Do you discuss sex/sex toys with your friends?

 I only talk it about it to my two friends that dont get all disturbed the minute you say something about sex toys its mainly explainig the ins and outs of anl . However my other friend who I only talk to through web cam and the xbox.openly discuss everything and anything and now and again I even show him some of the stuff I have.

Ultimately though has to be said the two I talk to about these things are not your average folk in fact you might say there a little insane however my other friends not normal thems selves get all awkward even when you only bring up straight stuff you cant even discuss porn openly with some of them.

I have no problem talking about sex & sex toys with my friends we consistently talk about what we get up to with our partners, techniques we have tried how good they are or bad we talk about masturbation & sexy lingerie what turns us & our partners on, we even tell each other about erotic films we have seen & what happend afterwoods.

Yes , i too have no problem discussing sex toys with friends in fact i enjoy it. I also enjoy telling K about it when he is away on his trips. I like to think of him thinking about it whilst he is all alone in his room.

 Nope. Just on the LH forums. 

I have no one to talk about sex to anymore! (Avrielle no friends!)

But I'm happy to talk openly about some sex stuff. Always have since I became sexually active. Before, I was shy and blushed at the thought of.. well, anything really! But since, I have been the one who is happy to talk about sex and in particular, the physcology of fetish, with people! It is just very interesting to hear other peoples views on it all.

But I don't feel comfortable with talking about what sex toy I used last night, or things like that. I used to have a good friend who we would talk about all sorts of things about, but often talking about what our boyfriends liked rather than what we liked. For instance, she would tell me about how her boyfriend hid her giant pink vibrator when he went away for a weekend! Heh. Drove her mad! But never talked to eachother about the vibrators performance or anything like that... strangely!

Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

But I don't feel comfortable with talking about what sex toy I used last night, or things like that. I used to have a good friend who we would talk about all sorts of things about, but often talking about what our boyfriends liked rather than what we liked. For instance, she would tell me about how her boyfriend hid her giant pink vibrator when he went away for a weekend! Heh. Drove her mad! But never talked to eachother about the vibrators performance or anything like that... strangely!

I don't think that's strange!  When I bought the vibrator for my friend, I didn't feel able to ask her directly what sort of stimulation she preferred.  Even though she's a good friend, that would have seemed intrusive and pervy to me.  Instead, I asked her about the one that she had broken.

Ironically, my friend then chose to tell me in unexpected detail about the features that she liked on her old vibrator and the way that she had used it -- but that was entirely her choice.  As it turned out, part of the reason why I then went ahead and placed the order was that I'd been given a clear prescription of her requirement.  (I think this friend would be very much at home on this forum!)

When I've discussed sex with friends, I've never been explicit about my own or my wife's behaviour.  Again, that would seem out-of-place to me.  Instead, I've been happy to talk in general terms about techniques, toys and preferences.  Inevitably, I've read between the lines of the conversation, and I imagine that my friends have done the same, but that seems okay to me (and is actually part of the fun!).