hang-ups, problems, jealousy and general silliness

lol im only 20 and i agree

Goodness me!  Don't be too despondent, I'm sure there's a nice one waiting for you out there, somewhere.

God 20!  I was working in L.A. at the Playboy Mansion then and having the time of my life. 

Get out there girl.  Life is short!

Well I'm getting out there tonight lol, well hopefully anyway if the guys want me, your so lucky to have worked in the playboy mansion, im so jealous!

I,m jealous as well ! heth is so cool and a lucky man..

studley wrote:

I,m jealous as well ! heth is so cool and a lucky man..

Lucky man?  Who, Hefner?  Never even knew my name.  It was a diffirent world in those days.

My biggest hang up?? well after a relationship of 17yrs married for 8 of it, and afab sex life, my ex wife decidd to cheat on me with another man, and like any bloke needed to see what he looked like and why she left me for him well after a bit of scouting around a few months back, i finally seen him, dont get me wrong im no Bredd Pitt but well, im ok i believe, 5`10, just under 11st, blonde,blue/green eyes, average penis.

 So i seen him and, not being bitchy WOT THE EFFING HELL???

SO Z, dont no wot i did then?? well him same height as me, but very large? 17st at least, he must be hung like a horse,he dont work,scruffy looking, no car, lives in a crappy bedsit?   dont figure.. so my biggest hang up?? insecurity i suppose after all that...

sexymel88 wrote:

or you go for the one you think is amazing but he turns into some kind of monster

Like a transformer?

Truly Scrumptious wrote:

studley wrote:

I,m jealous as well ! heth is so cool and a lucky man..

Lucky man?  Who, Hefner?  Never even knew my name.  It was a diffirent world in those days.

Yeah I watch the T.V series sometimes..

on e ! virgin 173 girls of the playboy mansions.! it's on tonight 19.00

Watch out for me in my former life!

I would but don't know what you look like now or then,

pick any blonde , LOL

I've gone back to my mousy brown roots now.

Andserkiel wrote:

My "partner" as I refer to on here actually techinally stopped being that almost 2 months ago.... but we occassionally had sex so I felt I wasn't lieing as he was my "sex partner" still really. I believed he would come back and I didn't want anyone on here flirting with me if I said I was single... lol I'm odd I know. And kinda in denial.

Well he's gone and kissed a girl he promised me he would do nothing with so now I don't know what to think. I look a fool. But he still claims to love and want and miss me but is going through those good old commitment issues where at 20 he feels being in a serious relastionship for over 2 years and haveing such strong feelings for someone is too much at his age. He should be single not tied down.

He has a bit of an ego and thinks that if im still single when he's ready to settle down he can "re-woo" me and I'll want him back. -_- Why should I wait around while he has his fun? But I want to hate him but I can't. Blinded by love yay.... *sigh*

Once a cheat...

Yeah a leopard never changes it's spot's

Hmm, Hang ups and general silliness eh?

God, I've got a few, most of which have been carefully hidden during many years in the sexual wilderness, but which are re-emerging now that I am in a fantastic, serious relationship for the first time in a very long time .

Most of mine date back to a typical, conservative, middle class upbringing, where sex and bodily exploration are seen as somehow dirty (I mean, what on earth is dirty about the one thing that brought us all here????), "cheap", naughty or perverse, but my new man and I are slowly cutting through all the crap and exploring and enjoying sex in a way I never thought possible.

So, I've rapidly got over feeling body conscious - never been so relaxed about being naked with a man, can now discuss sex in an open, honest and frank way without feeling ashamed, and can share fantasies and ideas with my partner.  I've also lost (almost) all my inhibitions about squirting when I orgasm - yeah!  I still feel a bit inhibited about playing with myself when he is watching (or, indeed, as I discovered the other night, when he is downstairs watching telly!), which is frankly stupid on my part, as it really turns me on to watch him, and last night, I even began to loose my inhibitions about anal play.........

And all thanks to the love and care of a great man.  They really do exist!

Andserkiel wrote:

Glad you've got someone to give you such support (and great orgasms it seems!) Whirlybird. He must be loving watching you come out of your shell under his guidance & love. Hang onto him!

Hi Andserkiel,

Oh, I plan to hang onto him for a very, very, very long time!  Until I met him, I was one of those girls who privately didn't get what all the fuss was about, although publicly I would join in with the bragging.  But now, I really do get what all the fuss is about, and my brags are no longer lies!  I can honestly say that sex has never been this good, or this much fun, and I plan to continue exploring it with him for many years to come.  Do you think it's possible to exhaust the Lovehoney stock list???

If you give up your job and social life... then yes, you can exhaust the stock list! x

Whirlybird hold onto him for as long as possible!

I've had mad fluctuations due to feeding babies and illness, even considered surgery last yearas were empty sacks, now am nearly DDthrough healthy weight gain, men love them whatever!