• Newbie to spicing up the bedroom!

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    LottieLoves [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi guys! I'm new here, thanks for having me! :)

    Long story short, my boyfriend and I are looking to spice up things a little bit with a few toys for the bedroom, in particular for a naughty weekend away coming up where we won't have seen each other for 4 weeks.

    We haven't used toys together before although he has used toys in previous relationships and i've used a bullet on my own. I am also interested in anal. He has done it before whereas I haven't.

    If anyone has any advice on what to try, please let me know! Thank you!

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    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love my Happy Rabbit 2, I have the G spot version!

    I also love a vibrating butt plug, mine broke so I have bought another in a medium size, I'm yet to use it but I'm used to anal!

    Have fun! 4 weeks is a long time xxx

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    RiceC4ke [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi LottieLoves, welcome :) being a fairly Lovehoney newbie too I've already got a few favorites.

    Depending on what you are are into I would say lingerie, has quite the effect on my OH and would say these bad boys are just brilliant;

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30985

    Glass dildo, this feels amazing, and it's sooooo pretty too;

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946

    And you mentioned anal play, this is a good start......

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32887
    Just bear in mind if you are new to anal, take it slow and deffinitely deffinitely use lube - everything (seriously, pretty much everything, but most deffinitely anal) is better with lube!

    I hope you have a yummi dirty weekend. :P

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    Private_member [sign in to see picture]
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    One of the first toys we used together was this adjustable ring

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2589

    And if you want vibrations as well there is ...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24084

    I have just bought

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31172

    which is on sale and I know OH will love, very stretchy and you can put it on before getting hard which makes it easier.

    All of the above are adjustable so you don't have to worry about measuring.

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    grimejc [sign in to see picture]
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    check out a game called Monogamy. Definately a good way of building up sexual excitement and exploring each other after being apart.

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    grimejc wrote:

    check out a game called Monogamy. Definately a good way of building up sexual excitement and exploring each other after being apart.

    +1 A game is a great idea :) x

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    JJLWB [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there and welcome. The toys I'm recommending are my favourites that I own and that I think you might enjoy based on what you said:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31111

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35174

    I hope you find something you love :)

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome to the forums x

    Some great ideas suggested.....you could also look at the deals and offers to make your money go further ! Don't forget lube too xx

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    LottieLoves [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for all the suggestions and the warm welcome! Will definitely be looking in to those, making my first LoveHoney order tonight!

    I have another question...I want to try anal with my boyfriend and obviously need to work up to it. He's done it before and has enjoyed it a lot and his ex-girlfriend used to ask for it and enjoyed it too. So my question is how do I stop myself from feeling nervous and a little bit scared?! He is very good and has said no pressure and if I don't want to I don't have to and we can stop or not do it again if I don't like it but I just want to get a little more confident. Any articles I could read or things that would help me get over my nerves?

    Thanks again!

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    LottieLoves wrote:

    Thanks for all the suggestions and the warm welcome! Will definitely be looking in to those, making my first LoveHoney order tonight!

    I have another question...I want to try anal with my boyfriend and obviously need to work up to it. He's done it before and has enjoyed it a lot and his ex-girlfriend used to ask for it and enjoyed it too. So my question is how do I stop myself from feeling nervous and a little bit scared?! He is very good and has said no pressure and if I don't want to I don't have to and we can stop or not do it again if I don't like it but I just want to get a little more confident. Any articles I could read or things that would help me get over my nerves?

    Thanks again!

    Try playing anally on your own to start with just using your fingers and plenty of lube. That way you'll get used to the sensation of having something being inserted into you. The next step would be a smallish plug .....

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21767

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30704

    Something along the lines of these 2 would be ideal as they're nicely tapered so will be easy to insert. Or an anal probe would be good too.....

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8649

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041

    These 2 are good and not too big or intimidating. Once you've got used to the feeling of fingers and small anal toys you can progress to slightly larger ones with your partner. It may be a little while before you can have actual anal sex...particularly if your partner is a bit on the large side but you'll get there. But always remember .....plenty of lube. I've been having anal all my adult life and absolutely love it x

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