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    Essexguy75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Evening all, need some advice. I'm away this weekend with my oh and well she wants me to wear hold ups and pleasure myself in front of her. To be honest this has come out of the blue! I am game for trying this but would never have dreamed of her suggesting it. Does this mean she wants to spice up our sex life?

    Advice would be great!

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    Lovehoney - Paige [sign in to see picture]
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    I think asking her would be best rather than asking us- but I can only assume so yes!

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    andziniho [sign in to see picture]
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    Just enjoy it

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    By hold ups I assume you mean stockings, there are a number of women on here who love to see their men in lingerie.

    Why not you seem up for it, as LH Paige said talk to her; sounds to me like she is sounding you out to as you say spice things up. Ask her if she would like you to wear anything else with them, so she knows you are game. Or just surprise her with something of your choice, along the same lines.

    light bondage may be a good place to go next, take a look on here for some silk ties, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33637 Like these. She may enjoy the surprise.

    Just don't tie her up and leave her for even a moment, play safe, and have fun.

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Sounds like fun. Only do it if you feel comfortable, any concerns, do have a chat with her. Have fun x

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I love a guy in womens lingerie, a real turn on for me. She's obviously keen on the idea and if you're happy with it, go for it. It does sound as though she's trying to spice things up a little. Have a chat with her and find out if there's anything else she'd like to try.....could lead to loads of fun for both of you x

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    MysticalMayhem [sign in to see picture]
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    Embrace it and see where it leads you...

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    m4t1n [sign in to see picture]
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    Just go with a flow! It could lead you to something fantastic!

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Just do it.. you might enjoy it but if not just do it to make your Oh happier. That can only be good.in your relationship.

    If you wanted you could use it as a bargaining tool for something you want to try.

    But go along with it but make her provide the hold ups !

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    Essexguy75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Many thanks for the advice. Yes she is supplying the hold ups. Saturday night is the night so I've been told

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    brucey15 [sign in to see picture]
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    How did you get on. I love wearing stockings with wife.

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    Fun Louise [sign in to see picture]
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    Why not suggest that you take it in turns, this time you do what she suggests, you might like it.

    Then next time, she does what you suggest.

    It could be a fun way of trying new things together.

    If your not happy to oblige any of her requests please say so.

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    MrJones1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Go for it!!! You'll never know unless you try, I would love my girl to ask me, it will be sexy and you sex life will thrive

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    Bespin [sign in to see picture]
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    How did this go?? Was it fun?

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    Essexguy75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all. Like to thank for the advice and I have to say was very horny and exciting b

    night.

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Essexguy75 wrote:

    Hi all. Like to thank for the advice and I have to say was very horny and exciting b

    night.

    Needs a repeat performance then 😉 x

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    Sxleksaker [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm glad you had fun! :)

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