• Hot or Not??

    Mike and Shell [sign in to see picture]
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    As a bi F, I like for my fiancé and I to play a game we call hot or not, when we're out for a night, we discuss females we find attractive and rate them between us, on a scale of 1-5, discussing if we'd like to kiss, bed or wed them, does anyone do this or anything similar?

    JJLWB [sign in to see picture]
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    Not exactly like that but we always discuss other people we find attractive when we're out. All part of a healthy relationship in my opinion. My OH loves the idea of seeing me with another woman so loves it when I point women out that I find attractive.

    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Sort of thing I do with my friends rather than my Partner. :)

    Hanky Spanky! [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH would go mental if I started rating other people when we are out... I think?

    honeybun91 [sign in to see picture]
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    I wouldn't with people I've been with just cuz they would get jealous easily. Altho if your both doing it don't see the problem lol

    loganlogan [sign in to see picture]
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    My girlfriend/ex girlfriend (I don't know what's happening,see my rant)would occasionally mention famous people she likes and the odd real world person.i always found it a little off and didn't like it.it was never serious and it wasn't anything that caused upset but I don't like it.
    I know we all think about other people/fantasise one way or another but saying it out loud to your boyfriend/girlfriend I find a little disrespectful of their feelings.
    If your rating people do you tell your partner how you score them too?I love you and your a 4,the person at the bar is a 5?
    Maybe saying it out loud is better than just thinking it but I think sometimes it's better to not play games that however innocently they start can cause deep upset.or maybe I'm taking thing too seriously

    delilahxx [sign in to see picture]
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    I do this with him, but more people on the TV or online, I think I'd get too jealous otherwise!

    loganlogan [sign in to see picture]
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    That's kind of what I was eluding to.the fantasy aspect of famous people is one thing but real people you know or see in everyday life is something else

    Sxleksaker [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my OH use to watch porn together and I usually comment on girls I think are hot and he likes this and often agrees with me. But I don't think he would dare to say someone is hot if I didn't ask him or said it myself first :)

    johnandkatie [sign in to see picture]
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    we are happy and secure in our relationship that if we did this or anything else on a night we would be ok with it as long as both agrreed i think trying stuff is exciting as long as both people agree and then decide weather to do again or not its about trust and knowing weather it is ok with your partner or not

    collector [sign in to see picture]
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    Isn't this a bit like the old joke? A woman asks her man "if you were to imagine having a threesome with me and another woman, who would you fantasise about? You can pick anyone, a film star or sportswoman, a politician even, anyone." The man says "Oh, I don't know. I really can't say". So, the wife says "Go on, it's just a bit of fun. I'll start. "Oh, alright then" he says. The woman looks him in the face and with a glint in her eye she says "George Clooney. He's just so mmmmmmm!". She smiles at her husband and asks "Go on then, your turn?". "Your sister" he says.

    bex1213 [sign in to see picture]
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    No way. I am far too insecure for that. Plus, his fantasy is MMF so it's not quite the same anyway.

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