• herbivore man

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    marie84 [sign in to see picture]
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    i dont mean someone who eat only vegitables.

    i told some about us previous post.

    honestly, we have no much trouble, no many things to argue in daily life.

    but, my husband is herbivore man.

    sometimes we have sex, but it is usually little bored to me.

    i tried to talk about it sevral times.. but he seemed not much interested.

    the more my sexual drives growing, he is changing like female.

    likes to build prastic models.. tanks.. gundam..

    i dont think it's bad... but, necessarily my dissatisfaction is growing too.

    it's hard to talk to someone..

    i bet most think it's too small things..

    but, to me.. it's pretty much stress.

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    mrandmrsakn [sign in to see picture]
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    lots of little things are worse than one big thing.

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    marie84 [sign in to see picture]
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    mrandmrsakn wrote:

    lots of little things are worse than one big thing.

    not easy to mention about it again and agian with him.

    im strange but be..

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    Jay R [sign in to see picture]
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    Communication is the key, keep trying genlty and opening up to him about how you feel.

    It could be that he's sruggling internally with issues of arousal and potency and, like all men, bottling it up. It could even be as 'simple' as a loss of confidence in sexual situations.

    Try the talking method and strengthening the relationship.

    Lovehoney has lots of fun toys and outfits that can satisfy both of you too, maybe a tiny bit of sexual exploration will help to rekindle that passion too.

    I know it sounds cliche, but talking is the best way to move forward - it can be difficult and sometimes painful, but you'll come out stonger as a couple.

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Well I build plastic tanks and paint model soldiers. I don't hear my Mrs complaining espeiclally as it will mean we can retire a little earlier.

    Some guys need their hobbies and then some like me turn them into businesses .

    Doesn't mean your sex life needs to suffer again I don't hear my Mrs complaining.

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    It looks like you both need to have that "chat" with each other and get things on a better footing. Communication is key to a relationship as the others have already pointed out.

    Why not try and embrace his hobby perhaps get a sexy military uniform .It could be a way of doing more things together which I think is what is perhaps needed first. If he is a wargamer then let him teach you the basics and then game together . Loser can always do a sexy forfeit.

    But whatever you decide to do you both need to talk to each other for anything to work.

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    marie84 [sign in to see picture]
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    mysteron wrote:

    Well I build plastic tanks and paint model soldiers. I don't hear my Mrs complaining espeiclally as it will mean we can retire a little earlier.

    Some guys need their hobbies and then some like me turn them into businesses .

    Doesn't mean your sex life needs to suffer again I don't hear my Mrs complaining.

    i want believe that i couldnt explain more well cuz my terribel english skill.

    hmmm.. actually, i never blame him by such hobbies.

    and i think those are mentaly much healthy hobbies too.

    although i know it's hard to fit each other with every points of life

    it's hard thing to feel great difference of sexual tastes.

    i cant explain every situations... cuz those can make other misunderstood..

    by english or other things...

    i know there is no way except "talk".

    i tried sevral times, i realized "difference" again and again.

    yes.. it is jsut complain.

    just small complain ...

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    How old are you both?

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    marie84 [sign in to see picture]
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    Stuburns wrote:

    How old are you both?

    36 / 31

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    Sailor77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Slowly start to introduce him to the things you enjoy in the bedroom, take him by surprise and add a twist each time X

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