• Ladies your advice please :)

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    MGB93 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello everyone,

    I've recently started to get the most out of the lovehoney account and I have found it really helpful and have enjoyed the conversations. I would like to ask for some advice.

    My partner and I of six years get married this Friday 😄 we have 10 nights away in Mexico for our honeymoon and I was wondering ladies, what are your favourite positions? What does you other half do that gets you in the mood and really get you heated up? And what has given you some of your best orgasms?

    We already have a fairly adventurous sex life but I was just wondering if there is anything I could do that I perhaps haven't thought of 😀 thank you in advance for your advice

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and congratulations on your forthcoming wedding.

    I love being dominated, so anything that I've been TOLD to do really gets me going. Best orgasms are definitely from anal and dp. I also love forced orgasm and being tied down, completely at the mercy of my oh. xx

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and congrats! 😃

    We have found many of our favourite positions through the Tracey Cox Supersex Card Deck, one of which is called Tinkerbell! There are tons of ideas in there along with some helpful tips on how to improve the traditional positions such as missionary.

    Lots of things get us heated up but the top few would probably be sensual massage, blindfolds and soft restraints, lingerie/costumes, lots of foreplay etc!

    I'm sure if you browsed the forums for a while, you'd find lots of things you haven't thought of yet :)

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    MGB93 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you Terri JJ that's definitely something I will try. We tried anal once after a drunken night out and it really put her off (combination of the drink and rushing into it - the more I think about it, the more stupid I feel) but now she is scared of trying again, how could I approach trying again more slowly?

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello :)

    First off, congratualtions on your 6 year anniversary! Mexico sounds like a lush place to spend it. I love doggy position and having my legs on his shoulders for missionary. I sometimes out a cushion under my hips in the latter position to make for even deeper penetration.

    We're in a dominant submissive relationship which does involve BDSM but there's a big misconception that it has to be whips and chains. Some of the best dominance is without toys imo. For example I'll go for a spoon in bed and he'll pinch my nipples and tell me how many orgasms I'll have and just use his fingers on my clit. He has me count them out and pulls my hips back into him if I struggle. I love feeling his hard on during it and then afterwards I'll get on top and he'll keep going.

    This is especially good for me because I can't orgasm from vaginal penetration only so I'm lucky to have a partner step up to the mark and give me countless orgasms during sex.

    We're also very much info kink and BDSM including clubs but that's a bit specialist so I'll not delve into that unless it's something you're interested in :)

    All the best!

    Edit: Also Terri JJ loving the new profile photo!

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    MondaySixteenth [sign in to see picture]
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    MGB93 wrote:

    Thank you Terri JJ that's definitely something I will try. We tried anal once after a drunken night out and it really put her off (combination of the drink and rushing into it - the more I think about it, the more stupid I feel) but now she is scared of trying again, how could I approach trying again more slowly?

    Can understand her being put off so a lof of conversation about it and if she's wiling to give it another go.

    Lots of lube (check out reviews but this is my fave http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31224)

    and perhaps a dialator (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35782)

    or anal training kit (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35663)

    would be a good idea. There are also books on the topic which LH sell :)

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    MGB93 [sign in to see picture]
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    MondaySixteenth wrote:

    MGB93 wrote:

    Thank you Terri JJ that's definitely something I will try. We tried anal once after a drunken night out and it really put her off (combination of the drink and rushing into it - the more I think about it, the more stupid I feel) but now she is scared of trying again, how could I approach trying again more slowly?

    Can understand her being put off so a lof of conversation about it and if she's wiling to give it another go.

    Lots of lube (check out reviews but this is my fave http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31224)

    and perhaps a dialator (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35782)

    or anal training kit (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35663)

    would be a good idea. There are also books on the topic which LH sell :)

    Brilliant thank you 😀

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