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    Shazza63 [sign in to see picture]
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    Interested in trying it any ideas

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    Had to consult the urban dictionary on that one.

    Sounds like an outdoor monogamous sex party.

    I just looked up "uk dogging groups" and got a bunch of potential resources.

    Only thing I would think to worry about is make sure you are "dogging" people in your group.

    Spying on strangers is a good way to get shot!

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    There has been a few threads on this in the past if you put it into search at the top. The fantasy of this and the reality would be very, very different. You could get seriously hurt physically and emotionally.


    Personally the thought of sex with random strangers horrifies me but there again I'm very old-fashioned. I'd be terrified of catching STI's from condom failure or getting pregnant and not knowing who the father was. Emotionally I couldn't deal with how I felt about myself afterwards too. Casual sex is just not for me.

    Each to their own I suppose. Please be careful.

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    Way I was reading up on it when looking up the dogging sites, it isn't like an orgy.

    No casual sex or swapping or the like.

    You and your partner have sex while watching other people and their partner have sex.

    You stay with your own partner, but just "spy" on each other. Like the partners playing musical chairs of watching.

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    I may be totally wrong but from what I've read in the past amber_angel there seems to be various stages of it that people do.


    There's the couple/s in their car/s getting it on with doors locked and windows shut while others watch scenario which is probably the safest but you could still get filmed which is not good as you don't know where that footage will end up or who else will see it. This is more about the thrill of exhibitionism and voyeurism.

    Then there is the doors/windows open so others can watch and touch or join in a little to perform sex acts then there's the full blown free for all gangbang in or out of the car with anything goes.


    The other scenario is meeting random people in the woods/park/outdoors alone or as a couple to have sex with and others watching in the bushes and sometimes but not always joining in.

    I'm not sure what stage the OP is interested in but IMO it's pretty risky behaviour and not something I'd be interested in doing at all. But whatever floats your boat.

    If I've read wrong and it is in fact a group of people having sex in their own couples then that doesn't seem as bad as I thought it was.
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    Imh95 - from what I understand of dogging you're absolutely right ,there are various different stages and you can partake as little or as much as you feel comfortable with.
    I like the idea of just being watched but wouldn't want a whole load of strangers all trying to join in , plus there's a risk that you might bump into someone you know !
    And as you say ,there's the problem of being filmed and you can bet others aren't going to be bothered about blurring out your face or car number plate before putting it all over the Internet!
    Sounds like a turn on but I think potentially quite risky .

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    OP if it's the thrill of watching or being seen that you're after or the experience of sex or play including strangers with no-strings attached and you think you can cope physically and emotionally then this might be much safer explored in a swingers club where what happens in the club stays in the club and there is security to help if things ever did start to get out of hand.

    I've read of people out dogging and randoms trying to force their way into cars and the thought of what they could potentially do if they overpowered a couple is terrifying and just not worth the risk at all.
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    I've just realised what I've just said seems to fly in the face of my other response on the ' turn on being seen ' thread but we're weren't in a dogging site there and it was just one bloke watching from a reasonable distance and the cars doors were locked .
    We didn't go with the intention of being watched ,it just happened . But still a big turn though !

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    Don't worry wildflower. We know what you mean, you chose a secluded spot for some outside fun a long time ago and it was just by chance you were seen which is totally different to setting out to be seen by people.


    Nowadays with mobile phones there's just too much chance of being filmed although sex in the car is a big fantasy of mine but will probably have to stay that way as we did discuss finding somewhere off road and dark but joked that we'd probably knowing us end up choosing the local dogging site by mistake !

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    That does sound pretty dangerous then when it is taken to that level

    Perhaps dogging groups have a set of rules for its members.

    Like swinging party groups do. You know, no cameras, clean bill of health, etc.

    Still even then, it is not something I would want to do.

    I definitely have an exhibitionist streak so I probably would like the tamest version of it meaning others can watch but not touch, or join in or get "anything" on us. But, would need to somehow make absolutely sure no one had any recording device.

    As a teacher, something like that shows up on the web somewhere and it could destroy my career.

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    I watched a programme about this and from what I saw agrees with all of the above.

    What stuck with me was there was one scene with a girl playing solo with numerous men standing around playing.

    Also another with a couple having sex with others watching.

    This all happened in woods, so very dark and cars all around, with their lights on.

    Personally I found it very creepy, but each to there own :)

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    Personally I'd prefer an indoor venue. Plenty of clubs up and down the country where you can have sex, watch people have sex, swap & share, plus it's indoors, warm and you get furniture!

    We're too old to be traipsing round heavily wooded areas looking for a thrill or two.

    If you fancy a bit of outdoor fun on your own, fair play sometimes I think we all do but, if you fancy a more voyeuristic experience I'd go for a club any day

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    we have tryed dogging

    have been watched(doors locked) and realy enjoyed it the thought of males looking at us peforming

    did used to allow some of the doggers to toucch my breasts but after a while when we went on a regular basis they started just grouping and i ended up with bruses on my breasts so we packed up attending

    pity as we meet some nice people males and females

    never did allow any of them to peform on me as we didnt like gang bangs ,but did see some couple who enjoyed this part of the doggingyou are right you can now be filmed secreattly and we would not like that at all

    very sneaky!!

    have given it up now because of these type of idiots spoiling it for everybody

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    Any one where near Luton it happens

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    Anyone know of anywhere in the portsmouth area i think i would like to give it a go

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    just type in "dogging groups in portsmouth" in the search engine Pex.

    More than 10 came up right away.

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    never done it and never would !

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