• Vaginal Fisting

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    SJLondon [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello, I'm new here so not 100% sure how to write this so here goes.

    I've always been really turned on by the idea of having a man's whole hand inside me. I've been too nervous to raise it unless I've been drunk and a couple of partners have found it quite weird. One or two that have tried have had too big hands. I hate not succeeding at things though so am quite determined!!

    Any tips (other than lots of lube!!) for how to approach it please?

    Thank you!

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    Predator [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,

    Sounds like you're open and fun, so good for you :)

    Ive only done this with 2 partners. The first time was something we hadn't talk about. We were just playing after sex (I had cum inside her) but I was still fingering. Next thing 2 fingers became 3, then 4. We carrried on for a bit and she seemed to get more turned on and grinded herself harder and harder on to my hand. That's when my knuckles went in. The only thing left was my thumb. I carried on but I think a lot of my cum had leaked out by now, and despite how wet she was, trying to push my thumb in would have hurt her, so i pulled my hand out. She told me to go back in and carry on. This time i used a bit of lube, slipped my hand back in for a bit and gently built up a rythm. I tried then to make a fist and go in but my thumb was getting caught. That's when I pulled back again so my knuckles were slightly exposed and tucked my thumb in to the palm of my hand. I slowly pushed my hand back in and wrapped my fingers around my thumb as it slipped back inside. That seemed to do the trick perfectly.

    The second girl loves being fisted so it was much easier, but she pointed out that you shouldn't try to turn your fist side to side, as that will hurt. just back and forth.

    So, my advice is to try after sex (maybe with deep cum inside), use lots of lube, start with fingers before moving to knuckles, definitely tuck his thumb in to the palm of his hand whilst pushing inside, and no twisting movements.

    I hope this helps. Have fun :)

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    Relaxing is the key, you're not going to get there in one go, so it takes practice over time and some one you can trust though you can do it to yourself too( either your own hand or toy ), as you've guessed lube is also essential, its not weired either, lots of guys get a real turn on from having their whole hand inside.

    You could try on your own a a pace that suits you using say this; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16785 place it on the floor and kneel over it maybe and gently lower yourself down, it will probably ache the first few times so take a day off between "practice" as you are in control I will guess you'll push it some in order to succeed?

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    Also as the picture shows in this; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10617 its not a full fist you use (at first at least ) and it may be easier with the flat of your palm vertical not across between your legs, the one here is the same size as my hand, I just measured mine, just keep playing you'll get there in no time, then its just how far do you go

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    Onlywhenisayso [sign in to see picture]
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    The link above shows the position of my fingers when I enter her. As soon as I'm in up to the knuckles I bend my fingers into a fist with my thumb tucked inside. A bit more pressure and I can get in up to the wrist. It took a few sessions before I could get all the way in, first starting with 3 fingers and working my way up.

    You have already mentioned it, but I cannot stress the importance of lube enough. Also make sure your nails are very short with no sharp edges. I sometimes also use a glove to protect her very delicate insides. And yes, I have knicked her before and made her bleed. Not nice.

    She does however love the feeling of orgasm when she is so very full.

    If this post is too graphic, could MODS please edit or delete.

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    SJLondon [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you all so very much- all help appreciated for this beginner.

    My first parcel of LH toys has arrived including a massive pot of lube so tonight is the night. Wish me luck!

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    Lovinthetoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Good Luck, hope you enjoy :)

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    Predator [sign in to see picture]
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    Whoop, I hope all went well. Don't be disappointed if it didn't happen on your first night. :-)

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    Fisting. It can be done right or wrong, if it's done wrong, she will never want to do it again!

    Fisting does not have to be literally about 'fisting ' as in, the whole fist and half your arm up there, so stop worrying about losing a braclet or watch lol!

    Heres what to do:

    Make sure your nails are trimmed with NO jagged edges.

    Get some KY Jelly. There are other lubes out there, but KY is the best.

    Apply KY to your hand. Apply KY to her vagina inside and around the entrance.

    Do some usual foreplay with thouching and caressing and oral sex. (or which ever one she likes best).

    Start by sliding one finger in and out, then progress to two, then three.

    Then stop, hold it there!

    Keep three fingers in and gently move in and out, rotate around, push in and out.

    Now she needs to switch on a bullet vibe like the bang bang bullet or a mild to moderate mini vibe preferrably with a single speed and start to stroke her clitoris with it. This will make her relax and the pleasure will stop her tensing.

    NOW go four a fourth finger, in and out, slowly, twist around again, while you are doing this your hand needs to be in a narrow shape (forefinger and little finger leaning in to touch middle fingers to make your hand narrow).

    Press your thumb tight to your centre palm and then push in again, out, rotate, in and out, slowly and gently.

    You are now in up to the knuckles.

    Push gently again but if she feels pain, STOP PULL BACK A LITTLE AND GO AGAIN - GENTLY.

    If you still feel resistance, thats as far as you can go. Wide hands will not fit inside sometimes! (That's why porn actors doing fisting scenes often have slender hands, have you noticed that?)

    If this is as far as you can go, concentrate on the pressing gently against the entrance and twisting gently around, the stretching sensation alone shud be enough with the bullet in use as well, to give her a good orgasm.

    Fisting does not have to mean taking the whole hand, many people (myself included) get mind blowing pleasure from simply feeling a partners hand stretching down there. Which is still fisting even if the whole fist is not involved.

    This should help you to achive the result you both want, so try this next time you have a go at it. And remember fisting is patience and skill and technique, but that's only 20% of it - the rest is TRUST so as long as you are both relaxed, gentle and careful, and go slowly, it should be good for you and mind blowing for her.

    All the best and I hope this helps.

    Source of my advice: An 18 month relationship with a former lover who used to fist me vaginally and anally. He never got past the knuckles either but it was amazing, because it was slow, careful and he did all the things I listed above.

    Hope this helps a lot

    Cj posted this but wouldn't let me share the link. Was great advice x

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    Yorkshire Rider [sign in to see picture]
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    Well firstly it's not weird! But, it can be mind blowing ;) My partner loves having my fingers inside her, and gets really wet when they're in there. One day she kept wanting more, until my whole hand was in to my wrist. Cue a mind altering orgasm!

    As I mentioned above, the first time we did it it was just through building up the number of fingers. This allowed allow her vagina to become accustomed to being stretched. When the time was right for my whole hand to enter her, I made my hand in to pointed cone shape, and slowly pushed this in to the knuckles several times. Once her vagina had stretched to accomodate this, my whole hand went in with no discomfort to her. She just loves the feeling of being completely full, and I love the feeling of her vagina enveloping my whole hand. And when she orgasms, the feel of her opening gripping my wrist is beyond words... She usually squirts at the same time too

    I must point out though, that I have fairly small hands. Much bigger, and I don't think the whole hand would go in. Also, it's amazing how quickly the vagina shrinks back to it's original size. She's always satisfied by a good fucking afterwards!

    However, as with many things sexual, she is not in the mood for it all the time, so picking the right time and not forcing it when it doesn't feel right is key. Trimmed nails, with no sharp bits is also essential.

    Overall, it's pleasure you can't measure! She just doesn't like the name for it!

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    Madskitzo [sign in to see picture]
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    I have been into fisting for many many years, i am a male so for me it's anal obviously but I have fisted a girl before. I find that for me it's plenty of lube and just work up to stretching, but various diameter toys and get used to using them with confidence and ease. As you progress you'll eventually be able to relax and know your limits. For me it is about the stretch and not the depth, so the hand toys people have put links to, don't work for me as they are just too long. There are fist toys you can buy and I prefer those of the hand toys.

    If you really want to have vaginal fisting, just go slow. That is the only advice you need. Once you have managed it, you'll either love it or hate it.

    Good luck and enjoy!

    P.S you never said if you have a partner or you're talking DIY. It would be a lot easier with a partner because you can relax and guide them, it's not easy doing it yourself because of the position.

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    It's something we have been trying recently, we have found a good lube helps and remember to relax! And keep trying we have bn having sum great fun 😂

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    Alltomuch [sign in to see picture]
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    Lots of lube.
    Lots of wine.
    Take your time.
    Curl your hand as u.it goes in.

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    anneke [sign in to see picture]
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    SJLondon wrote:

    Thank you all so very much- all help appreciated for this beginner.

    My first parcel of LH toys has arrived including a massive pot of lube so tonight is the night. Wish me luck!

    Good Luck and enjoy x

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    SJLondon wrote:

    Thank you all so very much- all help appreciated for this beginner.

    My first parcel of LH toys has arrived including a massive pot of lube so tonight is the night. Wish me luck!

    How did you get on ? X
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    Hopelessly Horny [sign in to see picture]
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    My oh is keen to achieve this it's a wish to fulfil and we're definitely working on it...will have to read this one to him some useful tips

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    DBCB [sign in to see picture]
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    We got into fisting about 1 year ago. By accident, 4 fingers led to a fist, however the subsequent orgasm(s) that my wife had has meant that she has requested to be fisted on many occassions over the past year, as it gives her intense squirting orgasms.

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