• Daddy play

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    Xavier [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife and I have never done this before but yesterday she got back after a week away and we went upstairs as soon as she got in. We couldn't keep our hands off each other. She used a vibrator on herself (thanks Lovehoney) and then I joked to her that "daddy says its time to put your toy away". We've never previously used "daddy" in that context. She picked it up straight away and kept calling me daddy as we went at it and telling me that she had been a "naughty little girl". I was very turned on and once she said "please c** in my p**** daddy" I couldn't hold on any longer. We came together - for the first time that I can remember.

    Afterwards she said that she really likes "daddy play" and she wants us to do it again. In the bedroom we have a pretty vanilla mild sub/dom relationship, i.e. she likes me to be in charge and take the lead.

    I know that a lot of people find the "daddy" word in this context weird and a bit creepy and, to be honest, before this I would have said the same. However, I'm wondering if anyone else has wife who enjoys this type of play and what I can do to enhance it for her.

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    Jennylafay [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm part of a wonderful kinky comunity and this is not strange at all!

    You do not mean it 'wrong' or 'inappropriate' and your both adults so please don't let that stigma ruin your fun! If you get excited about it, enjoy it!

    Read online and find a safe place like fetlife for example to discuss and explore. There are many levels to it and you need to find what does and what doesn't work for you both.

    Most of all keep communicating about what you both want and have fun!!

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Iam thrilled for you both. Sexual psychology fascinates me. Its wonderful when arousal drives you to do and say things that you would usually feel embarrassed about. Also the things e would love to try and say , be told to do or have done to us but are just to reserved to ask for.

    Its all of our hopes to find a lover who we completely trust that in our sex lives we we can push back the boundaries experience new thing and in this way sex stays exciting. Its a journey of sexual descovery together.

    Many lovers will go a life time or here and years with out fulfilling a desire for fear of being ridiculed or thought of as to kinking or a total fetish freak. There is nothing worse than asking someone you care for to do and they say OMG that's descusting and your a pervert.

    Over the last 3 decades sexual boundaries have been pushed back and rightly so. The moral and society driven ideas of sexuality are being broken down. With the help of Love honey and forums like this we can all live a much more sexualy full filing life. We all know if we are sexualy happy we operate and achieve much more in our normal lives.

    Its great you have felt confident in each other to try something and embrace it.

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    I am in a relationship with a Daddy Dom and his wife, he calls us his little kittens.

    For us,it's about Him caring for us, protcting, guiding and nurturing us, it's a very loving relationship, we do use the term Daddy but we don't particularly sexualise it, although I like asking "Daddy, may I cum please?"

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    littlemisssub [sign in to see picture]
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    What you do in the bedroom - and what you enjoy - is a very personal matter and nobody has any right to judge!

    Many people find it loiters on the line between fine and creepy, because of it's close links to illegal activities such as incest. However, it's clear that you - and many many others - enjoy the power exchange, and don't actually get off on thinking you are her dad. Just enjoy!

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    littlemisssub wrote:

    What you do in the bedroom - and what you enjoy - is a very personal matter and nobody has any right to judge!

    Many people find it loiters on the line between fine and creepy, because of it's close links to illegal activities such as incest. However, it's clear that you - and many many others - enjoy the power exchange, and don't actually get off on thinking you are her dad. Just enjoy!

    Purring-Pussy wrote:

    I am in a relationship with a Daddy Dom and his wife, he calls us his little kittens.

    For us,it's about Him caring for us, protcting, guiding and nurturing us, it's a very loving relationship, we do use the term Daddy but we don't particularly sexualise it, although I like asking "Daddy, may I cum please?"

    +1 each well said both

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    Xavier [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks everyone for all of the constructive feedback.

    I've told me wife that I'm keen to have more "daddy play" with her and that I like the idea of her being my "little girl" in the bedroom. I've thought up a few of scenarios:

    - Daddy gives his little girl a new toy to play with - I purchased a glass anal dildo last week as a surprise as she's been getting into anal over the past year

    - Daddy is horny and his little girl needs to "look after" him.

    - Daddy's got a new film for his little girl to watch so she can learn how to be a good girl for daddy (my wife has encouraged me to enjoy using porn and I have built up a bit of a collection - recently she's said that she'd like to look at some with me)

    My wife says she wants to dress a bit younger for me, so is going to get some cotton undies and bralets that she can wear - usually she wears more lacy/floral stuff.

    Let me know if you have any other ideas. I want to make this really satisfying for her.

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there I am the sub in a dom/sub relationship whatever you call yourselves is totally up to you so don't worry about it. My Dom is known as Sir and I'm anything he chooses to call me but normally along the lines of his naughty little girl 😊

    You could buy your little girl a school girl outfit and get her to write lines for disobedience and purchase the 50 shades of grey ruler for punishment (both can be found on here).
    You could set her tasks to do like colouring book and pens and if she colours it in nicely she gets a reward or punishment if it's not to your liking or she goes out of the lines.
    Make her wear her hair a certain way (pig tails or ribbon ) give her an inspection on depending upon results punish or reward.
    There's orgasm denial or forced orgasm. Tie and tease. The only limitation is your mind but you do need to play safe, sane and consensually and remember safe words it's also a good idea to find her hard and soft limits and agree upon them.
    It can be hard work being a Daddy/Dom so get your little girl to help you buy setting her tasks, one of them being her finding out what she would like to do (Google is good for this) and her writing a list and handing it to you or screenshotting it and sending it to you. It keeps her busy and saves you having to think of different ideas. In doing this you will still be in control because it's still your choosing what's on the list and what you want to do.
    Hope this helps 😊

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    Xavier [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the naughty thoughts Kinkyboots.

    I think some of what you propose probably won't suit my wife - she's not really into costumes - prefers for me to undress her than to dress up. I think things like a colouring book and pens she would find too remote from actual playtime, if you see what I mean.

    She sees my role as to take the lead in sex, although she's willing to go along with whatever I want. In the bedroom she likes to think of herself as very shy/submissive/good and that it is me who makes her naughty. So I think I will be the one who will have to come up with the play.

    She had her p*** lasered earlier this year so that she is completely hairless and she loves me to tell her how much I like her silky smooth hairless p****, so I can see that she has been building up to the "little girl" role for a while. Although she's not particularly petite in shape, she is a size 8 and her t**s are an A cup, and I think she's keen on playing a younger girl role. Although I have no particularl preference agewise I'm happy to go along with that provided we aren't specific as what age exactly she is.

    I am realising that it is hard work being a good "daddy" but my "little girl" is worth it.

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    Xavier [sign in to see picture]
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    I just wanted to update everyone on this thread.

    My wife and I have been playing a lot over the past month - usually with this roleplay of me as "daddy" and her as "little girl". She's been enjoying the new cotton underwear I've bought for her - especially the non-underwired 34A bra. "Do you like the new bras that daddy has bought for you?" "Yes, daddy, but my tits are so little I don't need to wear a bra". She says that she loves being "daddy's little slut".

    As suggested by Lil_Red_Kinkyboots, we've bought a couple of schoolgirls outfits which she really enjoys wearing: "Shall I pull my skirt up a bit more daddy, or can you already see my white cotton little girl panties?" and "Daddy, I think I'm too tired to go to school tomorrow. Can I stay home so that you can play with me all day?"

    She's also asked that I become more dominant with her and that I insist on playing with her whenever I feel horny, which I have been happy to do.

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    Xavier [sign in to see picture]
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    I just wanted to update everyone on this thread.

    My wife and I have been playing a lot over the past month - usually with this roleplay of me as "daddy" and her as "little girl". She's been enjoying the new cotton underwear I've bought for her - especially the non-underwired 34A bra. "Do you like the new bras that daddy has bought for you?" "Yes, daddy, but my tits are so little I don't need to wear a bra". She says that she loves being "daddy's little slut".

    As suggested by Lil_Red_Kinkyboots, we've bought a couple of schoolgirls outfits which she really enjoys wearing: "Shall I pull my skirt up a bit more daddy, or can you already see my white cotton little girl panties?" and "Daddy, I think I'm too tired to go to school tomorrow. Can I stay home so that you can play with me all day?"

    She's also asked that I become more dominant with her and that I insist on playing with her whenever I feel horny, which I have been happy to do.

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    Mo D [sign in to see picture]
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    Happy ending..... or is it a happy beginning ?

    Love the thing about the schoolgirl sets, and some of the other replies to your post about stigmas around that sort of thing. It's put my mind at ease - my wife has bought the schoolgirl set from LH, i'm not supposed to know about it until we go to our fave hotel next weekend, but i found out accidentally and have been worried about enjoying it for obvious reasons.

    Glad it's going well, and glad i saw this thread in my time of need, lol.

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    SqueakyToy [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I'm of the opinion that what tw consenting adults get up to in the privacy of their own home is exactly up to them.

    If they want to cover each other in Marmite and throw feathers at each other to get off that's up to them so sod what anyone else thinks or has to say about it.

    Shame is one of those things you feel when others don't approve.

    In past times my wife encouraged me to "Cum for mummy" and other times she's "Daddy's horny little slut" (though this hasn't happened for a year or so now but it has happened), which is fine. She's not really my daughter or my mummy and I'm not her dad or her son.

    If it gets you off and doesn't involve children, animals or anyone who isn't consenting I don't see why anyone should be a bit creeped out by something they actually enjoy.

    Life is way too short to deny yourself whatever turns your key, be it dressing up, toys, water sports, being tied up .... The list is endless, if it makes you both happy I ask why not? Life is miserable enough without feeling weird about what you may get up to in the bedroom.

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    Eager-2-Please [sign in to see picture]
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    What SqueakyToy said. Consent is key. Also, the Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic is a fairly widespread and well-practiced aspect of many BDSM communities. And the whole "naughty schoolgirl" kink has been around for ages. The book/film Lolita is kind of a cultural cornerstone for age players, so maybe look into reading/watching that.

    It seems like your journey is still just beginning, and there's plenty of naughty and exciting adventures to be had, so just enjoy yourselves because that's what matters, not what anyone else thinks. More roleplay suggestions could include student/teacher scenes, seducing the babysitter, etc... lots of ways for you to corrupt the sweet, innocent (but secrety very, very naughty) girl.

    Have fun you lucky dog, you!

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