Small Boobs (Lack of confidence)

chels18 wrote:

 Thing is, when i wear paded bra's you wouldnt think my boobs are small - when people hear I want a boob job they think im MAD but its when you get me in a bikini or naked!

I feel like im bottom side heavy and really I think I'd like boobs that weren't massive but a FULL cupsize if you know what i mean, rather than go for DD boobs that stick out, I wanna get ones that are a full C going to a D and soft looking...

I dont mind my nipples, but i dont love them, and my chest bone sticks out so it makes me look more flat chested!

Oh the WOO's of being a girl eh!!

Good idea about my partner enjoying them though, problem is, i get to the stage I just wanna roll over and cry when she looks at them!

I have huge hips, tiny boobs and a less than washboard stomach making me look like a boy from side on without clothes - however, just look at photos of old style painting of classically "beautiful" woman - almost always "bottom heavy" with little, natural boobs - it was considered beautiful before fashion got involved!

Adx

Alicia D'amore wrote:

Noon wrote:

Alicia D'amore wrote:

Read my post and stop being silly :P

I am sure you meant that in the nicest way possible, but it does look a bit dismissive you know!

I hope you don't mind me saying. :/

Back OT...  I love smaller boobs too :)

It wasn't dismissive - I've written about this before, and have an essay to do - my previous post, which I reposted, was very detailed and confidence boosting which is why I referred to it twice on the same page, I didn't have time to rewrite such a detailed reply so I thought bumping that one would suffice. Maybe you could do with reading my post too.

Adx

Also I should have added - I said what I did specifically to cNr because she has such a similar physique to me and my post detailed how I overcame my own insecurities.

In context - it couldn't have been less dismissive.

Adx

Ones ability to harbour fat upon their upper ribs isn't a gauge of sexiness in my book. I hear more often than not that my lovers are into smaller breasts, but tough shit! My E-cups are what I'm stuck with and therefore so are they.

I refuse to acquire an iota of insecurity over what has been and gone before me and nor should you. I'm not the same shape as any of my friends and they don't appear to be the same shape as any of theirs. And so on. We're all wonderfully unique creatures with inny outty bits all over the shop at different angles and of different volumes. Don't be afraid of your body cos it's yours to work with, so work it gooooood!

xx

Alicia D'amore wrote:

toycar69 wrote:

AD, I don't think you particularly need an ego boost, but either way, profile pics and photo uploads: Wow!  Lucky Wanda

Are you saying I have an ego :(

Adx

lol!  Ah, no sweetie, thats definitely not what I was trying to say.  What I meant was that you come across on here as a very confident and well adjusted individual.  Hence, no need for me to give you an extra ego boost.  Of course, I could just add that your pics show you to have a very sexy figure, and that Wanda is a lucky guy, but I think I've mentioned the lucky bit before.

WandA wrote:

Loves huni wrote:

you know what i wanna carry a mini Ad & WandA in my pocket for when ever i feel down or insecure you two both know how to word things just right! :) makes me happy and smiley! :D x

You leave my penis out of this!

Ok, OK, I'll send it: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2448

(Hope you wear dungarees or something with equally big pockets...)

Ad showed me a rather fantastic pic you posted recently LH... We both thought for once my stingy stepdad had put the heating on...

I must say though, I am generally rather impressed with the boobage on display here! I love almost all of 'em!

hahahahaha ooh which picture? im intregued (how on earth is that spelt? - god i need to go back to like primary school!!)

the more i think about it the more i do love small boobs! ive always been paranoid about mine and did hate them but recently im liking them more and more :) (i think the piercing helps) and they have grown a bit too () yay for boobs

though on other girls i do prefer french breasts (as kp calls them) i think there pretty and feminine, but everyone is unique and individual so i guess boobs are just an added bonus  xx

toycar69 wrote:

Alicia D'amore wrote:

toycar69 wrote:

AD, I don't think you particularly need an ego boost, but either way, profile pics and photo uploads: Wow!  Lucky Wanda

Are you saying I have an ego :(

Adx

lol!  Ah, no sweetie, thats definitely not what I was trying to say.  What I meant was that you come across on here as a very confident and well adjusted individual.  Hence, no need for me to give you an extra ego boost.  Of course, I could just add that your pics show you to have a very sexy figure, and that Wanda is a lucky guy, but I think I've mentioned the lucky bit before.

Hehe, that's ok then! I work hard to come across as well adjusted

Kidding - I learnt a long time ago that insecurities are a bit of a waste of energy - they serve no positive purpose and won't change anything! So instead, I work on the things I don't like about myself that *can* be changed, and learn to love the things that can't!

And thanks very much for the photo compliments  I might be fairly confident but most people would feel vulnerable when they post semi-naked photos - it's nice that they're appreciated

Oh and LH I think WandA was talking about your latest blog photo! Beautiful y'are!

Adxx

LoveHoney - Hella Rouge wrote:

Ones ability to harbour fat upon their upper ribs isn't a gauge of sexiness in my book. I hear more often than not that my lovers are into smaller breasts, but tough shit! My E-cups are what I'm stuck with and therefore so are they.

I refuse to acquire an iota of insecurity over what has been and gone before me and nor should you. I'm not the same shape as any of my friends and they don't appear to be the same shape as any of theirs. And so on. We're all wonderfully unique creatures with inny outty bits all over the shop at different angles and of different volumes. Don't be afraid of your body cos it's yours to work with, so work it gooooood!

xx

Hella, you have a fabulous way with words X

Loves huni wrote:

hahahahaha ooh which picture? im intregued (how on earth is that spelt? - god i need to go back to like primary school!!)

the more i think about it the more i do love small boobs! ive always been paranoid about mine and did hate them but recently im liking them more and more :) (i think the piercing helps) and they have grown a bit too () yay for boobs

though on other girls i do prefer french breasts (as kp calls them) i think there pretty and feminine, but everyone is unique and individual so i guess boobs are just an added bonus  xx

It was a rather fine piccie from a certain website (I won't mention it by name, I don't want the millions flocking to your post to break the internet!). *Off for a sneaky peek just to make sure it hasn't gone!*

I do like KP's term, even if It makes me think of a grumpy lady with smaller boobs.

Intrigued, I hope you don't mind be posting spellings, I only do because you ask!

Alicia D'amore wrote:

toycar69 wrote:

Alicia D'amore wrote:

toycar69 wrote:

AD, I don't think you particularly need an ego boost, but either way, profile pics and photo uploads: Wow!  Lucky Wanda

Are you saying I have an ego :(

Adx

lol!  Ah, no sweetie, thats definitely not what I was trying to say.  What I meant was that you come across on here as a very confident and well adjusted individual.  Hence, no need for me to give you an extra ego boost.  Of course, I could just add that your pics show you to have a very sexy figure, and that Wanda is a lucky guy, but I think I've mentioned the lucky bit before.

Hehe, that's ok then! I work hard to come across as well adjusted

Kidding - I learnt a long time ago that insecurities are a bit of a waste of energy - they serve no positive purpose and won't change anything! So instead, I work on the things I don't like about myself that *can* be changed, and learn to love the things that can't!

And thanks very much for the photo compliments  I might be fairly confident but most people would feel vulnerable when they post semi-naked photos - it's nice that they're appreciated

Oh and LH I think WandA was talking about your latest blog photo! Beautiful y'are!

Adxx

Guess who has had logic beaten in to them by their boyfriend?*

*Whispers, Ad was right about that LH*

*Not actual beatings.

Everyone has something about their body they would like to change, from a guy's POV for myself, I would change a few things, but they are impossible to change, the point is a simple one really, we are all human beings, with a form of appearence, what truly counts is how people treat you & how you treat people in life, we all have a wonderful element within ourselves, our hearts, our ability to love people for who & what they are. Loving yourself (not in a naughty way) is a big bonus.  

There are alot of beautiful people on here judging by the pictures & alot of lucky partners for those ladies that are in relationships with partners or prospective partners.

Take care everyone

I have to say, i actually preffer smaller breasts.  Saying that, i dont fixate on just one area.  Your personality, clothing, likes, dislikes, scent... everything counts for more.

I'm sure you have heard this before, but.. be yourself. And remember this.... would you rather want people looking at your boobs, or into your eyes? x

AmbitiousOutsider wrote:

I have very small boobs 34A, and I am really self conscious about them.  When out I do wear padded bras but worry once I am in the bedroom.  I do have a boyfriend and know his ex had very large boobs, he says he is happy with me but all I hear is that men love big boobs and wonder if he is really happy with me.

I want to be confident about them. 

Any other women on here who have small boobs, did you worry about them ?

thanks

I'm a 38J/36JJ and I have had 2 boyfriends obsessed with breasts, 1 who couldn't care less and practically ignored them and another who didn't care either I think. Anyhow, basically there are men and women out their that prefer big or small or a handful. You're more likely to attract those who like smaller breasts because most people go for what they can see in front of them, a padded bra will only fill you out a bit really, even if its just an extra cup. I wouldn't wish big boobs on anyone, they cause a lot of problems, from growing adnormally, to sagging early, to giving your back and shoulder ache and not to mention the fact bras cost £30 upwards and are mostly disgusting :P

Be proud of your breasts, extremely proud of them, they're part of you, they don't 'make' you, they are just part of you. :)

 My OH has tiny boobs but I do love them. In fact, I wish she would show off more. She has a gorgeous bum and a great figure even after 2 kids. I was wondering if there was any lingerie that makes the most of small boobs. SOmething off the beaten track. Padded bras are such a turn off. I want to show off her pert nipples.

 Get see-through, looks good on petite ladies and no padding  

Only 5 minutes ago we discovered a new tip!

Sheer fabrics, they create shadow underneath the breast and make them look a little bigger.

Good tip from Strawberry too, I find semi-transparent materials to focus smaller breasts in a very feminine way. It portrays a delicate femininity in my opinion.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20213

I found this was great on my small boobs. It was stretchy and didn't have proper cups, so there were no baggy bits (trying on lingerie where the cups are too big always makes me look silly and dents my confidence, so avoid this if your wife is already self-conscious!). So perhaps try something like this.

I'd avoid anything too plunging and that's obviously designed to show off a cleavage, or she might be put off. Also pick something that makes the most of her bum and other good bits too, and she'll probably be more keen to wear it.

I haven't tried one yet but always imagined a sheer bodystocking would be flattering on smaller boobs? You can get them for less than a tenner so might be worth a try

 I've got E-F breasts, and I love them, although having big boobs brings with it a certain level of insecurity with it too. My boyfriend is very open about the fact he loves my big boobs and wouldn't like it if they were small, and this has left me a bit insecure. I mean, I love that he loves my boobs, but at the same time I'm worried that if something happened to them, it would be major upset for us! Say I got breast cancer and had to have one or both of my boobs removed, or even if I just lost weight (which I'd like to) and my boobs got smaller as a result, it could well cause me major issues. This isn't me saying that small breasts are bad in themselves (I mean hey, boobs are amazing, no matter what size!), but it would make me very insecure. At the same time, I'm insecure with my big boobs, because it makes me feel like my OH appreciates me more because I have body features that please him, and it makes me feel like he should love me whatever I look like.

This probably makes no sense!

my boobs atm are 32DD. problem is if i want these nice plump breasts i have to put up with big belly and big thighs. now im on a regime to get my body smaller my breasts will most certainly shrink. then i sit around moping about my small breasts and not my fat bits  its a vicious cycle..

Ecksvie wrote:

 I've got E-F breasts, and I love them, although having big boobs brings with it a certain level of insecurity with it too. My boyfriend is very open about the fact he loves my big boobs and wouldn't like it if they were small, and this has left me a bit insecure. I mean, I love that he loves my boobs, but at the same time I'm worried that if something happened to them, it would be major upset for us! Say I got breast cancer and had to have one or both of my boobs removed, or even if I just lost weight (which I'd like to) and my boobs got smaller as a result, it could well cause me major issues. This isn't me saying that small breasts are bad in themselves (I mean hey, boobs are amazing, no matter what size!), but it would make me very insecure. At the same time, I'm insecure with my big boobs, because it makes me feel like my OH appreciates me more because I have body features that please him, and it makes me feel like he should love me whatever I look like.

This probably makes no sense!

No, I feel the same way!

The good thing about my bf is that I know he doesn't really have a preference.. His exes have had various bust sizes but he was quite impressed with my size and teased me about my "D" cups. I think it would have gone either way id I was to have smaller boobs. I attracted him with my wit and wonderful personality lol. It's one of the perks of starting off with an online relationship. He loves how I look but it's not all about that. We talk about boring stuff like current world affairs and politics and still make weird noises on voice chats and laugh about stupid stuff.

Back to the thread title.. I really do think women can flaunt both the slightly small boob look and the volumptuous look. It's tied a lot to confidence and how you come across to people.