• Sex for or with disabled people

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    Iamsilly [sign in to see picture]
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    To discuss, share experiences, tips, etc...

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    Iamsilly [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,
    I sometimes find it hard to masturbate due to pain, injuries, spasms and reduced libido. Also, I'm a virgin.
    I thought I'd try, whilst no one is around, but I wasn't exactly horny... It was more like "eh, why not".
    It was really painful but I persevered, pain increased and I felt a pop. I decided to pull out.
    Do you have to be horny to insert anything?
    Also, any tips?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Well being aroused definitely helps for insertion. Were you using lube?

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    Iamsilly [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah. I thought I used more than I needed :/

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Lube, especially if you are not feeling horny, as you will not have produced any natural lubrication.

    Personally I prefer clit stimulation, but obviously everyone is different and you will need to find your own preference.

    Most importantly, you need to be relaxed, I would say physically and mentally. If you are in anyway worried that someone may 'find' you masturbating, or hear you or find your toys, this will automatically tense you up and make insertion more difficult.

    I hope you find what works for you hun xxxx

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    Im not really sure what you want discussed here but i saw a documentary about Denmark and where it was legal and government funded for all disabled nationals to have sex aid for free 1-3 times a month.

    This could be, full out intercourse with a "sex Worker" that works for a company controlled by the government or the same "sex worker" could assist with for example a disabled couple to change positions during intercourse.

    I thought this was absolutley brilliant and should be done in every country to help people who cant help themselves have a great sexlife. Just because you can't move your body, doesn't mean you don't like or want sex in anyway.

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    Andy/Jul [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi I would think that for yourself you must feel secure and relaxed while masturbating , you just have to be yourself and enjoy your own body . hope you have fun with yourself :)

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