Saucy weekend away - what do I need?

Be gentle with me, this is my first time starting a thread!!

Anyways - hubby is 50 next month and we have booked a 'naughty' night away.

So Im thinking to make it a more pleasurable weekend for both of us, what do I need to take with us?

First off, contraception not needed

We are, if the mood is right considering going all the way anally.

Mild bondage appeals, as does dressing up - have a fair few basques n what not, but no actual dress up stuff.

What do you suggest - all ideas considered, but may not be taken up!!

BTW - I am fairly broadminded.....but am still quite shy/nervous about my body!

Lastly - I need advice about anal, having bore two VERY heavy babies I have suffered from flamin piles - it makes me cringe to think about them, which is probably why I have never let hubby anywhere near there! How can I make sure they dont flare up between now and then?

Hi Naughty

Firstly, I would say leave anal well alone if you have piles, as it will only aggravate it (IMHO)

Something I did with Hubby a few weeks ago as getting my boobs down to my pussy wrapped in Clingfilm very tightly, it felt really good as it was tighter then any corset, and then he proceeded to shave all my pubic hair off ( I normally have a little triangle of pubic hair and smooth underneath)

I got very excited by that, then he turned me over and spanked my bottom till my cheeks went red,lol

He also took pics along the way.....

After a meal at the Hotel, we went out for a walk and a drink (but I wasn't wearing any knix).....that was a very sexy experience, and got up in the mood for a very sexy encounter when we got back.

Hope that helps

xx

My list would include:

Lube, lube and more lube

Some vibes: perhaps a small, thin one to get you warmed up for anal, along with your favourites

A blindfold and your tying up implements of choice

A butt plug to loosen you up for anal maybe?

Whatever lingerie you feel comfortable in - that's the most important thing!

Champagne!!!

If your interested in bondage have a look at this:-

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1204#videos

It's had some great reviews

Sounds like ti's going to be quote a weekend!

I think the Bag Of Love might be perfect - lots of different thing to try, including bondage tape.

As for dress-up, how about starting in a white shirt with a policewoman set, and then stripping down to your basque.  It will give you an idea of whether you both like the costume thing.

Bondage tape is great if you're new to it- bit less intimdating than heavy duty restraints, but more kinky than fluffy handcuffs!

For the costume, just yourself what you think is sexy. School girl is traditional, and would be good for a laugh. If you like uniforms, policewoman. If you're into films, a classic character like Wonder Woman or Daisy Duke. Or just go all out on the gingham front and be Alice in Wonderland lol.

I echo shellyboo- lots of lube if it's first time anal!

And if you have a cool bag take along  can of whipped cream...

Mrs37 - I dont suffer atm - but am wary that they might flare up, making things darn uncomfortable in that area.

Ruth - that kit looks fab! I feel an order coming on....

Been driving to school today and my mind has been racing.....!!!

Candles

Cd player (better than TV to mask any 'noise'!)

Spare sheet/towel to cover the bed, dont want to leave any evidence of any sort......lube, whipped cream etc!

The Daisy Duke idea is a good one.

Keep the ideas coming please.

Burlesque with a feather boa?  Nipple tassels are fun but it depends if you and the OH would actually like that.  Burlesque is strip tease but more fun than serious and sexy so it's light enough if you're nervous and want to laugh your way through it.

Having worked as a Chambermaid many years ago...what you propose to do is nothing to what others do and the state they leave the room in....so don't worry on that score....lol

portable dvd player and some porn? some erotic fiction to read to one another but no touching allowed.

A pack of cards to play saucy  dare games with, i like the cards from love honey here;

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9569

 a video camera or digital camera? ;)

xxx

They have sold out Curvy....lol....

ah right, they were on my wishlist lol...didnt notice they were out...hmmm :(

I guess you could always come up with your own nasty cards....lol

Hiya Naughty40 what did you decide upon in the end??

Tallboy

I ordered some stuff - eargerly awaiting parcel as I speak. tracker says its at the depot somewhere in the Midlands!

Its next weekend we go away, so let me see, what did I order?

Butt plug

Crotchelss knicks

Lube (plenty of)

Starter bondage kit

suggestion cards

Got some bits n pieces to pick up during the week - so its all systems go. Providing the darn headaches stay away of course!

Well don't you go leaving it all in the wardrobe at that end hun xxx

Tallboy

Hey Naughty40,

You know you are going to have us with you every inch of the way (ahem) this sort of thing is soooooooo exciting!

One simple thing not yet mentioned is taking a bottle of massage oil with you and some tealights in holders (probably against fire policy at the hotel but who will know?)  A lovely warm massage does wonders for everyone and incorporating a little teasing and titillating will get you both in the mood for deeper exploration!

A good dressing  up scenario might be a French maid...you could pop on the outfit and role play in a very light-hearted way pretending you were cleaning the room when you stumbled across an open box full of sexy goodies (all your toys etc), and quiz him with what he intended to do with each and every one!

Regarding the anal play. Let it be just that. If the timing is right experiment away, otherwise just leave it for a more appropriate time. I'd recommend Liquid Silk as the best lube for EVERYTHING, and it doesn't leave marks on bedding!

Don't forget to ask at the bar for a glass full of ice to take with you for your bedtime glass of water in your room (of course it has MANY other uses, and again, will dry without a trace if you are feeling self conscious.

I'll keep an eye on this thread and see if I can think of anything else when I have more time.

Enjoy your weekend honey,

Legs xx

Sounds good naughty!  I hope you have a fab time (and do tell us all about it!)

Id say defo take some massage oil, or baby oil! It can be seriously sexy, but sex away from home is always sexy!! let us know how your sexy weekend away goes, or if anyone else has a sexy weekend away!

Hello peeps.

Im back online, been busy with work till now, but got a day off today.

Glad to say that the weekend was a VERY enjoyable one. Hubby was certainly very errmmm 'suprised' at some of the things I had packed. Poor thing nearly had heart failure just taking the suitcase to the car. Then when we got to the hotel - we were upstairs....with no apparent lift!

Fire regulations - there were notices all round the building forbidding smoking (of course), the smoke alarm very prominent - so we did not rick the tea lights. But managed to disable one of the bedside lights so that we got a very low level of lighting. If I had thought I would have taken a plug in candlelight. But hey ho maybe next time.