• threesome advise

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    aanda [sign in to see picture]
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    hi all we were swingers up until a few years ago, we are both bi.

    we had many fantastic meets, but the reason we stoped was the hard work involved weeding out the fakes liers etc on sites like fab etc, we both fancy having threesomes with both sexes, again, we found involving other couples involved too many issues with one half of the other couple beeing more keen than the other.

    so the question is, weve tried the internet and found it lacking with the usual sites, what else is there to find people, oh and we like to find friends with benifits, not just wham bam thank you mam stile meets, and return meets would be great, so how do we meet people?

    over to you guys.

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    swingers clubs/meets?

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    aanda [sign in to see picture]
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    NatandTom wrote:

    swingers clubs/meets?

    call us fussy, we have tried that before, but we like to have a vanilla meet first, to see if there is a spark, hope this makes sence, we did meet one lady who we met many times, unfortunatly shes in a relationship now so we dont meet, altho we are still friends, we dont like having sex with stangers, hard to explain but there needs to be some trust there, we are in a very commited relationship so trust isnt an issue, niether is going to go running to someone else, we just want to feel like we are having fun with a friend.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Try looking up your local LGBT community, for bars, etc and find someone to date so to speak, just make it clear what you are looking for, no one wants to get used.

    You sound like a couple who don't want to do that to someone, but it could get difficult if the person makes an emotional conection with one of you. You may feel strong as a couple, just don't assume the other party will be as secure; especially if they are single. It's too easy for sex to lead to emotional entanglement. Please be mindful of this when choosing someone.

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    aanda [sign in to see picture]
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    sorry beeing thick whats LGBT

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    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
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    Lesbian .gay bisexual and transgender xx

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    aanda [sign in to see picture]
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    thank you, there is a local club, maybe we should try it out

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    aanda [sign in to see picture]
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    in fact thinking about it we went there a few years ago with some swinging friends, had forgoten, many thanks

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    aanda wrote:

    thank you, there is a local club, maybe we should try it out

    I think that is the best way of going about it. That way you will meet like minded people with less of a risk of hurting somebody .

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