• Male anal play

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    jonnytommy19 [sign in to see picture]
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    I am trying to cum through anal stimulation only but am unable to do so. Any toys or things I can do to cum via prostate massage that is a sure fire way. Also how do I know I am in the right spot back there? Is there a certain feeling that lets me know I am doing it right?

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    Your prostate is about 50mm in and towards the front of your body, it's about the size of a Walnut. When you find it you will know, it will feel a little like needing to pee, probably as it's wraped around your urethra just below your bladder. Push the toy in past this point and pull it back out a little with some pressure towards the front of your body, pressing forward on the in stroke could make your eyes water if you get under the prostate, so find out gently to start.

    It takes time to learn how to orgasm, just keep practicing. There is no sure fire way, much of sex is in the mind, so you need to find the zone in you mind as well as in your body. It may take quite some time in a session to get there, so don't expect to cum in a few minutes.

    I have reached orgasm purely from stimulating my anal sphincter, and i knew a guy who only came from stimulating a spot 6 inch inside him;yourself t so enjoy playing and relax, don't try to force your self to orgasm, just let go, and run with any sensations you give your self, where ever you find them up there; explore!

    Mastubating at the same time will help to start with, you can have a sort of blended anal/ejaculation orgasm. It is possible to have multiple orgasms one after the other with anal sex, and they tend to last longer, and are more intense.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946 this toy is great, glass toys are really slippery, it's not too big, if you are already into anal play; when you get more experience you can turn it round and use the large end first. It's bead like design stimulates the anus, if you go for a thrusting action.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29233 this one has a small handle end which you can put inside you, the other main action end is pretty girthy if you are new to anal play. But it really does the job.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17606 this is a good relaxing lube. I like to put some in me before a heavy pegging session.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=233 this is thick and doesn't dry out, it's fine for glass toys but may affect other types of toys, as it's not water based.

    Have fun, and I hope you find the zone soon.

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