• Something new

    1469884245
    ajmellu7 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant
    • Posts: 30
    • Joined: 22 Jul 2015

    Hi guys, my wife and I are gearing up for a nice session tonight and decided that for the next month, each weekend we would try and do something new that we had not done before. At the moment we really enjoy oral together, before some massaging and then full sex. This can last for a couple of hours and we love it and look forward to the times when we do this as they are few and far between (kids/work etc!) we really want to try something new tonight and was wondering if there were any suggestions out there (we have no toys, are working up to that and anal is a complete no!) Thanks in advance

    1469885243
    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 882
    • Joined: 30 Jun 2014

    Have you tried blindfolded massages? I tried this with oh a few months back as he loves getting massages & he said having one blindfolded really made it more of a turn on and hightened his sense to my touch. We also like to use ice during massages, I love running the ice up his back & along his shoulders with the it in my mouth ^_^

    1469885530
    luvved up cupple [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1379
    • Joined: 24 Oct 2012

    You say you have no toys, OK, maybe I'm getting ahead here but.

    Why not both set up an account and set an agreed spend for each session. Then get online, make a purchase to be used either on or by whomever - your decision in advance - and go from there. You obviously know each others boundaries so could be a good entry into the world of sex toys etc.

    Just my thoughts whatever you decide, have fun!

    1469898908
    Gentleman Wealdan [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 25 Apr 2015

    I'm in agreement with MissNoir about ice! It's a wonderful feeling, especially when combined with a blindfold. I would say if you're using ice striaght from the freezer to give it a quick run under the cold tap before touching skin, it just takes the edge off the ice and prevents it from giving freeze burns on delicate areas! One handy little tip is to buy a 'freeze-it-yourself' lolly kit (most pound shops this time of year) and that way you've a handle handle to hold the ice with and some rather interesting shapes to play with ;)

    However, almost anything around the house can be used to explore new sensations and play with a little care.

    Pillow cases are great restraints - get your wife to put her arms behind her back, put her hands into the case and pull it up so it goes past her elbows, instant restraint!

    Ties - make wonderful blindfolds and tend not to be too harsh against the eyes, make sure it's an old though

    Ribbons, shoe laces, feather dusters, etc - all make great ticklers, just trace them delicately over your freshly restrained and blindfolded partner!

    There are lots of things around you can use just be a little creative and always with care!

    1469972579
    Kinkykitten96 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 8 Mar 2016

    Gentleman Wealdan, I can't wait for you to try some of these things out on me tomorrow ;)

    1469974050
    Kinkykitten96 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 8 Mar 2016

    Gentleman Wealdan, I can't wait for you to try some of these things out on me tomorrow ;)

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.