• Advice please (squirting)

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    Gemini-89 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all

    I've not long returned and after getting my sex life back.

    Me now my oh are looking at spicing things up. (Aiming to please)

    He wants to try and get me squirting. Which has oonly ever happened once which must of been 8 years ago.

    I've read up on advice and tips and have done everything I can do but still no joy sadly ..

    Is there any toys people could recommend from? I've looked at a few but just wondering if anyone has had this issue.

    Thanks everyone x

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    slinky binky [sign in to see picture]
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    Dixie Normous [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22815

    Woks a treat for my wife this when it is attached to a wall

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    slinky binky [sign in to see picture]
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    This is a great set, and at £20 it's an absolute bargain 😄
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187

    This is another fantastic option. It's also in the two for £30 so if you fancy mixing it up you could go for a glass piece aswell as a flexible dildo (bottom link)
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30941

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28715

    Hope these help hunni 💖xx

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    Jezebella [sign in to see picture]
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    I might be a rarity but I only ever consistently squirt with a partner fingering me in the right way... perhaps you could ask your partner to try a few techniques that might help him to make you squirt? For me it's only really a done deal at certain points during my hormonal cycle (2 weeks before my period I think), so I'd also bare that in mind.

    My advice is make sure your well hydrated, and don't force it if it's no happening.

    The best technique I've found is if someone inserts 2 fingers then flicks them applying pressure against the front wall of my vagina, on my g-spot. This leads me to a squirting orgasm every time.

    Saying that everyone's anatomy is different and what works for me may not work for you. But I really recommend talking your partner through fingering you, letting them know what feels good and maybe you can learn together what works best.

    The other side of this is don't feel too pressured to squirt, it's not something that everyone can do and putting pressure on yourself won't lead to sexy fun times.

    Good luck and have fun :) xx

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    slinky binky [sign in to see picture]
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    Jezebella wrote:

    I might be a rarity but I only ever consistently squirt with a partner fingering me in the right way... perhaps you could ask your partner to try a few techniques that might help him to make you squirt? For me it's only really a done deal at certain points during my hormonal cycle (2 weeks before my period I think), so I'd also bare that in mind.

    My advice is make sure your well hydrated, and don't force it if it's no happening.

    The best technique I've found is if someone inserts 2 fingers then flicks them applying pressure against the front wall of my vagina, on my g-spot. This leads me to a squirting orgasm every time.

    Saying that everyone's anatomy is different and what works for me may not work for you. But I really recommend talking your partner through fingering you, letting them know what feels good and maybe you can learn together what works best.

    The other side of this is don't feel too pressured to squirt, it's not something that everyone can do and putting pressure on yourself won't lead to sexy fun times.

    Good luck and have fun :) xx

    +1 same here, my oh is able to do it in No time at all. The only other method is a g-spot glass vibe we have and it works a treat 😃💖xx
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    Hustle [sign in to see picture]
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    I can make my other half squirt a lot but through fingering - for us it seems more satisfying than with toys!

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    Njoy pure wand and the doxy.

    But my best advise is to relax into it.

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Really fast and hard fingering at almost 90 degree angle is good for starters. But is also possible using a bullet on clit and just under clit towards urethra in rapid strokes. Also if she or you puts some pressure on the lower abs can help whilst doing the above. I normally fold a thick towel underneath my bottom to rid worries of soaking the bed. She will eventually learn when it's going to happen herself. ( I get a good idea if I'm going to do it before I even start playing). It's like I can feel a build up. I find if I try and do it with my hubby it's less likely to happen but if I just relax and don't think about it it happens. The main advice I can give is don't put the pressure on, don't make it the ultimate goal and most important of all she had to relax. 😊

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    sugarboobies2232 [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767 this toy works for me most times. It's basic but it's my number 1 dildo.

    However, read the thread that Slinky posted. It is great and has heaps of information. My information I give to everyone is to drink lots in the day, and I mean lots and lots of water. Minimum 2L. Just before you get down to business, empty your bladder. Get yourself comfortable. Then get yourself REALLY turned on, so either watch porn (if you watch it) or get your OH to tease you everywhere except between your legs until you are soaking soaking wet. Then use 2 fingers inside on your front wall, hard and fast. When you feel like you're going to pee, keep going. Then I tend to rub my clit while my OH fingers me, and just at point of climax, I squeeze down as though I am trying to push every single last drop of pee out. This works 80% of the time. It dones't if I haven't been hydrated.

    I hope this helps, but please don't put pressure on yourself. Our orgasms are as much physcial as they are mental, if you are stressed and concentrating too much on to it, it won't happen!

    Enjoy and have fun x

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    G spot sniper

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    looked up nurses outfit couldnt see it xxx

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