• First time swinging

    1473958941
    Jay1668 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 4
    • Joined: 1 Apr 2015

    At parties and clubs you can do as much or as little as you want. If you want to sit at the bar all night with your coat on you can I've seen it lol.

    1473978601
    The Real Mr Grey [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 110
    • Joined: 7 May 2015

    Dont forget to come back and update us

    1473981531
    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 412
    • Joined: 20 Jun 2014

    Well thank you all for the advice guys. I tried on all my lingerie twice and went with an old secret tester set. I'd post a pic but not sure if they ended up selling it or might do so I won't just in case ;)

    Everyone at the party was lovely and respectful. Didn't use any of my condoms as they were well stocked but they arrived on time so thanks leanne! Even brought them along in the lil drawstring bag you sent :)

    Not going to go into explicit details but I very much enjoyed myself and look forward to more swinging in the future!

    1473981896
    The Real Mr Grey [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 110
    • Joined: 7 May 2015

    Glad you enjoyed the experience and also (and more importantly) you returned safe.

    1473984233
    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 412
    • Joined: 20 Jun 2014

    The Real Mr Grey wrote:

    Glad you enjoyed the experience and also (and more importantly) you returned safe.

    It was all very safe :) There was a security guy who kept checking in and told me when I came in that I don't have to do anything at all and I don't have to do anything I'm uncomfortable with. All the men were very nice and respectful and happy to use condoms for everything like I asked :)

    1473990145
    RosyCheek [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1475
    • Joined: 11 Apr 2016

    So glad you had a good safe experience Monday. 😊

    1474012044
    sugarboobies2232 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1472
    • Joined: 16 Feb 2015

    So pleased for you!

    1474012890
    Yummymummy :-* [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 389
    • Joined: 22 Dec 2015

    I'm glad you had a brilliant time

    1474015556
    lmh95 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 3599
    • Joined: 6 Aug 2014

    Really glad to hear it all went well and that you enjoyed the experience, felt safe and played safe :)

    1474077137
    Shane&Gemmz [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 2
    • Joined: 9 Sep 2016

    Really wanna try this out with my partner but dont know the first place to start :/?

    1474097656
    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 412
    • Joined: 20 Jun 2014

    Shane&Gemmz wrote:

    Really wanna try this out with my partner but dont know the first place to start :/?

    Have you discussed with your OH? If they're up for it too I recommend making a couples profile on Fabswingers. Only answer and send messages together. Also think about what sort of things you want. Would you prefer to meet large numbers of people at parties or clubs or would you prefer finding another couple or person to meet up with privately (after a social drink perhaps). I prefer the parties/clubs idea for the safety of it because I feel a bit more vulnerable as a single girl but see what you guys prefer :)
    1474122136
    Zephron [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 260
    • Joined: 24 Jun 2016

    Glad you enjoyed it.
    Wow, makes me think of going to one now...

    1474133443
    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2536
    • Joined: 16 Jan 2016

    Sounds like you had a great time - good on ya!!!!

    Xxxxx

    1474665630
    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 516
    • Joined: 18 Aug 2015

    I've been looking at fabswingers and it's utterly terrifying! I've already had to block the single men. :( I think I need to go along to an event near me to meet some people.

    1474667377
    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 4210
    • Joined: 4 Dec 2012

    Caliente wrote:

    I've been looking at fabswingers and it's utterly terrifying! I've already had to block the single men. :( I think I need to go along to an event near me to meet some people.

    are you the mythical creature everyone is looking for?

    1474667681
    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1263
    • Joined: 9 Oct 2012

    We always fantasise about swinging but don't think we would in reality!

    1474669056
    Davy Brown [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 20
    • Joined: 21 Jul 2016

    Not something that would work in my world but it would certainly inject some variety for those that partake.

    1474669299
    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 516
    • Joined: 18 Aug 2015

    Sum Sub wrote:

    are you the mythical creature everyone is looking for?

    It would appear I am.

    The men are mostly awful. Makes the social media outlet that cannot be mentioned look like a gentlemans' club.

    1474670870
    lmh95 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 3599
    • Joined: 6 Aug 2014

    Caliente wrote:

    Sum Sub wrote:

    are you the mythical creature everyone is looking for?

    It would appear I am.

    The men are mostly awful. Makes the social media outlet that cannot be mentioned look like a gentlemans' club.

    Oh dear. That doesn't sound good. I wonder how many of them are actually genuinely into the lifestyle out of the motley bunch that have been in touch with you online? I always thought real swingers were reputed to be very polite and respectful to each other. It certainly doesn't sound that way. Take care x
    1474672490
    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 516
    • Joined: 18 Aug 2015

    I filtered out singles so only couples can message me, but it seems to be the husbands that are doing all the chatting, and that makes me a little suspicious. I don't think it's what I was looking for. Will find another way. A party or event might be the way to go.

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.