• Lasting longer

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    MikeW8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi - slightly shameful post haha but one thing I wish was that I lasted longer during sex.

    We have an amazing sex life and we are both happy but do people have any tips or products people use?

    I'm not talking premature or under a minute or anything would just love sex to last longer as its so good haha :)

    Thanks x

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Delay creams, cock rings they are the quick helpers. Long term worth doing some research into techniques like edging

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Practice edging on your own. Get as close as you dare without actually cumming...then stop. Repeat this a few times straight off before you allow yourself to cum. Each session try to increase the amount of time you can masterbate without needing to stop.

    You'll soon learn to know how far you can take things before you lose control so to speak. When you feel that approaching....stop or slow down, change position, go to having oral for a bit etc and then start again.

    You casn also buy desensitising sprays etc which may help but personally I think its better to train your own body. xx

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    MikeW8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks both of you :)

    Not heard of edging or used creams before so good advice!!

    It's just such a shame to slow down and change positions etc when really in the moment and want to take her hard and fast haha :) x

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    lambie123 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi mike,
    I do have premature ejaculation and last do last around the minute mark.
    I used to use a product called china brush. You could go literally all night but it number you too much and couldn't feel anything. Even getting hard was tough.
    I have now started using doc Johnson Sta erect spray which makes you last longer but doesn't numb you.
    I will keep an eye on this thread as well as my own as I have just posted the same question at the same time!

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    MikeW8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok thanks for the tips mate :)

    Not worth it if completely numb and costs you losing your erection but the middle ground would be good so I can go longer and make her orgasm a few times ;)

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    JohnA [sign in to see picture]
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    I've always lasted longer when having sex with a condom than not. Maybe you'd find that too much of a mood killer but may be worth a try.

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    MikeW8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks John appreciate the advice but I can't stand condoms! Each to their own though glad it works for you :)

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    lambie123 [sign in to see picture]
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    The doc Johnson from this site is worth it.
    Without using I wouldn't dare go hard and fast with it I turn into a pornstar! I ain't joking either its good stuff. You have to wash your member a minute after putting it on so not to numb your partner. You don't feel numb yourself though when using it. It costs a tenner and for such a small bottle it lasts a long time.

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    luvved up cupple [sign in to see picture]
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    I find getting a BJ to start with works! 😁 then you have plenty of time available with your OH before you "arrive" for a second time!

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    JohnA [sign in to see picture]
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    Another idea I've used when I've had this issue is to just stop thrusting when I feel I'm about to cum and just enjoy the feeling of being inside the girl, maybe just kissing her gently or massaging her nipples, then start again, slowly. This can be done several times until you feel it's ok to cum. Several women have said they liked the 'breaks' and just feeling me inside them too. Did it with a work colleague who I'd fancied for ages and when I finally got to bed with her I was so excited but really didn't want to disappoint! Was able to last a while longer than I thought I would though

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    MGB93 [sign in to see picture]
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    My suggestion would've been delay condoms but as you've said, they're not your thing. I've not heard of these other treatments so it's something I would consider for the future 😀

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    Choconala [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes deffo try what terri suggested, my oh always pulls out when he feels he's going to cum and just waits a minute kissing me or playing with me before putting it back in and we always have lengthy sessions! Also cock rings :) you oh will enjoy that too makes you harder ;) xx

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    JohnA wrote:

    Another idea I've used when I've had this issue is to just stop thrusting when I feel I'm about to cum and just enjoy the feeling of being inside the girl, maybe just kissing her gently or massaging her nipples, then start again, slowly. This can be done several times until you feel it's ok to cum. Several women have said they liked the 'breaks' and just feeling me inside them too. Did it with a work colleague who I'd fancied for ages and when I finally got to bed with her I was so excited but really didn't want to disappoint! Was able to last a while longer than I thought I would though

    Yes.. this definitely works my bf does it, I do it to tease him too.

    I find theres something intimate about the pause and just kissing

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    MikeW8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks everyone again :)

    Will try the pausing - I do this already but maybe need to put the brakes on a bit earlier and for a bit longer :) x

    Ps Hitachi wow! I guess its just as difficult having the oppoisite thing!

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