• Anal play???? Fun???

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    MikeyF25 [sign in to see picture]
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    out of curiosity (and well tbh i want to find some one to enjoy a healthy and varied sex life with) how many of you ladies enjoy anal sex?

    seeing anal scenes in porn is not accurate because they are paid to act like they enjoy it even if they dont.

    i know of a few ladies who enjoy anal play but havent been persuaded to take a penis up there.(yet).

    i will continue to wait until i find a lady willing to experiment with me and take my penis where it has only dreamed of going.

    So my main question is: how many of you ladies enjoy anal?

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    KittenFeatures [sign in to see picture]
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    I have always enjoyed anal since the first time I tried it. I'll admit sometimes I'm just not in the mood for it but most of the time I love to experience it. Double penetration is one of my biggest turn ons, I feel so much more and it's a lot of fun.

    I vary from whether it's anal sex or just toys that we use, because we do have a few butt plugs, but I do prefer to feel my partner down there than a toy, just because nothing beats the real thing. I know there's plenty of women out there that love anal, equally there's loads out there that don't. :)

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    MikeyF25 [sign in to see picture]
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    thankyou @KittenFeatures a womans perspective is much appreciated. i hope to see more womens perspectives and continue to experiment

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    KittenFeatures [sign in to see picture]
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    You're very welcome. I agree that porn is very unrealistic these days, but they just give the audience what they want. There's plenty of women out there that don't mind giving anal a try or a quite eager to do so. I'm sure you'll find one eventually. Good luck. :)

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love anal, OH doesn't though, says it's too tight nad uncomfortable so we dont do it much.

    for me the most important thing is how the man behaves, if a man is too eager then i wont because i dont think they'll be able ot control themselves and go at my pace. i think porn has given unrealistic ideas as to how anal works.

    the women in porn, you can see, have been warming up nad stretching for ages to be able to take a penis, all you see is the man walk up and "stick it in". so men think that that's what you do. when in reality all this gets you is a girfriend shooting through the roof and banned for life.

    to expect a woman to let you do it you have ot show her you have control, including lots of foreplay beofre vaginal sex, unprepared vaginal sex is uncomfortable for a seccond while our body figures out whats happening and starts lubing up, anal sex stays painful, our bodies dont make lube or relax muscles there for us.

    so if a woman knows that you dont prepare for anal sex, she certainly wont trust you near the rear.

    also you odnt go straight into sex, it takes build up with fingers and even small plugs to build confidence, tecnique and trust. you also need loads of lube, something else you dont see in porn becuase theyre already prelubed and stretched.

    if you're pushy about it and clumsy in hte bedroom anyway a woman will not even consider it.

    if you're slow nad gentle and have lube and are prepared a woman may consider it after a while (and this can be over several or more sessions).

    some women will never consider it. some women have been put off by previous partners being careless. some women have done it all as advised and still didint like it so will not try again.

    and some women think (and rightly so to an extent) that its unhygeinic os wont try it.

    I'm not saying your are overly eager with your partners or that you're clumsy in the bedroom its just advice from experience. a man that keeps asking for it or even keep trying for it when told "no" will never be given permission and as far as im concerned will find himself single and thrown out on the street

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    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
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    I adore anal sex, after I split with my ex husband I had a few crazy nights on self destruct however I always viewed anal sex as really special and intimate so I have only ever done that with my exhusband and my boyfriend.

    I love that you have to go slow at first to feel that first "pop" I can literally feel my temperature rise and I have had incredible orgasms from it too! I love that it feels naughty and extra tight!

    I have persuaded almost all of my friends to at least try anal sex as I love it so much!

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    I like anal sex when it's done well but 100% prefer vaginal.

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    Naughty me [sign in to see picture]
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    I absolutely love anal sex, its amazing! In fact, I prefer it 95% of the time.
    We usually start vaginally so that I'm well lubricated, but when I have anal sex I always, always have multiple orgasms. But maybe that's also down to my OH who knows how to pleasure me. 😀.......I could never ever get bored of it...

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome to the forums ;)

    I adore anal sex/ play and also dp with my oh and toys.

    I'm one of the few women who prefer anal to vaginal sex. My orgasms from anal are mind blowing. I love rimming etc too.....love anything to do with my bum if I'm being honest xx

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    MikeyF25 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thankyou ladies for the insight xxx

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    My wife likes a finger or two up there but would not admit it, rarely get myself in there

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    Huge anal fan here I might even prefer it to vaginal sex. I don't watch porn so I don't know in what ways it is unrealistic but if it is just that they look like they are enjoying it, I don't think that's unrealistic. Lots of women (and men) do.

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    Only ever done anal once before many years ago. Want to try it with my guy, we can be both shy but have immense bedroom fun. He's finally admitted to wanting to try some anal but wants to try a finger first. Im unbelievable nervous about it but i do want to have a go.. Any tips for a first timer? Just ordered a butt plug too.. Again new to that though!

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    Llll29 wrote:

    Only ever done anal once before many years ago. Want to try it with my guy, we can be both shy but have immense bedroom fun. He's finally admitted to wanting to try some anal but wants to try a finger first. Im unbelievable nervous about it but i do want to have a go.. Any tips for a first timer? Just ordered a butt plug too.. Again new to that though!

    Losts of lube, play on your own first, try using your fingers, when together if you can't say what you want him to do, take his hand a guide it, don't get sozzed but a drink can make you say/admit things you would never normally say? don't expect too much at first together it takes time and communication to get to know what the other likes, it took me 20 years of being together to get my OH to fist me as I'm rather quiet too.

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    Start with just one finger. Lubed up. Wait until you're super horny. When you are getting handsy during forplay or better yet if he's inside you and you're on top, he reaches down and tickles the rum of your bum with his finger, really lightly, until you're relaxed, then millimetre by millimetre he pushes his finger in. Or you slowly push back on his finger and control it yourself. Not breaking eye contact. It's super sexy and I'll bet you cum in moments.

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    Llll29 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks! Ill be sure to give it ago!!

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