Guys: Edging

lickmadick - that sounds fab - haven't had a good hard session for years! OH is more gentle that animal.

SHB

patience is a virtue and edging leads to a waterfall of cumanda earth shaking orgasm too

i'm no good at edging- i often accidentally either slow down or stop too late and then either have a very unsatisfying orgasm or become too sensitive!!

need to practise more- what a shame (not)!

if you do it whilst watching some porn you tend to drift a bit so try that it works for me

katmiaow wrote:

i'm no good at edging- i often accidentally either slow down or stop too late and then either have a very unsatisfying orgasm or become too sensitive!!

need to practise more- what a shame (not)!

Bumping this thread -

This is exactly what happens to me. I don't seem to be very good at edging.

The sensation builds up and I either have to cum or lose the sensation and then be really frustrated that I lost the opportunity to orgasm (because its going to happen anyway and its not strong)

I generally masturbate using clitoral stimulation and love to orgasm when the sensation is so intense, combined with using a dildo which makes it even stronger but I don't seem to be able to do this edging malarky.

Any tips?? x

Noon wrote:

Likewise, never heard of it.  But yes, do it 90% of times!

Same here

 i do it all the time when im playing in a place where i shouldnt be!

In a place you shouldn't be??

It is interesting to read about the girls needing to practice, I think LMD might be onto something about the pleasant distraction.

LittleKitty wrote:

The sensation builds up and I either have to cum or lose the sensation and then be really frustrated that I lost the opportunity to orgasm (because its going to happen anyway and its not strong)

I generally masturbate using clitoral stimulation and love to orgasm when the sensation is so intense, combined with using a dildo which makes it even stronger but I don't seem to be able to do this edging malarky.

Any tips?? x

I'm a bit like that too; if the sensation is strong enough I don't want to back off because it seems to take ages to get it back again.  However, I've been using kegel balls (the Fun Factory variety from LH) for the last 3 weeks or so and I notice that I seem to be able to bring myself to orgasm from masturbation much more quickly than before and orgasms seem to be more intense. 

I still haven't tried holding off on orgasm though, but thats the next step.  Have you tried using Kegel balls?

Ecksvie wrote:

 My boyfriend does this on me when he's using my toys, it drives me mad, and not in the good way!

Yes so does mine but I know he drops his own orgasm to keep going and recently he appears to have cum harder from it. So i'm assuming its a good thing???

as for doing it to me, drives me mad and when you're a squirter it can actually hurt quite a bit! 

katmiaow wrote:

i'm no good at edging- i often accidentally either slow down or stop too late and then either have a very unsatisfying orgasm or become too sensitive!!

need to practise more- what a shame (not)!

Me too but i love doing it to my OH i've kept him on the edge for hours and he said the orgasm at the end was one of the best 

I have just completed my first attempt at edging and if I'm honest it was amazing.  I have never came so hard.  Very sexy and will be doing it more often.  Wish I'd heard of it before now!

nice one kev!