like a wuss and asking them to leave it half done.

    Which leaves me stuck with the bobbly look. As for the genitals themselves (rather than the surrounding frame), when I had my middle child, they tore me front to back, and the ineptitude of the stiching up afterwards has caused me to heal with something of a 'flap' along the back-wall-edge as it were.

    Oh God... I've told my mates I'm gonna get a sponsored back sack 'n' crack done for comic relief or something next year. Comments like this worry me, especially as you girls have a higher pain threshold and I'm a wuss anyway!

    The sack is fine... Lower down? Well, good luck...

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    WandA wrote:

    Paddy89 wrote:

    MsEllie wrote:

    I don't like mine. They are nigh-on impossible to shave (my best efforts result in 'last chicken in sainsburys' look), My skin is sensitive to those removal creams - though they are effective, So I can get a nice smooth look on the condition I put up with the burns for about 3/4 days. I cant wax - only one waxing place in town and I cant go back after screaming like a wuss and asking them to leave it half done.

    Which leaves me stuck with the bobbly look. As for the genitals themselves (rather than the surrounding frame), when I had my middle child, they tore me front to back, and the ineptitude of the stiching up afterwards has caused me to heal with something of a 'flap' along the back-wall-edge as it were.

    Oh God... I've told my mates I'm gonna get a sponsored back sack 'n' crack done for comic relief or something next year. Comments like this worry me, especially as you girls have a higher pain threshold and I'm a wuss anyway!

    The sack is fine... Lower down? Well, good luck...

    Thanks for the support!

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