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    orally_yours [sign in to see picture]
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    Should I tell my other half that I fantasize about men sexually. I don't fancy men but do fantasize about sharing a bj with her! A sort of bi mmf?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    If it's something you might want to act on, then yes I'd talk about it with your other half. You'll never know how she feels about it otherwise, it might be something she's interested in too.

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with Nat its something best talked about with your partner . That way there is probably less chance of a shock in the future as it will give you chance to talk about it and why you feel the way you do.

    Communication is one of the elements to a successful relationship .

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    Finchy89 [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely I had the same issue but I didn't talk about it enough, we also had a lot of things going on in our lives which made it difficult to find time. But she said to me it wasn't her thing at that I should go and explore myself and ended the relationship :/

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    Hanky Spanky! [sign in to see picture]
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    Always best to get things off your chest. Good luck.

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    RosyCheek [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely talk about it with her. You may find that she's interested in it too or it may be something that's left as a fantasy. It's better to know even if its not the answer you hoped for.

    Good luck.

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with everyone else, communication is the key to a good relationship

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    Lord love length [sign in to see picture]
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    You've got to communicate that's for sure . I do fantasise myself and enjoy watching group bi porn but don't know if could go through with it unless my other half was ok with it .

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    Hanky Spanky! [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah me too. I think it's fairly normal for a straight guy to think about it too? 🙄

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    PaulS [sign in to see picture]
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    Always be honest with your OH

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    my oh loves me having same sex with men, I told her i was bi when i met her. I always watch gay porn and she always fucks me when I don't have cock to play with lol x

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    Curious temptation ;) [sign in to see picture]
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    I just use to drop subtle hints when she was giving me a bj. Like do you like it and it looks like fun! Then she came out with you should try it! You might like it just as much 😍. Yes I think I liked it as much as the other man.

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    V4GUY [sign in to see picture]
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    I fantasise about having sex with a crossdresser in stockings. I regard myself as a 99% straight male with a few kinky urges

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    Dandan2016 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd say I'm 95% straight as I don't fancy men but also find myself attracted to guys when horny. Got a good friend that's gay and find his story's a turn on. Exchanged pics and live chat with him a few times and always found it a massive turn on but wouldn't want to sleep with him. House share with a male friend and don't find him attractive but enjoy being aroused around him knowing he could and has caught me but same again I don't want to sleep with him.

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    Barney50 [sign in to see picture]
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    ive thought about this for a while...i,m st8 with a gf but have a slight curious edge.

    my fantasy would be to watch another man wank while i did same...and maybe me finish him off by hand...nothing wanted in return...not sure what my OH would think

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    mel22 [sign in to see picture]
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    Not really any advise to offer that's any different to above, but personally speaking I'd love if I had a man that was into the fantasy you are. I think a lot of women are more open minded nowadays, just be honest and open with her and it could actually be the start of a new chapter for you both sexually :)

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    sexyseeker [sign in to see picture]
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    I have thought about it and i'm not gay but the thought og licking my partner while a man sucks me off can be quite exciting. also myself sucking a man off after my partner squirts in my mouth then i finish him off taking his load and swallowing that. don't think she would be into that though.

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    luvstbud [sign in to see picture]
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    I wanted to see my partner suck cock while i was getting fucked we talked about it and he agreed, when we do it ,it is so horny

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    Sissy juliet [sign in to see picture]
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    Mm I'd join you, dressed in stockings, pretty underwear and s dress !

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    Marriedscot [sign in to see picture]
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    I certainly have the same issue and I would live to tell her but I can't bring myself to do it

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