• Dick or dildo first?

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    LilMissRachel [sign in to see picture]
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    Did anyone start using a vibrator or dildo before they lost their virginity? My older sister took me along to a lingerie / sex toy part when was [younger] and like everyone I was encouraged to buy something. I did buy a rabbit and was using this for almost a year before I lost my virginity to my boyfriend.

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    I suppose you meant 18... ;) http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/forum-rules/

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    honeybun91 [sign in to see picture]
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    Definetely dildo first ! But can't Really beat the real thing lol

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    Was dildo for me too :P

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh yah it was defo when you were 18 right ;)

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    Sxleksaker [sign in to see picture]
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    I tried my first dildo around 6 months ago, so dick for me haha

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    Fun Louise [sign in to see picture]
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    Definately penis first, didn't get my first dildo untill was mid 30's

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Penis first. I wish it had been the other way around though. Would have made it much more comfortable!

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    LilMissRachel [sign in to see picture]
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    era wrote:

    I suppose you meant 18... ;) http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/forum-rules/

    Oh yes, sorry about that, 18 is what I meant ;-)

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    beautifulrainfall [sign in to see picture]
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    Real thing first because that's what I decided I wanted, didn't want me to be the first to go up there haha

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    Definitely dildo first (actually, the real thing has never happened - and something tells me it will never happen).

    I was not 18, though. (Don't panic, Leanne, Jess and other moderators, what I had in mind was that I was 23 at that time...)

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Briona87 wrote:

    Definitely dildo first (actually, the real thing has never happened - and something tells me it will never happen).

    I was not 18, though. (Don't panic, Leanne, Jess and other moderators, what I had in mind was that I was 23 at that time...)

    Oi! Told you before - none of this silly talk. You are a wonderful intelligent woman now chin up...!
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    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Penis first. I didn't get my first vibrator until I was 25. I had used vibes with partners though.

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    KittenFeatures [sign in to see picture]
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    I lost my virginity to someone before I ever had toys, mainly because I live in a place where everyone knows everyone and people talk. Sex toys were embarrassing to have at an age where people assume you should have lost your virginity or are single. :x I didn't get one until a year or so later.

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    Dildo first for me but it was a cr*ppy cheap one, I didn't bother again until I was at uni, newly single and missing sex!

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    Briona87 wrote:

    Definitely dildo first (actually, the real thing has never happened - and something tells me it will never happen).

    I was not 18, though. (Don't panic, Leanne, Jess and other moderators, what I had in mind was that I was 23 at that time...)

    I agree, stop it or...

    Penis, and it was not the most pleasant experience ever, if I may be honest... It was a messy business. But it got better over time.

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Penis first......and it wasn't by choice 😞 x

    I now prefer both at the same time 😉 

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    delilahxx [sign in to see picture]
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    Penis first for me.

    I didn't start to enjoy vibrators until much later. My first vibrator was not good and put me off for a long time

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    RosyCheek [sign in to see picture]
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    I didn't have a vibrator until I was 21 after I had sampled one or two penises. I bought it with my now husband from a high street shop (I mentioned in another forum how I sent him in as I was too embarrassed)because rabbits were all anyone talked about then. I was curious and didn't realise they were not just for singles!

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    MK7 [sign in to see picture]
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    Never owned an outright dildo, but I messed around with anal play before I lost my virginity.

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