Do you like your naked self?

I think the best thing I ever learnt was that confidence hides a multitude of "flaws".

Anyone who can fake confidence will look sexy as long as it is confidence rather than cockyness...

Adx

sometimes. When i have just got out of a really hot shower, towled down and then look in the morror, i like what i see, but sometimes (too often) look in the mirror and see so much wrong.

I'm alright... what a dull response - i like being naked when i'm having a thin day but when i'm naked and feeling fat I cant stand it so its big hoodies for me!!!

So all in all i wouldnt change my body but i'd prefer to have more feeling thin days!!

xGHx

I think I'm a tad older than most of you sexy lot at 41 so have had more time to just accept what I am and be happy with myself. I never look at myself and think I look this or that and I do make a concious effort to keep fit and healthy but that's not a vanity thing it's a I wanna live longer thing! My OH is happy running her hands and lips all over me so I can't complain. I do not ever judge anyone on appearance, looks, skin colour or anything. I accept everyone for who they are. Everybody is beautiful in their own way!

I'm just a happy person!

SG x

I used to hate my body and never let anyone see me naked (good old lights off sex lol) but now I'm soooo much better and gladfully walk around totally naked

I hate my body but I don't let it effect me in any way. My oh loves every aspect of me and you guys always give really nice compliments to my photo's so it can't be as bad as I think. This year I have been proactive for the first time ever and have lost a considerable amount of weight but there's still a huge amount to go. I just don't have confidence in many parts of me.

 If I am honest, which this seems to be about - not overly happy to be honest.  Not bothered enough to do anything about it though!  I could lose 14-20 lbs easily and gain the same in muscle and it would help a lot, but it never really offends me that much, I just have rock-bottom confidence at the moment anyway.  Maybe once I get my esteem up a bit the dynamics of the physical side of things will resolve better and I'll either be bothered or not.

I much prefer to be functionally strong and physically able than polished and chiselled.  It seems a bit vain to me to seek the appearance of a strong body.  If chiselled and beautifully formed follows from gaining more functional strength and fitness then that's just dandy, but I would never have a goal of looking so-and-so.

I'm not a shallow person I like to think, there's much much more to people than how they look, so it holds less importance to me.  Then again, as a fat ugly ape-man maybe relying less on physical judgement comes naturally?

Jay2010

I hate my body and my OH hates hers but if someone that looks like you hates her body too then I guess it is just a self problem because you are stunnin LH x

thankyou, i guess no-one is ever happy with what they have and like people say skinny people want cuves and curvy people want to be thin, i guess everyone is unique and everyone can be sexy they just have to learn how to "work what they've got" like i have fairly small boobs but know how i can make the look good in or out of a bra and im covered in scars but if i have a sexy confident look in my eyes 8/10 times no-one will even know i have scars on my thighs! and to be honest my man seems to love my body and thats all that really matters hes happy, therefore i happy so who cares

we'd be bloody well complaining if we all looked the same! x

I really don't like me, and I'm constantly comparing myself to others. I just try not to think about it too much, people don't see me naked that often anyway

If my OH didn't come near me it was my body at fault and if we argued it was my body at fault, that was untill he told me he didn't care what I looked like but  he knew I needed his encouragement and support to get my backside moving. I lost a stone and felt so much better its just a shame it's all stalled, I excersise every day and even though the scales are staying put the shape of my body is changing, I have dents where the fat has burned off and I love showing him the new ones I find lol. I'm covered in streach marks but they are silver now and my boobs look good when squished in a bra, my stomach is wobbly but where it would cover my c section scar when laying down but it is no where near it now, it still is the one part of me I really hate and do everything I can to hide it by wearing control pants almost every day, but I don't cringe when OH touches it now like I always used to.

its odd, I have stretch marks on my arms, sometimes they are silver and sometimes they are blue...

Oh I tried everything to stop stretch marks when I was pregnant with my twins but even though I had a small bump and they were 7 weeks early I still got loads of new ones!!!

I used to hate the way my body looked.....but i think as iv got older.......and especially in my thrities, iv just developed this huge confidence about the way i look and im a whole lot happier with my naked self. Im a size 10/12.......and i suppose the only thing i do have a bit of a hang up about is the huge c section scar i have...so i dont have a perfectly flat tummy........but apart from that im quite happy to prance around with nothing on.....and love parading around in underwear.

I have curves in all the right places, small but perfectly formed boobs and a very grabable ass..........a sexy womanly figure......id never want to be too skinny.

My oh loves my body, scar and all...and finds me sexy with or without clothes....

Overall Im a happy and healthy size. I think the only thing i have always wanted was a smaller waist but hey...you cant have everything!!!......

I'm finding this thread on the whole quite positiive! Go you sexy people whoo!!!

I'm not very confident about my body in general but i am with my girlfriend and as she's the only one who gets to see it naked then i guess all is fine! She doesn't mind a little bit of flab. We're both in our 30's so things beginning to sag slightly but i love it! x MC x

Jonno wrote:

its odd, I have stretch marks on my arms, sometimes they are silver and sometimes they are blue...

My OH has this too, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest :)

I am happy that i am not carrying too much excesse fat, but would love to have some more muscle definition, just too lazy to go to a gym ah well

Doug wrote:

I am happy that i am not carrying too much excesse fat, but would love to have some more muscle definition, just too lazy to go to a gym ah well

join the club.....gyms are so damn boring...........just cant get motivated either to go.....i have a power plate at home..........vibrating the fat away is the way forward....lol

nice, ah if the weather gets better might stick my iPod on and go for a long bike ride.

toxycat wrote:

Doug wrote:

I am happy that i am not carrying too much excesse fat, but would love to have some more muscle definition, just too lazy to go to a gym ah well

join the club.....gyms are so damn boring...........just cant get motivated either to go.....i have a power plate at home..........vibrating the fat away is the way forward....lol

i went to that flabeloss thing that is like toning tables.. bit weird.. personally i like to shagg it off ;) xx