• Weight loss and sex life

    1468101464
    J&M86 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 27
    • Joined: 8 Jul 2015

    I've recently lost 2 stone, not a lot to some but nearly 20% of my body weight. As a result apart from my confidence increasing and me feeling sexier it has also helped in the bedroom as well as other rooms in the house. Take the other night for instance hubby and I were in the shower and getting passionate. Usually we would have to leave the shower but now that I've lost weight I bent over (totally in half) so that hubby could take me from behind. It was hot! As a result of my confidence increasing we are trying so much more than we used to and we feel closer than ever.
    Has anybody else lost a lot of weight and reaped the rewards in their sex life?

    1468104229
    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 622
    • Joined: 19 Feb 2015

    That's so awesome! Glad you are enjoying the rewards of your hard work.

    1468148337
    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 5944
    • Joined: 7 Jan 2014

    Most definitely .Since I have lost weight even though sex is still banned during the working week the intensity and intimacy has increased for when we do have sex .

    I do feel a lot more confident and you will probably find your OH and others will notice. When others do notice don't shy away from it , just accept it as a compliment as long as it doesn't go any further .

    Well done on your achievement

    1468149075
    sugarboobies2232 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1472
    • Joined: 16 Feb 2015

    I think it's all down to confidence. While the actual "weight loss" may not be the reason for the more spiced up sex life, the confidence certainly will.

    It's funny because since I've discovered LoveHoney, over the last year I've actually gained 2st something, but I've never felt sexier or more confident. It's all how you use it!

    1468149649
    MissNoir [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 884
    • Joined: 30 Jun 2014

    That's great! ^_^

    I agree 100% I lost quite a bit of weight and my confidence just grew and grew and I felt more comfortable to try different things I would never have considered, and I felt more confident tking my clothes off and leaving them off around my partner.

    1468162983
    rainbowbaby [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 114
    • Joined: 11 Apr 2013

    Well done on the weight loss! 2 stone is a huge number. Confidence makes a big difference so glad you're feeling this way.

    I've gained weight in the last two years but feel more confident than ever even if my post baby boobs have gone saggy. I've bought loads of racey lingerie off Lovehoney, so treat yourself to something daring. The lumps and bumps don't matter xx

    1468166658
    J&M86 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 27
    • Joined: 8 Jul 2015

    Thanks for all the positive responses. My hubby lives me regardless of my size but I think he is happy now that we are getting more adventurous. Our children are older now so we do get more time alone and make the most of it whenever we can. Will definitely look at getting something to wear when I have toned up a bit more

    1468169823
    Zephron [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 262
    • Joined: 24 Jun 2016

    Congratulations, and It sounds like the rewards of all your hard work are paying dividends

    1468240333
    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 5944
    • Joined: 7 Jan 2014

    J&M86 wrote:

    Thanks for all the positive responses. My hubby lives me regardless of my size but I think he is happy now that we are getting more adventurous. Our children are older now so we do get more time alone and make the most of it whenever we can. Will definitely look at getting something to wear when I have toned up a bit more

    When you have toned up you can get those clingy clothes that you probably always wanted.Once you start wearing these your confidnece should go through the roof and its a brilliant feeling .

    I have worn my first Medium sized clingy T shirts and they look really good as I have a flat tummy area now and show all my contours . A far cry from the 2XL sized shirts I used to wear.

    1468255372
    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 583
    • Joined: 11 Dec 2014

    I have lost a lot of weight since the kids and then lost another stone coming off the pill before I met my fella. I have discovered running and fitness and not only am I more confident but I can ride him harder and faster than I ever could before! X

    1468255373
    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 583
    • Joined: 11 Dec 2014

    I have lost a lot of weight since the kids and then lost another stone coming off the pill before I met my fella. I have discovered running and fitness and not only am I more confident but I can ride him harder and faster than I ever could before! X

    1468287114
    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 5944
    • Joined: 7 Jan 2014

    Gem276 wrote:

    I have lost a lot of weight since the kids and then lost another stone coming off the pill before I met my fella. I have discovered running and fitness and not only am I more confident but I can ride him harder and faster than I ever could before! X

    I totally agree with that .My stamina for sex has improved massively with my weight loss. The only thing stopping me is my OHS much lower sex drive. But that's life !

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.