• First time anal

    XxCocktailxX [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my boyfriend have talked about trying anal soon.. it will be the first time for both of us so any advice would be great thanks

    Kitty_McPlunder [sign in to see picture]
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    Do a bit of stretching first with a lubed up finger and work up to a butt plug or anal tool if you have one, then for the main event just take it slow and really try to relax, use lots of good quality lube, and make sure he knows to stop as soon as you say so, or if an bleeding occurs, etc.

    I find that once he's in proper then the fun really begins and I can enjoy some really vigorous thrusts. - But find your own way and see what feels best for you.

    Best of luck, its worth it!

    XxCocktailxX [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you... :)
    what would be the best way to put it in, because its quite tight.


    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    • Lube, Lube, Lube.
    • Specifically, anal lube. It's made for the job and there's a reason that it's good: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/
    • Don't use anything that will numb you.
    • Condoms. Again, they need to be suitable for the job. Extra strength is ideal.
    • If it hurts, stop.
    • Don't set a goal. If you go in with an aim to get every inch up you, it won't be as fun. Enjoy the sensations. Start slowly. Use fingers, toys and ease in slowy.

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    XxCocktailxX [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for your advice!

    Muz333 [sign in to see picture]
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    Sounds like you've got all the advice you need but just to reinforce it use a LOT of lubricant. You can't produce your own there so you want to make sure you have more than enough lubricant applied. You'll also want to try a finger and then two first keeping them in until you feel comfortable otherwise you just going to get a lot of pain. It's also important to note that you'll want to be clean there beforehand to avoid any potentially embarrassing incidents.

    I know tigerlillies suggested not to use any numbing creams but we've got some this week which were going to test at some point so I'll let you know what we feel of them afterwards.

    Lookin - Yummy [sign in to see picture]
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    It has all been said and I would advise you do take on board what people have tole you , so you can really enjoy it.

    I will emphasise though : LUBE , LUBE AND LOTS MORE LUBE !!!!



    Enjoy !

    XxCocktailxX [sign in to see picture]
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    .... Thank you everyone,
    we will use all your advice, you have been helpful
    we will let you know how it goes :)

    thanks !!

    RubberJin [sign in to see picture]
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    Just to add, advice I remember from an interview possibly with a porn star in Bizarre - guys should allow the woman to back onto their cock, not push it in.

    I'd say that's a pretty sound way of doing it. Lube is important, if it hurts/stings at all then stop, slowly withdraw, add a bit more lube & gently try again. If it doesn't help then don't force it, you may have to work up to it, I'm pretty sure I couldn't have taken something cock-sized when I first started playing.

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