• Ejaculating but not an orgasm, what is this?

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    Pastrnak [sign in to see picture]
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    I was playing about with my new toy and it was on my prostate I believe, and in the middle of my play, I was ejaculating, but it wasn't an orgasm and I wasn't more sensitive or getting softer, I just, was leaking. Anybody had this before? What's going on?

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    Jinjo96 [sign in to see picture]
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    I think this is quite common. You are pushing on the part that is making you want to pee. Its just like male ejaculation just without the sperm.

    I've never done it myself but have had the feeling.

    I think the reason you are not orgasming is because you are not stimulating the right part for you.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    It just pre cum, it's basically comming from your prostate, because your are massaging it . It's part of semen and is produced also if you get really aroused during masurbation, fore play, or prostate play.

    All perfectly normal

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    Pre cum is clear, I had a whole lot more of that than usual, and then it was actual sperm that came out, but I didn't feel the contractions of orgasm

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    Unless pre cum is not clear when I massage the prostate

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    Jinjo, I wasn't trying to orgasm, I was holding off, but the sperm came anyway, I was able to orgasm, but I didn't yet, I'm just really confused and a little worried

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    You can also ejaculate, without the acompanying "orgasm" or a bad cum as I call it, Stimulating the prostate can do this; as well as give you a massive orgasm. It just happens sometimes.

    If you don't mind me asking have you managed to have an anal orgasm before.

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    This was my first time, I wouldn't know what an anal orgasm feels like

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Holding off or edging that gets too close to orgasm, when you pull back, is well know to cause ejaculation without orgasm

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    From what's been said, sounds like you've hit the jackpot; this is a perfectly normal male rsponse to direct prostate stimulation. It does differ from man to man, but this is one of the more typical responses.

    Have a look up prostate milking for a bit more info

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Were you masturbating at the same time as anal play.

    You would know if you had one it's like a normal male orgasm times 10.

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    Alone, yes I was, and I am not too sure, perhaps with time and practice I will be able to figure out what an anal orgasm feels like.

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    Sum sub... I think you're right, I managed to *cough cough* 'research video evidence' *cough* of what you said. It looks very similar, no actual orgasm, but leaking cum, and quite a lot too

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    What you're describing there, alone, is what I know as a ruined orgasm. I wasn't actually edging, or close to orgasm at the time, I was just, trying to keep things going for as long as I could, while it was feeling so damn amazing

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Just play and enjoy, don't try to make yourself orgasm, or likely you will give yourself a mental block, by starting to think this is never going to happen. It will happen when you and your body are ready, just enjoy the journey.

    In time you will be able to have an anal orgasm without masturbation, just from internal stimulation. Having a blended anal orgasm/ ejaculation orgasm, is someting else you may learn to do.

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    Alone, I'm a lucky guy, I don't have problems trying to orgasm, I often have problems stopping myself lol. But if you're meaning, don't try to have an anal orgasm, then I understand, it will happen if it happens.

    A blended orgasm, you mean both a regular penis orgasm, combined with an anal orgasm? That sounds incredible. I had a hard time staying quiet with just playing, with no orgasms. I'm concerned what noises I'll end up making :P

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    Anyway, I think sum sub found the answer. Thank you!

    Also all who messaged, thank you for teaching me things :)

    I can't wait until I can try it out again. For science lol. I need to research types of orgasm ;)

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    I wasn't even near an orgasm, I was just there, sat on my toy, stroking away, and the only indication of ejaculating I had was feeling a slight pressure work its way from inside, through the centre of my penis, to the tip, and then it spilled out :O

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    Its precum or seminal fluid.

    Seminal vesicle adds this fluid to sperm to give it nourishment and protect it in the womb from the acidic environment.

    When you stimulate the prostate it can lead to release of the fluid which I guess is what you experienced.

    Might want to look up prostate play, its quite interesting and is another experience in itself.

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    alone4ever wrote:

    Were you masturbating at the same time as anal play.

    You would know if you had one it's like a normal male orgasm times 10.

    OMG, that happened to me today.

    The wierd thing was I was feeling it, and getting hot and slippery, but wasnt getting fully 'fledged', as it were, at the front till I started to masturbate.

    But I have been able to cum before without getting all hard.
    Is that all normal?

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