• Penis extension v strap on

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    KeptLocked [sign in to see picture]
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    I've been suffering with erectile dysfunction for some time now. I know the cause which is a stressful job and long hours, combined with the fact I'm in my 50s, means that nothing will change in the short term.

    I can get her going ok and bring her off with hands, mouth etc but sometimes she wants me inside and the intimacy of sex but of course I've gone soft!

    So, I'm looking at ways that I can please my wife with the closeness of penetration and am considering either a penis extention or a strap on for me to use.

    So the questions are - do you have to be hard for a penis extention to stay on? can a man use a strap on without out his bits getting in the way? and generally which is best and why?

    All helpful advice gratefully received.

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    jimbogemini [sign in to see picture]
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    Can't see a penis extender being much use with ED. I used this for a while after having problems. May be of some use to you.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3062&ReviewPage=2#customer_reviews

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    I believe the hollow strapons are rigid so I guess you don't need to be erect. Penis extenders however I think you need to be erect. All the extenders I have are all stretchy, jelly like material and I need to be erect for them to actually stay on.

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    Foxxy [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you looked at the Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32886
    I know it's not something you mentioned, but I think it really could be beneficial to you. The type of stimulation is provides to the man has been effective for those experiencing ED, and even if it doesn't enable a full erection, it should certainly be pleasurable for you. The vibrations it gives to the woman are fairly deep, and because it's around your penis and between your two bodies, you're in a natural love-making position and it feels very intimate. Extensions are generally going to need an erection to work, but harness' are OK for male wear, and your own anatomy shouldn't get in the way

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    bondagegod [sign in to see picture]
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    I do own a strap on and penis extender. I found the extender to be the more personal of the two. This is my review of the extender

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32919&reviewid=144181#customer_reviews

    I did find I needed to be erect to get the extender to stay on as I did attempt it with a semi-erection and it didn't work.

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    KeptLocked [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks all - your input is really helpful.

    From what I'm reading I don't think the extender is what I'm looking for.

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    I would go for the strapon every time. Despite the cost I finally bought this:-

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26580

    I'm not a great fan of the velcro waistband adjustment but its OK and the rest of the design is good. Of course the choice of dildos with a harness is almost limitless.

    As an experience using a strapon is one worth trying even if your gear is in good working order. Even when I'm not getting fully hard breaking out the strapon and bringing my wife to orgasm with it gets me so turned on and hard I can then penetrate her and (with the performance pressure removed) have a really great time.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27202

    This one is of the unisex style with 2 lower front straps so it won't divide your jewels, it's vac-u-lock and "O" ring compatable so you will be able to use a variety of harness dildos with it.

    Do you like anal play? because if you did, you could try something like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12487

    Then you would get something out of it too, If you do or would like to try pegging, for your pleasure, then the harness could be a shared thing; each with your own seperate dildos of course.

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    So, your moniker is "keptlocked". do you use a chastity device a lot? Do you ever sleep in it? Nocturnal erections are important for maintaining potency. I would strongly recomend you get byourself to the Doc and ask for some Cialis. There is no reason to accept impotence at any age any more.

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    sexcrazedbear wrote:

    So, your moniker is "keptlocked". do you use a chastity device a lot? Do you ever sleep in it? Nocturnal erections are important for maintaining potency. I would strongly recomend you get byourself to the Doc and ask for some Cialis. There is no reason to accept impotence at any age any more.

    I do use a chastity device quite a lot and wear it in bed, but I don't think that this is the cause. I still get nocturnal erections even in the cage - anyone who has worn a trapped ball devise will know that it doesn't actually 'stop' erections.

    I know that it's the stress thing mainly - if I've been on holiday for any length of time that all returns to normal.

    But really appreciate the advice

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    Alicia4Ever wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27202

    This one is of the unisex style with 2 lower front straps so it won't divide your jewels, it's vac-u-lock and "O" ring compatable so you will be able to use a variety of harness dildos with it.

    Do you like anal play? because if you did, you could try something like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12487

    Then you would get something out of it too, If you do or would like to try pegging, for your pleasure, then the harness could be a shared thing; each with your own seperate dildos of course.

    I like the look of that harness - thanks

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