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    Badger73 [sign in to see picture]
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    Caliente wrote:

    I've been looking at fabswingers and it's utterly terrifying! I've already had to block the single men. :( I think I need to go along to an event near me to meet some people.

    We know what you mean. We used to be on there and the amount of guys that you have to block is unreal. We opened a second facebook profile and got an extra mobile phone to keep everything seperate, that way if we had given out our number and he turned out to be a problem we would just change the sim card.

    We did meet 1 or 2 decent guys after a few months and had a few meets with 1 guy before he got deployed. Mrs Badger did most of the talking with the guys and we were normaly together when we were chatting.

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Caliente wrote:

    I filtered out singles so only couples can message me, but it seems to be the husbands that are doing all the chatting, and that makes me a little suspicious. I don't think it's what I was looking for. Will find another way. A party or event might be the way to go.

    It can be overwhelming but I still accept single men and am meeting one who seems wonderful and genuine next week. I only advise to respond to people who are photo AND meeting verified in person. Starting at a well established (check reviews and organizer veris) club or party is NY advice :) have fun! X
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    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
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    Badger73 - everyone is so pushy! Maybe I've just been spoiled by the kindness and respect on Lovehoney. Glad you found some good people. Deployed .... in uniform?....oh there goes another fetish lol

    MondaySixteeth - thanks so much for the advice. I've looked at the events and there might be something for me there. Still a bit scared about going on my own, but I'll have to get over that! Hope your meet up goes well. x

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Caliente wrote:

    Badger73 - everyone is so pushy! Maybe I've just been spoiled by the kindness and respect on Lovehoney. Glad you found some good people. Deployed .... in uniform?....oh there goes another fetish lol

    MondaySixteeth - thanks so much for the advice. I've looked at the events and there might be something for me there. Still a bit scared about going on my own, but I'll have to get over that! Hope your meet up goes well. x

    The one I went to I was by myself and was so nervous but I had a great time :) just have to bite the bullet xx

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