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    Masonbergin [sign in to see picture]
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    Young and not very experienced man hoping if you could help me with just a coupe of things ?
    Looking to add a few toys into my sex life to spice things up a little hoping for some advice on best way to have an orgasm giving and reviving oral thanks allot much appreciated xx

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    If I understand you are looking for advide to give good oral to a guy or to a girl?

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    Masonbergin [sign in to see picture]
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    Tips for me to give to a girl and for a girl to do with me also some advice on sex toys if possible thanks allot x

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah that's what I meant (sorry it was unclear) I can only give you tips for giving her, based on my experience.

    For toys, it depends on what types of toys you like or are looking for. In my opinion, bullet vibrators and vibrating cock rings can be a great addition to sex. Butt plugs and anal toys can be great in sex or oral, and dildos can be a great addition to oral sex in replacement of fingers (for dildos, I can't recommend this set enough: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187 )

    Now as for oral sex, still based on my experience, the key is to use variations. Before going down on hear, tease her, slowly caressing her body, touching her, licking her, playing with your fingers in that area (but also on her entire body), while letting her know what you're about to do. Do that untill she can't contain herself anymore and is begging for it. Then you cans tart performing oral on her, but don,t stop teasing her. Stop to kiss her, alternate between fingers and moutth. Look at her and act as if she was your favorite meal. Savour her. For the technique, I prefer a soft and relaxed thongue over a stiff one. I also like him to use his full mouth, as if he was kissing me. You can also try sucking on the clit or pressing it against her pubic bone with your thongue (if she likes it). Also, don't only focus on the clitoris, lick and touche her whole area and alternate. You can finger her at the same time, or use a toy. And finally, one of the most important thing in my opinion: keep her turned on. Don't simply concentrate on the clit, but stimulate her entire body, play with her nipple and breats, touch and grab her thights, ass, lips, spread her legs, etc. When she orgasms, don,t change what you are doing (but you can slow down just a bit), and when she's done, keep going and she'll maybe go for a second one (maybe with a squirting bonus too).

    I also find that I reach orgasm easier when I lay on my back with my knees brought up towards my chest and open wide (if this is clear?)

    Good luck!

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    Thank you both so much what a bunch of helpful people mamz would you move to the the Arse with the tongue and stimulate that also a iam a very open minded man and don't have a limit realy so anything kinda gose I love it when a women can cum in my mouth so oral is realy big turn on for me ? X

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    If she is open with it too why not? My OH loves to do this and at first I didn't feel much from it but I learn to like it and now it turns me on.

    Oh and I forgot to say but what applies to fingering here also applies to anal play :)

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    Ok nice so wilst licking her clit maybe try and finger her Arse at the same time ? X

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    If she is into it. You can finger both her vagina and her anus at the same time too if you both are into it.

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    The possibilities are endless ;)

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    I am very open and I think she is to we have tried full anal sex before she really enjoyed it make her squirt but is a bit shy of trying it again and do you like it with both holes ? X

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    Maybe you'd better make sure it is ok with her before trying to get something in there.

    I do like it but only when i'm in the mood the it and fully relaxed, otherwise it sometimes hurt. I'm not yet to try anal though, only fingers and toys for now.

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    Ok thanks for all your help she also likes things inside here to be big I am not massive but am a good size do you think maybe something a bit bigger ? I can give you my size if helps x

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    I think the best idea is to ask your girlfriend and order from here together with her so she gets things she would like and fel comfortable with :) You could tell her about your ideas and maybe she has some too and then you could find things you both like and find hot :)

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    If she likes girth then maybe this could be a tip:
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35432

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    Masonbergin [sign in to see picture]
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    That's looks great a tbh she has had a look and said a few thing but tbh putt the responsibility of picking and buying on to me she aslo is asking for tips and advice to x

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    Masonbergin wrote:

    Ok nice so wilst licking her clit maybe try and finger her Arse at the same time ? X

    Remember not to use the same finger for anus and vagina; best to use one hand for anus and one for vagina, or you may give her an infection.

    If you are licking her anus (rimming) make sure she is extra clean, again so you do not pass bacteria to her vagina, if you go there after. She may prefer you to go use some mouth wash inbetween, ask her what she is happy for you to do. Enjoy.

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    Masonbergin [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks allot

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    Yess PPLLLEEAASSSEEE be carefull with bacterias! The best as alone4ever said is to perform this when she is coming out of the shower, and if something goes in her anus, make sure is goes nowhere near her vagina!

    For the size and all, Why don't you just ask her? The best way to know what she wants and what she likes is to ask her. You can discuss this while you take a look of the site together so you have an idea what kind of things she would want to try.

    There is nothing wrong with asking her if she likes something while doing it on her. In fact it's the best way to have an idea and that way you make sure that she gets pleasure from the things you are trying.

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    You have already had so much great advice. I wanted to add (I don't think anyone has said this already) I think a blindfold increases the pleasure of oral so much and you can find them nice and cheap too :)
    Also if your partner is shy about anal perhaps an anal douche would make her feel more comfortable? I wouldn't consider anything anal unless I have used one first.

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