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    Straw [sign in to see picture]
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    Have I tripped into the 40s? Ask your man what to wear? What is this? Obviously some skin on skin snuggles are always nice but seriously, wear what YOU want to wear.

    Most nightwear isn't tight, so it's not like your body is being kept away from him anyway.

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    Lord love length [sign in to see picture]
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    I do love some naughty night wear but naked is best for a skin on skin cuddle every time .....

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    I can't sleep naked, I find it really uncomfortable and to be honest I don't care whether he finds my sleepwear sexy or not because once I'm in bed and trying to go to sleep, I don't want to be disturbed!

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    It's nice when she does sleep naked in bed but sometime she will wear a night shirt or even something sexy like a babydoll. It's up to her and I don't mind either way. They all can come off if things get steamy.

    For me I can't sleep naked as I have a bit of a phobia about having to leave the house in the middle of the night for an emergency. So right now I just sleep in shorts and in winter shorts and a tee. She does prefer me without a top so she can stroke my chest and keeps her hand on it whilst sleeping.

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    I hate it when my OH sleeps in barely anything, I am always waking up and getting too excited, but I know nothing will happen, sleep means sleep lol.

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    My wife only occasionally wears anything in bed and I'm fine with that even if she does its usually loose enough to slip my hand inside or feel through, so I don't mine just prefer bare skin.

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    My oh would have me wearing something nice every night. However the over sized nighty is just so comfy. I sleep totally naked in the summer and now hes just use to it. Naked star fish doesnt seem to be a turn on no more. Add a pair of knickers and he would be over the moon

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    I'm a naked sleeper by choice as it my OH, but I do have a tshirt and shorts at the side of the bed just in case I need to get up quickly. I wouldn't want to scare the postman 😅

    When we go on holiday we are usually naked but we are having a couple come with us next year on the boat holiday so I guess I will be wearing something then.

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    Alicia4Ever wrote:

    I'm the opposite, if I wear the smallest item of clothing i my as well forget sleep, and get up and do the hovering, it's intresting that i'm not the only one with this kind of thing.

    I concur, on the odd occassion I've had to wear something at bedtime sleep is far more challenging, if indeed possible at all. I've tried everything, PJ's, shorts, underwear, nothing works, far too restrictive.

    P.S. I presume you meant 'hoovering', although if you do 'hover' at night, that might be an interesting story for another thread ;)

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    My first reaction to this thread is "who cares if it's annoying to men?!" 

    I would never wear/not wear anything because a man finds it "annoying". I choose what and when I wear things for my benefit, not my partners. 

    If you like to wear something to bed, wear it. If you don't, don't. Simples! 

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde wrote:

    My first reaction to this thread is "who cares if it's annoying to men?!"

    I would never wear/not wear anything because a man finds it "annoying". I choose what and when I wear things for my benefit, not my partners.

    If you like to wear something to bed, wear it. If you don't, don't. Simples!

    +1 to this. It's your body and thus you should wear whatever makes you feel the most comfortable in it.

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    dan559 [sign in to see picture]
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    I like my wife in something. Be it one of my dress shirts or nix and nothing else.
    I like the idea of removing something if the moment arises...
    But as for children on the scene makes it different I guess

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde wrote:

    My first reaction to this thread is "who cares if it's annoying to men?!"

    I would never wear/not wear anything because a man finds it "annoying". I choose what and when I wear things for my benefit, not my partners.

    If you like to wear something to bed, wear it. If you don't, don't. Simples!

    That was my first reaction to (and I am a man).

    Personally I have to wear something, I don't feel comfortable sleeping naked. Normally PJ shorts or (if I'm away or the rest of the family is away, so I'm on my own) a nice satin nightie.

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    SFTM [sign in to see picture]
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    I hate other half wearing clothes in bed as I sleep naked and also go commando in clothes.

    But...if they are wearing clothes then anything of mine is sexy as hell!

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    My hubby doesn't have any objections at all. I sometimes sleep in fleecy pj's if I'm cold, but usually a thin cotton nightie or vest and pants/cheeky shorts. I don't sleep naked often as I'm more comfortable wearing something and it's a habit after having 3 children I guess as well. Like hubby says he can soon get into them or take them off 😀

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    i wouldnt worry about it. As others have said a bit of nightwear isnt going to put us off. Personally i would take pyjamas plus well rested, over naked and tired and scratchy any day. I would stop the kids coming into the bedroom unannounced though. Everyone needs their privacy.

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    John Puttock [sign in to see picture]
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    As a man, I would like to add that we all are different and have different preferences. I actually had some psycho problems with these... I really hope that your men don't, but I couldn't even touch a naked body, not speaking of sleeping next to. So it's kinda my painful part.

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    I'm with Natandtom and Jess on this

    I wear knickers and a vest top mainly, If I'm cold I will go as far as to wear my dressing gown. I will wear what I want to bed regardless of his preference on it.

    I never sleep naked, we have an baby who spends most nights in our bed but even so I've never slept naked before that. Topless yes but I always wear underwear as I don't feel comfy otherwise

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    Kanu Suckmeov [sign in to see picture]
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    We both sleep naked and have done so since we got married many years ago.

    However I think you should stop the children walking in whenever they want. They are old enough now to knock on the door and wait for an answer.

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    Scotty_McP [sign in to see picture]
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    Nope - I don't mind one bit. Extra clothing to take off is always fun. So long as bed clothes aren't used as a hint at unavailability (like a force field), I don't mind at all.

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