• Do you love your genitals?

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    Rowan wrote:

    I really don't have any strong feelings towards mine. I like the function, am glad that they are healthy and try to keep them that way, and am glad my partner likes them. I used to dislike things quite strongly but it was more a case of general low self esteem than specifically targeted towards that body part. My man says they are a rather lovely colour and kissable, but unlike the men I find it rather hard to crane around to see in any detail and if one leans over the light is bad, so since our mirrors are not positioned for easy inspection and before I had no interest in trying to see anything I've looked only twice- and that was more because he insisted, shocked that I hadn't seen what he frquently does. I suspect I'd care more if I had to look often at them.

    Twice! See, that is quite mental to me! How can you not be that bothered? Even utter curiosity would have me peeking and prodding often (Well, I guess you do the prodding!)!

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    Have you ever tried balancing on the side of a bath without putting you're legs down? I've felt around there a lot and know the contours well, however if bending over my head blocks out the light, and often my glasses would fall off, not as though it doesn't get inspected by anyone . Your bits are obvious and not in awkward places!

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    ha ha bath gymnastics get a hand mirror rowan it's safer girl

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Ooh! For some reason I like this thread! Dunno why though. :s

    I do love my genitals. I give them lots of love and attention and let them know how I feel about them too!

    Never had any complaints about my vagina yet, so I have no reason to complain in that regard!

    I think it looks OK. Actually, I think it looks quite good! The only thing that ruins it is my horrible thighs. My pubis is a little chubby too, I'd like to have one of those lovely flat ones you see on thinner models, but alas, I doubt it will happen, but the little cushioning there is great for my hand (or anyone elses!)

    I somewhat dread the day when I get older and put my hand down there and feel sagging.. I think I might get a little upset! Lol!

    My ass on the otherhand, I'm not so happy with. You watch porn and these girls have immaculate anuses but mine is a bit of a challange, 1, to get to as my bum is so big! Lol! and 2, it requires shaving wich seems a little embarrasing, though I'm almost sure everyone has that problem. It was only a while ago that I was told that a lot of girls in porn actually bleach their bums to give it that light fleshy look. While us 'normal' people have to suffice with a darker coloured anus.

    But the bottom line is - Yes. I love my genitals!

    Yay for a self lover! You think you might worry when you sag? Balls around the knees anyone?

    To be honest AA I've never noticed an arsehole that didn't look, well, like an arsehole. I don't think bumholes are on the top of things most people want to look at but maybe that's just me thinking that.

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    Loves huni wrote:

    really porn stars bleach their bum?? wow you really do learn something new everyday! - not something ill be trying anytime soon though!!

    i have to admit i do quite like mine atm (im feeling pretty good about myself in general recently compared to normal!) i think even though im individual and ill not go into detailed description :S mine seems pretty even and petite and well not bad looking at all, its not a bad colour or doesnt look particularly odd from what ive seen + it does its job (most of the time) so yep im happy (Y) i remember once getting told i have "whats known in the guy world as a PSP" i.e. a porn star pussy wasnt sure whether to take it as a compliment or what but it sure did make me laugh!! i also like the fact that evenn though hair growth down there is damn annoying to constantly shave/wax/what ever mine doesnt seem to go crazy it just tends to grow in a small triangle on the pubis bone, where you can see it and it doesnt seem to go crazy anywhwere else! (though i do get embarrassedd because i think from shaving further and further back ive promoted hair growth towards and a little around my bum which isnt nice but ah well :/

    i also dont like the fact that because ive had problems with my anus and had numerous cuts, scar tissue has formed and created a little skin tag which i really want to get removed, along with another i have on my inner thigh :/ but appart from that im happy :)

    ooh and im happy with my boobs too atm as far as that goes they seem to be quite cheerful and perky recently :D

    im all for some self love <3 :D x

    It's great that you're feeling better LH.

    Although I don't particularity like the term 'PSP' you offer a very similar description to Ads even down to having a few scars!

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    I have to admit that I don't like my pussy but my OH adores it for the same reasons WandA adores a pussy - the colours, as if it's a blossom.... I love my pubic bone and the short, trimmed hair on it and despite having had 3 children, my pussy is supposed to be 'very tight' which I believe to be a Good Thing.

    I adore my boobs though, despite the fact that at my age they aren't as perky as they once were. I have unbelievably soft skin and I think that attributes to my love of most of my body, including my legs and arse which I consider to be my best features.

    Just put a paper bag over my head

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    Its not something that I have ever worried about, I dont know if its because its not something others can see (unless I choose for them to). Yes at times I do wish it was a little tighter as I have lost the abillity to have an internal orgasm since getting stitches with my eldest but we have adapted and unless I am very drunk I always orgasm. Its only parts of me that can be seen that bother me but there are always some form of clothing that can minimise the areas I have issues with.

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    Suze9:

    "since getting stitches with my eldest"

    I had stitches after the birth of my twins and my son - it seems to be the 'done thing' over here - perhaps that's why I'm still 'tight'?

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    i wouldnt say love but im happy with them, if i could change them i would totally pimp out the testicles, i just dont understand why make them so ugly looking :/ honestly why couldnt we have been made with something that covers them or maybe a better shape? lol

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    LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:

    i wouldnt say love but im happy with them, if i could change them i would totally pimp out the testicles, i just dont understand why make them so ugly looking :/ honestly why couldnt we have been made with something that covers them or maybe a better shape? lol

    Glitterballs perhaps?

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    glitterballs which shoot a laser show from the tip of your penis? im liking the idea :)

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    Couldn't really say that I love mine but I certainly look after them!

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    Kooky wrote:

    Suze9:

    "since getting stitches with my eldest"

    I had stitches after the birth of my twins and my son - it seems to be the 'done thing' over here - perhaps that's why I'm still 'tight'?

    Hmmm I have had the opposite effect with mine, mind you they did try forceps before the c-section but we had a major tough time after having him as nothing we used to do worked any more. I have also had twins but their birth had no impact on our sex life afterwards, just before!!!

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    violeteyes wrote:

    i love part of my genitals. can i ask, has any girl ever measured their clitoris? my partner tells me mine is abnormally large and i love it

    i use to have a partner who had a massive clitoris it was the biggest i have ever known, it was like having a boxers punch bag tucked away in her knickers but it was lush lovely to play with wet and juicy and great to lick . i t was really really nice and she enjoyed all the attention it got.... so dont worry about the size you are not abnormal just different a very sexy different..... just enjoy the pleasure it brings you both.

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    Loves huni wrote:

    ooh and im happy with my boobs too atm as far as that goes they seem to be quite cheerful and perky recently :D

    I read your blog recently and... well... you should be happy!

    I'm gonna go with a typical guy's view and say 'wish it was bigger', but lookswise I'm happy downstairs. It's about average length but fairly thick considering. Not too veiny though, which I like.

    I just need to get rid of that lil bit of a belly I have so I can see it properly

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    Paddy89 wrote:

    Loves huni wrote:

    ooh and im happy with my boobs too atm as far as that goes they seem to be quite cheerful and perky recently :D

    I read your blog recently and... well... you should be happy!

    I'm gonna go with a typical guy's view and say 'wish it was bigger', but lookswise I'm happy downstairs. It's about average length but fairly thick considering. Not too veiny though, which I like.

    I just need to get rid of that lil bit of a belly I have so I can see it properly

    It makes me chuckle a little when guys say this. XD Size matters little, it's how you use it that makes the difference (that is a cliché but it's true). Most women are only 5 inches deep on average. I'm pretty sure I am around tha tmyself, because my ex had quite a long penis, and during missionary, he'd hit against my cervix, which was quite painful. Extra girth can be bad sometimes too, since you need to get yourself really aroused or it's uncomfortable at first.

    Bottom line, I think guys should stop worrying about what they think their girls want, and just be comfortable and confident with what you have.

    Also just with what was said earlier, girls are curious of what's down there!. It's just a lot harder to explore. FOr men it's all sitting out in the open staring at you. Whereas it takes a looot of stimulation to get to your clitorus, and even at that, one wrong move and it's gone again lol.

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    My penis lacks girth (it's only 4" circumference) and could be longer. My balls are also on the small side and it looks like I'v just got one compared to some blokes I've seen! It's an issue I've been struggling with for a long time and is one of the reasons I'm single - I'm afraid I just won't be any good with such a pencil dick.... See I told you was an issue (cue violin music).

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    Love my cock even if it isn't over average, I love everything about me just as it is tbqh

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    Imalia wrote:

    Paddy89 wrote:

    Loves huni wrote:

    ooh and im happy with my boobs too atm as far as that goes they seem to be quite cheerful and perky recently :D

    I read your blog recently and... well... you should be happy!

    I'm gonna go with a typical guy's view and say 'wish it was bigger', but lookswise I'm happy downstairs. It's about average length but fairly thick considering. Not too veiny though, which I like.

    I just need to get rid of that lil bit of a belly I have so I can see it properly

    It makes me chuckle a little when guys say this. XD Size matters little, it's how you use it that makes the difference (that is a cliché but it's true). Most women are only 5 inches deep on average. I'm pretty sure I am around tha tmyself, because my ex had quite a long penis, and during missionary, he'd hit against my cervix, which was quite painful. Extra girth can be bad sometimes too, since you need to get yourself really aroused or it's uncomfortable at first.

    Bottom line, I think guys should stop worrying about what they think their girls want, and just be comfortable and confident with what you have.

    Also just with what was said earlier, girls are curious of what's down there!. It's just a lot harder to explore. FOr men it's all sitting out in the open staring at you. Whereas it takes a looot of stimulation to get to your clitorus, and even at that, one wrong move and it's gone again lol.

    And whilst we love it when you ladies reply like this, we can't accept that it's true. Do you believe us when we say you look gorgeous/you're not fat/your bum looks great in that dress? No. We should believe each other, but we just can't bring ourselves to admit we might genuinely be a quite attractive. Especially us Brits - God forbid we admit we're happy with anything in life!

    I love the fact you said guy's cocks are staring at us - reminds me of a song called 'Dear Penis'. The first verse went something like this;

    Dear Penis, I don't think I like you anymore.
    You used to watch me shave.
    Now all you do is stare at the floor.
    Dear Penis, I don't like you anymore.

    Right, enough of the genital songs, now you can get back on topic!

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    Hehe... Nice song Paddy!

    Thin One wrote:

    My penis lacks girth (it's only 4" circumference) and could be longer. My balls are also on the small side and it looks like I'v just got one compared to some blokes I've seen! It's an issue I've been struggling with for a long time and is one of the reasons I'm single - I'm afraid I just won't be any good with such a pencil dick.... See I told you was an issue (cue violin music).

    I know you've been told many times and reason and rationality don't always work but you seem to be a clever bloke with interesting points to offer and that's certainly more valuable.

    I hope things work out well TO! As people keep mentioning it really isn't a big issue!

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