Sex with strangers

if you were offered sex with someone you didnt know very well (ie off the net or a neighbour or someone passing aquantance) maybe in a group would you do it ?!"

That would depend entirely on the stranger...if the person looked like Anne Hathaway then maybe yes, if she looked like Ann Widdecombe probably not!

It would depend on context too, if some random just knocked on the door I'd be suspicious I was about to get robbed or something but if I met in a club I'd probably be a bit (or a lot) more receptive to a stangers advances!

xxKPxx

thats true, I wouldnt mind playing with my neighbour, shes really hot.

KittyPurry wrote:

That would depend entirely on the stranger...if the person looked like Anne Hathaway then maybe yes, if she looked like Ann Widdecombe probably not!

It would depend on context too, if some random just knocked on the door I'd be suspicious I was about to get robbed or something but if I met in a club I'd probably be a bit (or a lot) more receptive to a stangers advances!

xxKPxx

Those bloody Jehovah's witnesses ey? They'll do anything to get another one won't they.

WandA wrote:

KittyPurry wrote:

That would depend entirely on the stranger...if the person looked like Anne Hathaway then maybe yes, if she looked like Ann Widdecombe probably not!

It would depend on context too, if some random just knocked on the door I'd be suspicious I was about to get robbed or something but if I met in a club I'd probably be a bit (or a lot) more receptive to a stangers advances!

xxKPxx

Those bloody Jehovah's witnesses ey? They'll do anything to get another one won't they.

lol

WandA wrote:

KittyPurry wrote:

That would depend entirely on the stranger...if the person looked like Anne Hathaway then maybe yes, if she looked like Ann Widdecombe probably not!

It would depend on context too, if some random just knocked on the door I'd be suspicious I was about to get robbed or something but if I met in a club I'd probably be a bit (or a lot) more receptive to a stangers advances!

xxKPxx

Those bloody Jehovah's witnesses ey? They'll do anything to get another one won't they.

Those energy company changeover blokes too! I must get at least two per month . . . .

" Hello sir. Are you the owner? yes

If you change over to us I will let you hammer me in the arse sir. So would you be wanting to swap over?" no

SG

SEXYGET 69 wrote:

WandA wrote:

KittyPurry wrote:

That would depend entirely on the stranger...if the person looked like Anne Hathaway then maybe yes, if she looked like Ann Widdecombe probably not!

It would depend on context too, if some random just knocked on the door I'd be suspicious I was about to get robbed or something but if I met in a club I'd probably be a bit (or a lot) more receptive to a stangers advances!

xxKPxx

Those bloody Jehovah's witnesses ey? They'll do anything to get another one won't they.

Those energy company changeover blokes too! I must get at least two per month . . . .

" Hello sir. Are you the owner? yes

If you change over to us I will let you hammer me in the arse sir. So would you be wanting to swap over?" no

SG

They'll do anything to get your plugs in their sockets...

I have been in the past and have said no everytime. It's just not the sort of thing I'm in to but fair play to people who like that sorta thing. =)

 It really depends on the person and the circumstances. I'm bi-curious but I've never had anything with a girl, so a random girl I'd be much more likely to say yes to than a random guy. I don't really find guys sexually attractive, so it'd have to be exceptional circumstances before I went for a guy.

lol...... i like thris thread. Infact my OH and I met up and although chatted on msn b4 we met up purely for sex to stary with. Turned out we actually really liked each other though and well rest is history lol

Malteser81 wrote:

lol...... i like thris thread. Infact my OH and I met up and although chatted on msn b4 we met up purely for sex to stary with. Turned out we actually really liked each other though and well rest is history lol

Awww that's so cute! =D

Little Lady wrote:

Malteser81 wrote:

lol...... i like thris thread. Infact my OH and I met up and although chatted on msn b4 we met up purely for sex to stary with. Turned out we actually really liked each other though and well rest is history lol

Awww that's so cute! =D

He is...... strange how things work out but I couldnt be happier =)

Malteser81 wrote:

Little Lady wrote:

Malteser81 wrote:

lol...... i like thris thread. Infact my OH and I met up and although chatted on msn b4 we met up purely for sex to stary with. Turned out we actually really liked each other though and well rest is history lol

Awww that's so cute! =D

He is...... strange how things work out but I couldnt be happier =)

Yeah definatly. =D I met my boyfriend at college, but I had looked at his MySpace profile before we met. =P

Malteser81 wrote:

lol...... i like thris thread. Infact my OH and I met up and although chatted on msn b4 we met up purely for sex to stary with. Turned out we actually really liked each other though and well rest is history lol

Somebody made a good impression!

Hope all goes well Malt!

WandA wrote:

Malteser81 wrote:

lol...... i like thris thread. Infact my OH and I met up and although chatted on msn b4 we met up purely for sex to stary with. Turned out we actually really liked each other though and well rest is history lol

Somebody made a good impression!

Hope all goes well Malt!

lol..... he really did  and just keeps getting better

Although I have had a number of one night stands with strangers in the past and my OH was actually supposed to be a one night stand too, I actually feel quite against sex with strangers at the moment. I know, I'm a hypocrite!

The way I see it now though is that its much more fun to get to know the person before you sleep with them, and it adds to the essence of excitement when you build a real relationship with someone who can be your friend as well as a partner or sleeping buddy.

Maybe I'm just getting old! Lol!

I know what you mean, I've had more than my fair share of one-nighters, and to my shame couldn't even guess at the names of some of the men I've been with, but now I feel that much more wary.  Perhaps it's getting old, perhaps it's becoming more aware of the risks, or perhaps it's just getting bored with the routine of get drunk, get laid, feel bad about yourself.  Probably a little of each. 

I'd still never say I wouldn't have casual sex, but I don't think I'd ever go back to picking up strangers in a bar or what have you.  'Neighbour or passing aquaintence', maybe, depending on what kind of trouble could result (like are they friends with someone who'll feel torn if things get awkward after, or are they likely to want more and then I'm stuck trying to hang out the washing at 5am so they don't catch me in the garden?).

And obviously depends on if there's attraction there.  If I'm going to risk all the awkwardness and issues - and that fact that it could be absolutely terrible! - I at least want to be mildly aroused in his presence.

I don't think i would have sex with a stranger, I always go more on looks to get my into bed.

I had a one-night stand which led into casual sex and it's been like that (with the same guy) for 18 months - it works more now as he's not a stranger.

would i totally relax with a stranger? probably not which I know wouldn't be half as much fun!!

BashfulBabe - maybe I'm getting old too! ha

xGHx

I have done it a few times, not with complete strangers, but people in my kind of circle of friends.

Bad things can happen, but I think you have to take a few chances.