• Anal Orgasms

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    AnalLover88 [sign in to see picture]
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    I have only ever managed to achieve one anal orgasm in over 12 years of doing it. That was with the MRS. I find it very hard to achieve one on my own as the feeling becomes really intense and I start twitching so can't control my hand or leg movement. Has anybody got any advice on how to get past this and anyone else who wants to share their anal orgasm stories? :)

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    Mcbean [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there,

    some times its the independance of someone else doing the work for you that can get you all the way. loss of control perhaps.

    toys do it for me personally, but the OH touching near there is far more intense than anything i've managed myself.

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    What are you using for stimulation, fingers or a toy? Have you tried a dedicated prostate toy such as an Aneros?

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    AnalLover88 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,

    I have loads of different toys, my biggest is Rambone, also have really long double enders. They are the ones that will get me there if any. The prostate massagers are too small for me so don't do a lot. I prefer deep penetration compared to stimulation of the prostate :)

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I can cum easily and multiple times from anal sex/play. If you like deep penetration then a large dildo will probably work better than an actual prostate massagers...... generally speaking they're considerably cheaper too. What position do you use ? If I'm playing alone I find that lying on my side with me knees pulled up towards my chest works best.....and it's the best position for me for getting a toy really deep. I prefer doggy if engaging in anal or dp with my oh. x

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    AnalLover88 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, I feel like they do the job better for me.
    I have lots of big toys that I love, it's just hard to go all the way. The one time it did happen for me, it was the best sexual feeling I've ever experienced so want to try and get there again.

    The positions vary, my favourite is with a couple of pillows underneath me lying on my back, it's the most comfortable and helps me with depth. I have suction dildo's that I attach to the wall but can't get rhythm properly because they either fall off as they are so big and I find it hard to position it for maximum depth. I do ride occasionally but it's not very comfortable for me so don't do as often as the other positions.

    I've read a few places that on your side with knees up is a good one but for me, I tend to experience a sharp, prodding sensation, not sure if I'm doing something wrong here? x

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    Mcbean [sign in to see picture]
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    AnalLover88 wrote:

    Yeah, I feel like they do the job better for me.
    I have lots of big toys that I love, it's just hard to go all the way. The one time it did happen for me, it was the best sexual feeling I've ever experienced so want to try and get there again.

    The positions vary, my favourite is with a couple of pillows underneath me lying on my back, it's the most comfortable and helps me with depth. I have suction dildo's that I attach to the wall but can't get rhythm properly because they either fall off as they are so big and I find it hard to position it for maximum depth. I do ride occasionally but it's not very comfortable for me so don't do as often as the other positions.

    I've read a few places that on your side with knees up is a good one but for me, I tend to experience a sharp, prodding sensation, not sure if I'm doing something wrong here? x

    the spoon position is supposed to be good for ease of entry, but obviously for anal there is no one position fits all, and you'll need to find whats best for you.

    if suction cups arent holding, try dampening the cup a little to help seal it to the wall.

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    Littlestars [sign in to see picture]
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    As a female, I find width does more for me than length anally. My largest toy is the doc Johnson b7 tango. I orgasm and open up further each time, and take a little more. But I always hit the wall just before taking in the last part of the last bump.
    Even the enema attachment on my shower doesn't seem to break that barrier.
    I do orgasm easily anally. I can imagine it gets tricky if your a guy trying to manoeuvre correctly to stimulate yourself. Other than getting your partner to help either with toy in hard or pegging.

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    MK7 [sign in to see picture]
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    Must say, I've never had one despite trying for the longest times. Dedicated prostate toys have only ever got me close and not over the edge. Shame really. It's the one thing I want most, haha.

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    Thanks for the info Mcbean :)

    @littlestars; I love girth and depth. I started with slim double enders to get the depth and butt plugs like your B7 Tango to stretch me out ready for larger toys. It takes some time to get past the barrier you're referring to, I would use something slimmer to get it past that and then it's easier to get bigger toys past that barrier. When you refer to anal orgasms, do you stimulate yourself in any other way? I can get off if I stimulate myself but it's not the same as anal-only stimulation as the orgasm is different. When I had an anal orgasm, I had huge waves all through my body and it lasted 10 times longer than a standard orgasm and felt a millon times better :)

    @MK7; you should keep trying, it's the best feeling I've experienced, just wish it wasn't so hard to get there. Wish I had the space for a fucking machine as I think that would do the trick :)

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    AnalLover88 wrote:

    I have only ever managed to achieve one anal orgasm in over 12 years of doing it. That was with the MRS. I find it very hard to achieve one on my own as the feeling becomes really intense and I start twitching so can't control my hand or leg movement. Has anybody got any advice on how to get past this and anyone else who wants to share their anal orgasm stories? :)

    This only happens to me when I try to force myself to orgasm, my arm goes limp as I start to climb towards orgasm, and then I loose muscule control in my arm and I can't continue.

    I find it best to just relax and let the sensations travel up through my body until I sort of feel it in my mind; it feels like surendering to it, opening your mind and just let it fill you up. When there's enough of a build up of sensations, I just feel like I go off like a bomb. But it happens when it happens; and it doesn't for me if I try to make it.

    i don't know about any other guys but when I give sex, it feels like I have to try and cum, to sort of push the sensations out along my manhood, until I cum. The compleate opposite of achieving an anal orgasm, where it's about not trying to cum but taking in the sensations and surendering control to them. Just as you have to do to be pegged, you let the dildo in, and the person using it, take you; it's all about things going in, and wanting to allow it to happen, and surendering control, either to the women pegging you: or the guy taking you if it's about anal orgasm as a gay man(done both).

    The same thing applies, for solo play, only it's the toy you give control to. The Chinese refer to flow of sensations as sexual energy or "chi". And if I remember this correctly they belive that the man pushes out his chi on climax and looses it from his body, and the woman takes it in. which fits for me as this is what I have just described above.

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    Hi alone4ever,

    That's a perfect explaination, thank you for all the advice, it's really appreciated :)

    I will have to give it a go. How long does it take for you to reach orgasm anally and how often does it happen for you?

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    AnalLover88 wrote:

    Hi alone4ever,

    That's a perfect explaination, thank you for all the advice, it's really appreciated :)

    I will have to give it a go. How long does it take for you to reach orgasm anally and how often does it happen for you?

    The whole point is that how long it takes is not important; if you focus on that it may never happen. It's about surendering to the person, or the toy, giving yourself up to them or it, and most importantly pulling the sensations into you, not trying to push the orgasm out of you, as you would when trying to orgasm into a woman. I don't know for sure but I'm pretty sure thats how women orgasm.

    If you think about it yoou role with a woman is to put your semen into her so you are pushing out, she is taking your semen into her, and your manhood, so I think they do the same with the sensations thet feel. As; where would they push those sensations anyway, there is nothing external to feel, in mirror image to the vagina. The clitoris is external so maybe they do push sensations out there to have a clitoral orgasm, and thats why they can have the different kinds of orgasm.

    Some day I will have a partner with whom I can have this conversation, as it's quite complex to explan on here.

    When does it happen for me, well practically every time I try, except if I'm going solo then sometimes I pegg myself just for the pleasure without orgasm been particulally the intention, like if I don't want to take the time it may need, as trying to fit it into a time slot puts too much pressure on me and so I can't do it anyway. not to say that if my body is in the mood I can't get there in 5 ot 10 minutes. But I have been known to take an hour or more, and just take it steady, so it happpens when it happens.

    When I'm being pegged it seems much easier as there is that emotional boost from having someone dominating you, especially if she is someone who really loves to do it, and practically has an orgasm just from the thill of it, that is a serious turn on for me.

    Try this too I can pull the sensations into me when giving to a woman, and especially when masturbating my penis, the result is a much more powerful orgasm on ejaculation; and 8 out of 10 times I can have 2, 3 or even 4 short orgasms in quick succession, before the final one on ejaculation. Mind blowing. But as a guy who has had little sex over the last 30 years, masturbation is the best way to learn this, so I have had lots of practice. But I had to learn what it was that could make me do this without even knowing thats what I was doing.

    Only the fact that I feel I would prefere to to be female, and so used to transpose the exernal sensations, up inside me to simulate in my mind a vagina that wasn't really there. Anal sex lead me there too.

    So in essence channel your feminine side, you also get to have an idea just how sex feels for a woman. It will make you a better lover, if you understand how it feels to be dominated, by penetration. Boot on the other foot syndrome.

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    Littlestars [sign in to see picture]
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    @alone4ever it's a fair description of how a woman orgasms. The muscles work in waves really. At the height of a piv orgasm my partner or toy has my muscles tense hard and practically push everything out before taking it all back in.

    Anally I find toys will and have shot out of me as I orgasm some they are often held in by my bf. As he knows once the orgasm has passed my muscles relax enough to take more in.

    I can find just inserting a toy can instantly give me an orgasm.

    But typically during play I will orgasm many times and I do loose control of myself and zone out. However this way I find I'm not feeling any pain or discomfort afterwards as I've handed over the reins and allowed my body to respond to the play and orgasm as naturally and freely as I can.

    I think in some respects it is hard to place your trust in someone enough to allow yourself to be putty in someone else's hands. Orgasms just seem to flow out of me anally stimulated or otherwise.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    I have to struggle to keep the toy in me at orgasm too, i'm pushing it out, feels like I'm trying to s*** a brick out, but in a good way then you coud drive a bus up me as I finish the orgasm.

    I feel it come in waves too, and have been know to loose count after 10 consecutive orgasms, and practically faint. I once had to climb out of the bath where I was playing because I went into a sort of contiuous orgasm, with to toy out of me; thought I was going to pass out and drown, to say nothing of having an heart attack.

    But the senastions I feel go inward and nearly blow the top off my head. What a way to get a headache.

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