• PVC Nurse outfit - Dominatrix

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    Brooklyn-xox [sign in to see picture]
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    *Repost* Edited as I realized my original post was abit too graphic. Moderator feel free to edit if it still is.

    Hi all,

    I recently brought this to wear while dominating my OH.. which I wore with black stockings and latex medical gloves to add to the effect.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34601#customer_reviews

    I'm looking for some advice on what I can do next to my OH while wearing this (I'm wanting it to fit in with the style of the outfit).

    Things to note:
    I love dominating, teasing and edging him until he can barely keep still.

    What I did to him last night:
    On the bed along with a few pillows and I got the restraints ready (ankle and wrist restraints attached to each corner of the metal bed frame). I then got dressed into my outfit and called the OH up to the bedroom where i instructed him to strip down and lie down for me to lock him in place. After telling him that i was going to edge him for hours for being a naughty boy and to make sure that I can extract the biggest sample. I told him that he can only release when I say the words "Release now".

    I then started my evil plan.

    1. I started with some gentle teasing until he was twitching a little.

    2. I then stopped and told him to stop getting excited because he's got a good hour left yet.

    3. After letting him calm down for 20 seconds I continued by extremely lightly playing with him but putting hardly any pressure on, I was just holding it and slightly moving my hand more than anything. This lasted for a good few minutes before I picked up the pace for 20 seconds and then stopped completely. By this point he was already starting to throb quite alot, he was almost ready so I thought we better stop for now.

    4. Before getting ready I previously loaded up a good 20 minute adult video consisting of edging and teasing, turned off the screen so that he didn't know what was coming. I turned the screen on and turned up the volume high. I told him that he has to watch the whole video without taking his eyes off of it while I'm gone and that when I come back we are going to replay the video and that we're going to copy it.

    5. I took out our ball gag and put it tightly into his mouth and then I turned on the video with the volume up high and left the room, checking the time so I knew exactly when to come back.

    6. 20 minutes later I returned to find him fixated with the video and still rock solid, there was already a little mess. I restarted the video and said "now it's your turn".

    7. I copied every part of the video and whenever he couldn't take it anymore I paused the video so that we didn't miss any part and gave him a 20 second break and then resumed.

    8. After the video had finished I counted him down from 10 to 1 and then stopped completely and said "Did you hear me say Release now? No you didn't. Just because I like counting, that doesn't give you permission to release".

    9. I drew a line with my red lipstick just above his belly button and then gave him a few more countdowns and kept stopping until finally I said I'm going to let you release but you must give me 10 releases, they must pass the line and I'm going to count them one by one.

    My OH was shaking by the end of it and said it was unreal and that I could never top what I did to him.. but I want to, any ideas?

    Thanks,
    Brooklyn

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Thought it was ok the first time.

    Still sounds like he had a great night. I'm in long term chastity and I get teased on a regular basis like this. Some times though she stops completely and puts my cage back on. This leaves me very much a wreck the whole of the next day not to mention the continuous dribbling of pre cum whilst locked back up. I must admit I hate not having a release but love the continuous tease. Plus not knowing whether the same will happen again or if indeed I will have a release through a handjob, ruined orgasm or indeed full sex. My oh keeps her cards close to her chest so I'm left guessing every single day.

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    Lovethekink [sign in to see picture]
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    If its a nurses outfit, you could always introduce some medical play...

    Pinwheels, dilation, clamps or even electrostim... obviously depends what you are both intom

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Ahh Estim, I have a prisoner estimate chastity cage which my oh makes me put on if I have been especially naughty like asking to be let out of my cage or being particularly moody. Must admit she hasn't got used to the controls yet because she keeps ramping up the shock. She straps me to the bed with this on and leaves me for 30 mins, even if it makes me orgasm after 15 I still get left for the 30 mins.

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    amber_angel [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey brooklyn,

    When I read your post I nearly went into shock.. almost shaking in disbelief.

    Not at the relationship that you and your partner have. Femdom is not our cup of tea, but that is not what shocked me.

    This is going to seem harsh and personal, but so be it. The importance is just too great to worry about feelings or offense.

    This has to be one of the most irresponsible and even potentially lethal examples of negligence I have heard of if in a dom/sub scene.

               "5. I took out our ball gag and put it tightly into his mouth and then I turned on the video with the volume up high and left the room, checking the time so I knew exactly when to come back.

               6. 20 minutes later I returned"

    You left him by himself bound and gagged for 20 minutes.

    The number of things that could go wrong resulting in life threatening consequences are staggering.

    Maybe the most common is aspiration of vomit . This is if he threw up while gagged and with no place else to go, it goes into his lungs. An extremely painful death taking a few minutes. And you are off somewhere not able to save his life.

    If what you have recounted is NOT just a fantasy that you wrote for the forum, and what you did was truly real,

    I beg of you, from the bottom of my heart, STOP ALL of your "Dom" practices IMMEDIATELY because you have no idea how to do so safely.

    I cannot impress strongly enough on you or anyone reading this thread, how dangerous things can get when you are participating in these acts before you have taken the time to learn how to do so safely and responsibly (this includes the "sub" partner too!).

    When done right, BDSM is one of the most exquisity, erotic, sensual practices that liven and enhance the sex life that there is. (side note: there are those for whom BDSM is not sexual), but safety MUST ALWAYS be the utmost primary concern at all times!

    amber

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    I have to agree with Amber in the sense that leaving someone bound and gagged alone is extremely dangerous. If someone is in restraints and/or a gag, you shouldn't leave them by themselves for any period of time. Anything could happen in those twenty minutes and just because nothing did this time, doesn't mean it couldn't have or it wouldn't next time.

    Also, I'm not sure if you did this or not as it wasn't mentioned but you should always change the restrainee's position at least once an hour to avoid any circulation problems.

    I would look up some safe bondage practices before acting on any further fantasies, just to be sure that it's safe and you've eliminated as many of the risks as possible.

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    Brooklyn-xox [sign in to see picture]
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    I maybe should of mentioned this before lol, the restraints had a safety catch so he could release himself whenever he liked, they were just to add to the effect (he got himself out when we had finished)

    I totally understand where you are coming from though, I was outside of the door and told him to make noise if he needed me ( you can pretty much talk through the ball gag, it's the smallest sized one)

    Sorry for the confusion I maybe should of worded it abit better lol

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    It also depends on how one is restrained as well. If you use restraints then we always make sure that either of us can get out of them in an emergency . The velcro reststraints we use we always make the loops slightly too big so you can slip a hand out. The gag side of things most people know my views on these and have to say i am not a fan of them .

    But all that aside Amber and Nat are correct

    But getting back on topic then the use of electrostym , pinwheels and other "torture" implements such as toys like vibrators could be a way forward

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    What about a bandage,or a makeshift bandage, stocking maybe, wrap it around his willy, because he has broken it from playing with it too much. Be angry about it as it's no use to you now. Let the spanking commence 😊 Unwrap the bandage and apply some healing ointment to it. Or suck it to life? You get the gist. There's also back passage inspection, checking for piles and applying ointment, treating with a butt plug or similar. It's all down to personal taste. Nipple clamps to check his heart rate.
    There's always sounding but I don't know how you feel about that 😊
    Always ensure it's safe, sane and consensual play and continuously check that he is ok😊 Subspace is a lovely place to be but very vulnerable at the same time. It's like a workout and a warm up and a cool down are essential both physically and mentally.
    Have fun

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    Brooklyn-xox [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the ideas guys :)

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